Body of thought

A place where you can call home and dance to the rhythm all night long, a word that you can recall on your own company and put it into a love song, a belief which you can always depend on and will never go wrong, a story where the good outweighs the bad...

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Harapan

Langit bersemu merah merona menyejukan jiwa menyunggingkan senyum yg terlepas manja kala harapan itu ada Aku kembali tersenyum Aku kembali bahagia Engkau yg tak pernah kuduga datang membawa ceria Engkau yg tak pernah kutunggu merajutkan asa Namun kini langit berubah gelap Menyentakan suara dan getaran yg trs ada Hujan pun tak henti derasnya Mengubah harapan menjadi hampa Menghapus senyum di wajah Menggoreskan luka Kini langit berganti warna Wajah pun tak lagi sama

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Self-made man/woman ?? I dont believe it. Behind every great man, there’s a great woman.. Behind every successful man or woman, there are people like family, friends, colleages, coaches, mentors, competitors, antagonists, etc. A succesful man or woman are the person whose heart and mind are at peace both at work and at home.. It does not mean that those who face stress at work are not successful.. Successful men are ready to face challenges and handle stress with their positive energy, the source of which may largely originate from their homes.. So, the stability of home condition and the relationship with people around them absolutely affect the mental condition and indirectly can affect to success.. Am i right?

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What’s the difference between like, love, and in-love? How do you know when you love someone instead of just liking them a lot? How do you know when you’re “in-love” with someone instead of just loving them as a person? I asked a bunch of friends these questions, and got a huge variety of answers: “If I like anything about someone, I like them. If I like everything about someone, I love them. If I like everything about someone and we have great sex, I’m in love.” “Like is liking someone, but conditionally. Love is liking someone unconditionally. In-love is just glorification of a temporary infatuation. Eventually it becomes love.” “This sounds morbid, but I think of it in terms of how I’d react if they died. If I like someone and they died, I’d be sad and cry once or twice. If I love someone and they died, I’d be devastated and cry for days or weeks. If I’m in love with someone and they died, I’d want to die too.” How do you know? From Derek Sivers’s Blog http://sivers.org/inlove

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Lagi sorting notes mana aja yg mau dicopy ke tumblr dan lihat ini masih ketawa 😸🐠

Finding someone to share your life with is not like finding nemo.. You need to be comfort to share your thought, your secret, and everything, the good and the bad, even the fight.. Jd walaupun kata orang ban yak ikan di laut tp kan ga semua ikan enak diajak ngomong, yes?

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21.07.2017

Actually i’m notvthe kind of person who likes blogging or writing, but i just like to write down my thoughts into media to make me feel released. I really enjoy coffee and company and talking with people who have same thought with me but it’s just like that, i dont have capability to share my feelings with others whom not related with the situation or the problem. I have very good capability to express and tell my thought towards someone but not capable to share it with others. I dont know i just cant find the right words and feel to share it without me being seen as an object, if u know what i mean, or maybe i just dont feel comfortable to share it actually, hence i really enjoy note down my feelings and thoughts into writing, if u read my notes in iphone u can not finish it in one day lol. Hmm sometimes i just like the idea to express it into writing, i am very comfortable with that. It’s just like one of million way to healing. And i like the idea that i can control my feeling and thought if i just write it but not share it to anyone, cause by writing it down to notes i can prevent to writing it into texting or socmed hehehe.. But sometimes it’s just so weird, just like what i’m doing now, sometimes i just want to express something into writing but i dont really know what i want to write, so this is it, it’s my random thought while waiting my 🚗 air conditioner getting compressor replacement, tadaaa 🤷🏻‍♀️😆

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20.07.2017 [midnight solace]

Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Loves is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful. Love take no pleasure in others people’s sins, but delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes.

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20.07.2017 Love and compatibility When you love someone, it is pretty effortless. It is true and pure – you don’t need them to be any certain way. Heck, you don’t even need them to be your boyfriend or lover. You just simply enjoy them as a person and you’re happy with them just being who they are. You don’t need to possess them. You don’t need a title from them. You just love having them in your life and they love being in yours, whether it’s as friends, as lovers, or as life partners.
Again, I have to emphasize that it’s effortless and characterized by you just simply enjoying each other. You really “get” each other. You laugh together. You don’t need them, but rather, you just enjoy them.
That’s love. That’s compatibility.

eric charles

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24.06.2017

Mengapa manusia ga bisa merasa cukup dgn kebahagiaan yg sudah ada skrg tp msh membandingkan dgn kebahagiaan yg luar biasa? Bukankah seharusnya bahagia saja itu sudah cukup? Tuhan tidak kasih km sedih yg spt dl tp sudah diberi bahagia yg lbh dr cukup dgn kebaikan2 yg ada, lantas mengapa km masih mengingat yg belum tentu akan trs baik bagimu walau bahagianya luar biasa.. Itu namanya tdk bersyukur ! Saya tdk bersyukur.. Jgn biarkan godaan yg bahagianya luar biasa membuatmu mengesampingkan bahagia yg biasa saja.. Hidup itu pilihan.. 😇

