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Chick Fil A Chicken Nuggets Recipe

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Is this how you roll?

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Cheesy Garlic Butter Baby Potatoes

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Is this how you roll?

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15 Minute Chicken Broccoli

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SLOW COOKER BEEF MACARONI STUFFED PEPPERS

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[purplechocolatekisses]

Help Everyone Find A Job In Their Field

[afroclusterfunk]

Money cat can only do so much

[niambi]

I’m????

[alarajrogers]

Oh my God this actually explains so much.

So there’s a known thing in the study of human psychology/sociology/what-have-you where men are known to, on average, rely entirely on their female romantic partner for emotional support. Bonding with other men is done at a more superficial level involving fun group activities and conversations about general subjects but rarely involves actually leaning on other men or being really honest about emotional problems. Men use alcohol to be able to lower their inhibitions enough to expose themselves emotionally to other men, but if you can’t get emotional support unless you’re drunk, you have a problem.

So men need to have a woman in their lives to have anyone they can share their emotional needs and vulnerabilities with. However, since women are not socialized to fear sharing these things, women’s friendships with other women are heavily based on emotional support. If you can’t lean on her when you’re weak, she’s not your friend. To women, what friendship is is someone who listens to all your problems and keeps you company.

So this disconnect men are suffering from is that they think that only a person who is having sex with you will share their emotions and expect support. That’s what a romantic partner does. But women think that’s what a friend does. So women do it for their romantic partners and their friends and expect a male friend to do it for them the same as a female friend would. This fools the male friend into thinking there must be something romantic there when there is not.

This here is an example of patriarchy hurting everyone. Women have a much healthier approach to emotional support – they don’t die when widowed at nearly the rate that widowers die and they don’t suffer emotionally from divorce nearly as much even though they suffer much more financially, and this is because women don’t put all their emotional needs on one person. Women have a support network of other women. But men are trained to never share their emotions except with their wife or girlfriend, because that isn’t manly. So when she dies or leaves them, they have no one to turn to to help with the grief, causing higher rates of death, depression, alcoholism and general awfulness upon losing a romantic partner. 

So men suffer terribly from being trained in this way. But women suffer in that they can’t reach out to male friends for basic friendship. I am not sure any man can comprehend how heartbreaking it is to realize that a guy you thought was your friend was really just trying to get into your pants. Friendship is real. It’s emotional, it’s important to us. We lean on our friends. Knowing that your friend was secretly seething with resentment when you were opening up to him and sharing your problems because he felt like he shouldn’t have to do that kind of emotional work for anyone not having sex with him, and he felt used by you for that reason, is horrible. And the fact that men can’t share emotional needs with other men means that lots of men who can’t get a girlfriend end up turning into horrible misogynistic people who think the world owes them the love of a woman, like it’s a commodity… because no one will die without sex. Masturbation exists. But people will die or suffer deep emotional trauma from having no one they can lean on emotionally. And men who are suffering deep emotional trauma, and have been trained to channel their personal trauma into rage because they can’t share it, become mass shooters, or rapists, or simply horrible misogynists.

The only way to fix this is to teach boys it’s okay to love your friends. It’s okay to share your needs and your problems with your friends. It’s okay to lean on your friends, to hug your friends, to be weak with your friends. Only if this is okay for boys to do with their male friends can this problem be resolved… so men, this one’s on you. Women can’t fix this for you; you don’t listen to us about matters of what it means to be a man. Fix your own shit and teach your brothers and sons and friends that this is okay, or everyone suffers.

[dollbeshop]

The next time a guy says, “What? You don't want to be my friend?” I’ll text him this and then ask if he really wants to be friends or just have another potential girlfriend.

[sounddesignerjeans-deactivated2]

y’all I am living for these analyses where the new way to fight the patriarchy is to teach men to love each other and themselves

[astronomically-androngynous]

Im a communication student and can confirm the above is absolutely 100% accurate and it’s called agentic vs communal friendship theorized by Steven McCornack

[taichi-kungfu-online]

Workout For Daily Life

[chitarra10]

Reblogging for the neck pain ones… whoa Nelly, do I ever get the most killer neck pains.

