this blog is wht my brain looks like

       | this started out as a mental illess and vent blog, but tbh idk what it is now | feel free to message me anytime or send me asks ! | here's my About Me for more info ! (asherblandon.carrd.co) side blog: @dangerousllydainty | 

[positivelly-pessimisticc]

here’s a little about me

🦋name: asher (also sometimes called ashe, ash, or dumbass it depends) 🦋age: 16 🦋birthday: december 11th, 2004 🦋zodiac: sagittarius 🦋sexual identity: they/he nb; afab; femme  🦋sexual orientation: omnisexual (leaning more towards girls, but i like anyone with a great personality tbh) 🦋i’m always welcoming to new mutuals, so if you’re ever having a bad day or even a really good day n wanna tell someone ab it, i’m here for that ! wanna send memes? i’m here for that too ! message me anytime or send me asks n i’ll be sure to respond (: 🦋this is a safe space so all entities are welcome here ! all except transphobes, terfs, nazis, homophobes, racists, any supporters of them or anyone who’s just plain rude n inconsiderate of others feelings, beliefs, or appearance. otherwise, welcome (:

about me: asherblandon.carrd.co

[figremedy-deactivated20260223]

me, trying to drown my 7 mental illnesses in green tea: go ahead and have a fucking sip babes

[1dietcokeinacan]

I think what really gets to me about Instagram is how it forces u to interact with the gaze that ppl see themselves thru — and legitimizes the need for that gaze to exist at all. Every post is enveloped in the sticky film of the poster’s internalized anxiety about the quality of their own performance of themselves. There is nothing good about a world where we have become so accustomed to watching us watch us that we’ve stopped differentiating between the people we are and the people we think we need to appear to be to trick the watcher in our heads into telling us we’re worthy

[lilacwine1966-deactivated202212]

There is nothing more tender than playing with someone’s hands…..it sounds so dumb but stroking each other’s palms & tapping on each other’s wrists & twisting your fingers together & squeezing each other’s hands…..it’s like having a conversation that no one else can hear!

[ayay]

wishing all my asian american mutuals a very safe and good day today

[ayay]

google doc full of donation links and resources

[remanence-of-love]

[wifiwife]

full offence but you deserve to be at peace with being alive

[lungslit]

[c-bassmeow]

I got a man and you can’t do anything ABOUT IT

[romcommunist]

*cups my own face tenderly* its gonna be okay babe

[positivelly-pessimisticc]

sorry i never opened what you said i was too busy wrapped up in my head don’t wanna seem eager, i gotta be cool the last thing i want is to look like a fool

- sorry haha i fell asleep, egg

[qvotable]

I don’t want you to look at me and feel nothing.

Unknown (via qvotable)

[four-toed-creed]

[conscious-love]

You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.

Maya Angelou

[mazzes-deactivated20250218]

i want to smoke crack with her

[dulect]

when that one person you hate in your class speaks

[positivelly-pessimisticc]

I’m sorry..I guess that was really not helpful.. I hope I didn’t piss you IFF

oh no don’t worry, it’s okie love, i’m not angry at all n u didn’t annoy me or anything <3 i appreciate u caring n i hope ur having a good day