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05.07.2017

Yuhuuuu since when u’re being an expert of myself and my life? 😂😂😂 Walau saya udah ga disana, telinga saya banyak lhoo disana yg crt ke saya 😜 Suka heran kok dr dl ngurusin saya bgt yaaa 😅 smp saya udah ga disana masiiih aja diurusin 😅😅 ngefans sm saya? Yakaan yakaaan ngaku aja deh 😜😜😜 herannya kok sok update bgt yaaa soal saya padahal saya diem aja dan kita ga pernah interaksi jg 😅 sirik tanda apa hayooo? Naah udh tau kan jawabannya makanya kurang2in deeh, urusin yg penting2 aja yaa 😇

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04.07.2017

Some people judge me based on my lifestyle, some of my circle, and how i socialize with people.. They dont even know who i am, they’re not my bff who know about me, what values i hold, what thoughts i share.. I’m just modern-traditional ambivert woman.. Dont overrated me, dont underestimate me, i’m just ordinary me with extraordinary network.. Just because i’m nice to everyone and like making friends with all type and various people doesnt mean that i’ll be like one of them or i’ll be indecisive.. I am myself and i know what i want.. I have friends with various type of person and culture, i do respect all of them with their choices and value they hold, and i never choose whether they should be good or bad to be my friend.. Because variaty make you learn and rich.. It’s simple, as long as they treat me right or our personalities are compatible, or we have common interests, or we have same values and thoughts, etc, etc, we can be friends.. Why should I only be friends with those whom people say are good if I can also be friends with those whom people say are no good while I can share good things or take lessons from them? We’re not God to judge people with good or bad stamp.. People said that ur friends are reflection of u.. I disagree with their belief.. The fact is u are the master of urself, u decide who and what u are, u are the one who have to choose who u want to be, either good or bad is ur personal choice.. So, it’s better for them to mind their own business, stop trashtalking and bitching about people before they ashame for not keeping their mouth shut and regret it.. 😇