[theshitneyspears]

Oh……..my god

[flashinqlights]

ok so there’s a game me and my friends play called “don’t get me started” and basically someone gives another person a random topic and they have to go on an angry rant about it and it’s the best thing that’s ever happened to us at parties and car rides so I highly recommend playing sometimes with your friends

[blueandbluer]

I love this idea. We used to do things like this in Improv.

[whatyouwanted-whatyougot]

Related game: “THINK ABOUT IT.” You’re given a random topic, and your job is to build it into an epic conspiracy theory, the crazier the better. You end your rant with a serious face and the command that your listeners “Think about it.” 

[astrojukebox]

Another related game: Illuninati. Similar to Think About It except you are given 2 completely different topics and you have to connect them to each other in a wild conspiracy rant

[a-simpler-life]

Rb to safe an awkward hang out

[buzzfeedtasty]

Mac And Cheese As Made By Terry Crews

[thank-you-everyone-deactivated2]

his voice is like grass-fed organic butter kneaded by friendly old ladies

[justcariii]

Saves video

[afrocosm-deactivated20231121]

His voice is so soothing

[erinthebrave]

How do you save the video?

[tinydramatist]

Can someone give him a cooking show

[lockando]

rihanna like or reblog if u save it

[foodffs]

These grilled chicken tenders are marinated in lemon, garlic, herbs and olive oil, then grilled to golden brown perfection. The ultimate easy main course for summer time!

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Is this how you roll?

[traykidd1-deactivated20180112]

[tastyblkman2]

EXACTLY.. How I feel.. 

[skottfrii-deactivated20180916]

This lil nigga so CUTE tho 😍😍😍

[yung-starbucks-deactivated20210]

Sometimes when I’m bored..I ghostwrite Nicki Minaj lyrics in my head….like..things she’d say in a song.

[yung-starbucks-deactivated20210]

For example

“ Bitches is my sons, but I didn’t ABort it

All my records sale/sail you can all Aboard it

Just cop the whip but you can’t Afford it

You can’t relate you Honda Accord it!”

[monogamous-nympho-deactivated20]

The fact that I read this in her voice in my head 😂😂😂

[yung-starbucks-deactivated20210]

😂I love Nicki but she’d drop this then tweet “niggas don’t support real lyricist!”

[chavonj-deactivated20230101]

“And this is the Fax according to me

If you can’t afford a car, you can’t roll with me

Got that pussy on swerve, but pull over please

What you thought? That a bitch would ride dick for free?!”

[yung-starbucks-deactivated20210]

“Ride for free!? Nah, imma needa service FEE

You can catch me getting a tan, Over Seas!

She needed a PaP! I ain’t talkin Ovaries!”

[d-e-l-ete-d-deactivated20181014]

When the album droppin?

[d-e-l-ete-d-deactivated20181014]

Im krusty krab.. yall dumb bitches Chum bucket

Got that Wet pussy, he eat it on the beach…

What we call that? BIKINI BOTTOM

[yung-starbucks-deactivated20210]

I’m the Professor you my kid, BLOSSOM

I Dodge’em like the bus in Rock BOTTOM

Yes, rock bottom Squarepants spongeBOB’EM

I Made them all FALL like leaves in AUTUMN

Real big PROBLEM but NO you can’t Solve’EM

[rumourdaledotcom]

Yeah bitch, do the math

And carry the one

Ya could never get a hit

He one night it and done

[yung-starbucks-deactivated20210]

I’m wifey hun, they never one night me HUN

I’m Bruce Lee with the CHUCKS

Chun-Li with the Buns

I’m Vegeta, You Trunks

Dr.Sues in the Booth

Number one with the Puns

[kaylasays]

Never let a nigga come back for more

These niggas is all dogs, they eat down on four

I give him good pussy, fuck your nigga in a Honda

He freeze like T'Challa, send that nigga to Wakanda

Ain’t got no kids, left them bitches in the condom

Ain’t got no dick, but he love my anaconda

[yung-starbucks-deactivated20210]

I’m the best with the Rhymes! SHONDA

Get it!? Rhimes! That’s a double Entendre

You not my son, you my niece

Call me Aunt TONDRA

Gofundme and I still wouldn’t go fund’ya

What rhymes with that? Idk Jane Fonda!

[monsttarchive]

y'all what’s them pants called with the patterns that make ever girls booty look big?

