PositivelyPoly

Polyamorous - Multigender - (He/Him They/Them, Xe/Xem) - Anticringe culture - gaymer - furry - emo (affectionate) - kink culture <3

[yardsards]

the girl i am referring to when i say "girl help" and the man i am referring to when i say "oh man" are The Same

[latinotiktok]

PROPAGANDA PARA URUGUAY:

En ingles casi dice "u r gay", que mas podrian querer?

LATINOAMERICA HAS GONE WOKE?????

U R GAY? ARGENSHE/HER??? CHILEY DE MATRIMONIO IGUALITARIO??? PARADYKE??? GAYTEMALA? COLOMBISEXUAL?

[latinotiktok]

VENEZUELLE??? HE/HIMDURAS???

BRASIL.

MEXIJOTO???? ENBYDOR???

[womanman]

“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities

[echoeyee]

the phrase "you can do whatever you want forever" has genuinely done wonders for the way i think about gender. you can literally just do whatever you want. forever.

[radioactive-yuri]

trans positivity blogs that have "dni: cis people" in their bios owe every multigender person 20 bucks

[genderqueerdykes]

the reason why you can't define gay as "man loving man", or define lesbian as "woman loving woman", or define trans as "person who has dysphoria and identifies as the 'opposite' gender " is because all queer identities defy being defined in a reductive, singular statement. the entire point of these identities are that they cannot fit inside the rigid boxes of what gender, sexuality & expression "should" be according to our societies.

people with these identities will always break the rules. we will always blur the lines and exist outside of the boundaries you set around us. you can't try to force us into boxes and hard definitions all over again, we intrinsically defy them no matter what.

[blood-moon-night-coining]

Multigender Genderfuckoff Terms

[PT: Multigender Genderfuckoff Terms]

Multigenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Mutligender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Mutligender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Mutligender and being done explaining yourself.

Bigenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Bigender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Bigender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Bigender and being done explaining yourself.

Trigenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Trigender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Trigender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Trigender and being done explaining yourself.

Polygenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Polygender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Polygender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Polygender and being done explaining yourself.

Pangenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Pangender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Pangender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Pangender and being done explaining yourself.

[Mutligender ID: none yet]

[Bigender ID: none yet]

[Trigender ID: none yet]

[Polygender ID: none yet]

[Pangender ID: none yet]

[Tagging] @radiomogai, @liom-archive, and @accessmogai

[Genderfuckoff Maker] @acetrappolaswife

LOOK AT MY DNI IN PIN

[positivelypoly]

iconic energy here

[auntbibby]

is multigender the same thing as genderfluid????? im confused.

is multigender "all my genders at the same time" and genderfluid "taking turns between my genders"?

does "nonbinary trans woman" count as multigender? cuz sometims i wonder if that fits me

[positivelypoly]

I’ve always thought multigender was an umbrella term of sorts. Genderfluid, nonbinary, bigender, trigender, trans etc all can be multigender if you want ya know?

[uncanny-tranny]

One reason you might not be very "good" about a trans loved one's pronouns or the language you use for them might stem from memorizing what they want, rather than actually changing how you view them.

For instance, my trans friend came out rather late compared to me. However, since internalizing that I wasn't really correct about who she is, because she's a woman and I didn't know that, it was instantaneous to refer to her by her name, to use language that accurately reflects her instead of what I thought she was.

When you actually internalize that a loved one is actually this way instead of what you thought, it makes it so much easier to truly and actually change your perspective on them.

In short, are you memorizing who they are, or are you actually learning who they are?

[jude-us]

A lot of what transphobes call rapid onset gender dysphoria is just. Trans kids realizing they have a choice. I was “fine” wearing a dress a year ago. Yeah I would have disliked it, I would feel bad in it. (Bad in a way I can’t really describe like I wanted to rip my own skin off like I was on stage with single spotlight on me and people laughing,Iike an animal in a cage) but I could do it. It wasn’t until I started dressing more masculine that I realized how miserable dressing fem made me. How wrong it felt. Now the idea of having to put on a dress and heels is distressing because I know how much better I can feel. I know I don’t have to feel bad anymore. And I don’t want to go back.



[positivelypoly]

I love having lgbt friends they just get me I don’t gotta be cis core around them.

[espurrre-deactivated20231202]

I have been thinking long and hard for the past few days... I feel as though despite being transmasculine, my feminimity is so core to me as a person. My experiences living as someone who is afab have shaped me so specifically, and it feels as though I am not allowed to let the female me, who i grew up as, live alongside me as a transman. I wish it wasn't the case. I don't want my female self to die when I fully transition.. I want her to be a part of me, I want her to live on, knowing her male self is working towards being better, and making the world a more accepting place for her like she wanted. She is so important to me, in so many ways.. But she does not feel the same as I am now. She does not feel this dysphoria, or discomfort in her own body, but she is the same as I am... I don't know if I'm writing this well enough for people to understand.. I guess I just have seperated myself now and my younger self, and I don't want her to just not exist once I transition.

[positivelypoly]

Being trans in the classroom can be so damn isolating.

[lazylittledragon]

good evening please look at my favourite tattoo i've ever designed

[pupdisorder-deactivated20230912]

because apparently this needs to be brought up again: the non-man loving non-man and non-woman loving non-woman definitions of gay & lesbian enforce a binary and are inherently harmful towards multigendered individuals.

you are free to use these definitions, if you desire, but do not force them upon others. i do not want to be involved in your binary nor do many other people.

queer love for women and queer love for men are 100% acceptable definitions.

[positivelypoly]

My friend believes there aren’t upsides to being trans. I’m ever the optimist and I would love to hear ya’ll answers serious or joke whatever. The upside of being trans is….

[chainsawing]

butch lesbian trans women & fem gay trans guys should get 1 billion dollars each. for holding up society