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23.05.2017

Bagi beberapa orang mungkin menyenangkan bisa mendapat cincin ini, saat dl saya bercerita bahwa abang meminta saya tetap menyimpan cincin pemberiannya wkt saya ingin mengembalikannya saat pamit bulan lalu, tp bagi saya cincin ini punya nilai sentimentil yg tinggi krn cincin ini cincin saat dia propose saya, dan skrg saya merasa ga bisa lg memakainya krn hanya mengingatkan saya dgn dia.. Melepaskan cincin ini dr jari saya bukan berarti melupakan begitu saja semuanya, apalah arti sebuah benda, hanya pengingat, hanya status, tp makna hubungan bukanlah sekedar status.. “Jual aja”, kata mereka, tp saya jg tidak tega menjualnya dan ingin tetap menyimpan kenangan yg ada, ya walaupun rencana kami hanya tinggal rencana dan usaha keras kami tidak berhasil jg, tp paling tidak kita berdua punya visi misi yg sama, tidak ada satu pun hal di dunia yg dapat meniadakannya.. Perpisahan bukan berarti melenyapkan.. Tp menyimpannya di kotak perhiasan pun bukan jalan keluar yg sempurna, setiap membuka kotak saya tetap melihatnya, mungkin akan lebih baik jika dikirim padanya, terserah mau diapakan jg.. Dulu waktu saya patah hati krn mantan saya yg dulu selingkuh, saya sakitnya luar biasa padahal hubungan memang dr awal kurang ideal dan kurang harmonis, tp ternyata skrg baru menyadari bahwa melupakan suatu hubungan yg baik itu sakitnya lebih luar biasa dan jauh lebih sulit, tp saya percaya semua ini krn faktor kebiasaan jg.. Terbiasa bersamanya, terbiasa setiap hari melihatnya, terbiasa mencarinya saat dia tiba2 menghilang seharian tak ada di tempatnya krn sibuk meeting seharian back to back dan ga ada WA atau office communicator dr dia, terbiasa utk tidak WA cm nanya “km dmn” saat saya tau kl dia ngilang pasti meeting atau ngopi dibawah sambil beli roti sm anak2 basket spt kebiasaan saya dan teman2 saya, terbiasa WA sore2 “turun yuk” atau “ke pantry donk” atau “kangen” kl dia sibuknya luar biasa, terbiasa dpt office communicator atau WA yg tiba2 masuk di siang2 bolong isinya cm “dmn seharian ngilang” atau “lunch berdua yuk” atau sore2 cm isi “turun yuk” atau “kabur bentar yuk” atau hal2 random lain semacam “besok cuti yuk” atau “nanti siang halfday yuk mau driving/nonton final nba di tv” pokoknya adaaa aja, terbiasa utk tidak rungsing kl seharian dia sibuk krn pasti akan ada notifikasi wajahnya di layar hp saat menjelang pulang dan saat sudah di rumah sblm dia tidur utk cerita apa aja, terbiasa utk manja pada tempatnya, terbiasa utk tidak terlalu mandiri, terbiasa dgn hubungan yg balance tidak ada yg lebih dominan, terbiasa utk mengeluhkan semua kepenatan kejenuhan kerjaan atau apapun kepadanya, terbiasa mendengarkan semua keluh kesahnya, terbiasa share cita2 dan mimpi bersama, terbiasa saling bantu saat ada masalah, terbiasa dicuekin kl dia lg jealeous atau marah dgn aksi diem lama bgt smp akhirnya saya cuekin balik aja bodo amat 😂, terbiasa dgn tingkah gengsinya wkt ngajak baikan tetap dgn sok cool tp butuh 😂, terbiasa ngomong sedikit kata singkat padat dalem tegas kl saya lg marah yg akhirnya bikin dia ngalah 😂, terbiasa dgn dia yg ga romantis dan cuek 😑, terbiasa dgn kejutan hal kecil tiba2 yg kayak bukan dia bgt, terbiasa dgn karakternya yg pas sesuai yg saya mau dan saya butuh yg cuek tidak needy dan tdk posesif tp tetap butuh dan tetap perhatian, terbiasa kompromi dgn mudah, terbiasa dgn drama putus nyambung yg ga ada habis2nya krn keyakinan dan keluarga saya, terbiasa banyak lagi lainnya yg harusnya saya lupakan bukan malah saya ingat2 skrg 😅😅😅 Ya, semua hanya masalah kebiasaan bukan? Jika saya sudah keluar dr kebisaan bertemu setiap hari dgnnya dlm sebulan ini dan saya rasa saya kuat, saya percaya kebiasaan2 yg lain pun bisa saya rubah menjadi tidak biasa.. 😇 Semua bilang semoga nanti ktm yg spt abang lg, semua salah, bukan dirinyalah yg saya rindukan tp sosoknya dan bentuk hubungan kami berdua.. Sosoknya yg sangat mengerti saya dan mengerti bagaimana menyikapi saya, dia tau kapan harus mencari saya dan kapan tidak perlu khawatir sehingga terkesan cuek tp tetap perhatian, dr sananya dasarnya emg udh cuek dan krn dia tau saya ga bergantung jd dia bisa cuek dgn tenang, dia tau kpn saya membutuhkan dia tanpa saya hrs bilang walau saya menghindar, dia tau apa arti diam saya apakah butuh space atau butuh dia, dia tau saya mandiri walau manja, dia tau saya manja walau mandiri, dia tau kpn hrs memanjakan saya, dia ngerti kl saya manjanya lg kebangetan pas lg dapet atau lg sakit dia hrs gmn, dia mengerti kl saya cuek saat sedang sibuk, dia tau how and when saat yg tepat utk complain saat saya terlalu sibuk dimana dia sedang tidak sibuk, dia mengerti utk tidak rewel mengganggu saya spt mantan saya saat saya sedang sibuk cukup satu statement dr dia sudah cukup baginya, dia menghargai kebebasan saya dan kebutuhan saya akan space utk diri sendiri keluarga ataupun teman2 krn dia pun punya kebutuhan yg sama, dia tau kpn hrs mengontrol saya dan kapan hrs membiarkan saya mengekspresikan diri saya, dia tau kpn hrs bertindak sbg leader dan kpn hrs menyamakan dan meminta pendapat saya, dia smart dan bisa saya jadikan teladan sbg good leader, dll segalanya klik spt menemukan missing puzzle.. Dia memang ga sempurna, kadang egois, kdg keras kepala, kekeuh kl punya mau, ya sama2 lah, banyak sifat yg sama, dia dl bad boy yg ga baik dan track recordnya dgn cw2 di masa2 lalunya kurang bagus terutama saat masa2 jayanya saat masih bergabung di club under IBL pro, tp dia apa adanya dan jujur ttg semuanya, yg membuat saya respect dgn dia.. Mungkin bagi orang2 dia tetap bad boy dan saya bodoh krn saya deserve better tp bagi saya lebih baik mantan bad boy yg jujur dari pada mantan good boy.. Dia ga lurus tp ga menyimpang bgt, belok2 aja.. Sosoknya pas 😇

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Hi !

Well, this is just one of my randomness. Actually i never really think to start blogging but since i dont want to fill my path timeline with my random thought and fill my iphone memory with notes (sumpah banyak bgt) so i was like ‘heyy i think i should make a blog !’ to express my random thoughts about *anything* that always pop up whenever..whereever..like…i’m in live-action version of VH-1 pop-up video ?? 🤔

*anything* : my dislike, any thoughts and emotion about everything that i can not express to something/someone lol (kl yg positif i think di socmed gpp jd ga perlu difilter masuk kesini yakaaan 😅) #anaknyakritis #apaadanya #bukanadaapanya 😜

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Hi ! Welcome to me n me 🙆🏻

Well, this blog actually is just a random action of mine since i like to express my thought about anything (anything : my dislike, any thoughts and emotion about everything that i can not express to something/someone hehe) into writing but have no media to express it (i used to post it on path lol) then it just came up in my mind like "hey I think i should make a blog!" 😄 So i think this blog will contain of my random thoughts about anything and everything that always pop up whenever..whereever..like…i’m in live-action version of VH-1 pop-up video ?? 💁🏻