[amyhennessyhouse]

I just call them booty pants. But I know what you talking bout 😂😂😂😂

[monsttarchive]

everybody drop a pic under this in some booty pants

[goddessevrth-deactivated2023072]

[thebat-mell]

[blvckgeezus]

God made booty pants personally

[bahablastt-deactivated20210304]

My favorite kind of pants 😁

[itmustblife]

^^^🤤

[cheaphalloweencostume]

I was asking myself just now why they have “16 and pregnant” but not “16 and impregnated a girl” but I realized it would be pretty boring to watch a 16 year old boy play video games and go to school and live life as normal

[eclaire89]

Whoop there it is

[grumpy-radfem]

also:

[themanicpixiedreamgrrrl]

[ninthwardjawn-deactivated201902]

Ma, what's a good sex playlist?

Beyoncé - Speechless 

Drake feat. Lloyd - A Night Off

Electrik Red - Go Shawty

Sevyn Streeter - Come On Over 

J. Holiday - Bed

J. Holiday - Lights Go Out

Jamie Foxx - Do What It Do

Lloyd - Year of the lover 

Maxwell - This Woman’s Work

Twista - Wetter

Beyoncé - Naughty Girl

Miguel - Arch N’ Point

Ying Yang Twins - Pull My Hair

Missy Elliott - Pussycat

SWV featuring Foxy Brown - Release Some Tension

Usher - Trading Places 

T-Pain - Say It

Timbaland feat. Money - Fantasy

Usher - BedTime 

Beyoncé - Freakum Dress

Usher - Do It To Me

C-Ride feat. Pleasure P - Walk Different

Drake - Cece’s Interlude

D’Angelo - Untitled (How Does It Feel) 

Tink - HML

Plies feat. Pleasure P - Get You Wet 

Omarion - O

Andre 3000 - Spread

Twista feat. Trey Songz - Girl Tonite

Usher - Can U Handle It 

Pharrell Williams - Take It Off (Dim The Lights)

Robin Thicke - Sex Therapy

The Dream - Sweat It Out

Shlohmo & Jeremih - Dope

Shlohmo & Jeremih - Let It Go

Usher - Nice And Slow

The Roots feat. Musiq Soulchild - Break You Off

Trillville - Some Cut

Beyoncé - 1+1

Jeremih - Raindrops

Ginuwine - Pony

Drake Feat. James Fauntleroy - On My Way

Montell Jordan - get it on tonight

Khia - Lick Me Dry

The Pack - Make Me Cum

Aaliyah - Rock The Boat (jelani remix)

Beyoncé - Blow

Kanye West - I’m In It

Lil Wayne feat. Bobby Valentino - Mrs. Officer

Lady featuring K. Michelle - Scream

Jhené Aiko - Wait no more

Foxy Brown ft. Kelis - Candy

Ciara - Ciara To The Stage 

JS - Ice Cream

Lil Jon & The EastSide Boyz - Ooh Na Na Naa Naa

Lloyd - Feels So Right

Marques Houston - Naked

Ginuwine - So Anxious 

Outkast - Where Are My Panties Skit

Tweet featuring Missy Elliott - Turn da Lights Off

LL Cool J - Doin’ It 

Ciara - Bang It Up 

The Dream - Falsetto 

Pretty Ricky - Get A Little Closer

Chris Brown feat. Ludacris - Wet The Bed

Chris Brown feat. Teyana Taylor & Lonnie Bereal - Favor 

Pleasure P - Under

Janet Jackson - Anytime Anyplace

Sade - No Ordinary Love

Pretty Ricky - Grind With Me

Ne-yo - Sexy Love

Janet Jackson - Would You Mind

Maxwell - Til The Cops Come Knockin’

TLC - Red Light Special

Usher feat. Beyoncé & Lil Wayne - Love In This Club (part 2)

Tyrese - Signs Of Love Making

En Vogue - Don’t Let Go (Love)

Earth, Wind & Fire - Reasons

Ready For The World - Love You Down

Chris Brown - Glow In The Dark

The Weekend - What You Need (i hate him but this song goes awf)

Sade - The Sweetest Taboo 

Pretty Ricky - On The Hotline

112 feat. Lil Zane - Anywhere 

Ludacris Feat Raphael Saadiq - Splash Waterfalls (Whatever you want) Remix

Chris Brown - Take U Down

504 Boyz - I Can Tell

[wanderrrlust]

Reblogging for a friend (nervous laugh) lol