don't fall in love with me. learn to love me slowly. notice my quirks, repeat my most used words. remember my favourite coffee order, even as it changes by the season. look at my face, focus on my eyes. they'll always tell you what i'm thinking. hold my fidgeting hands when i get anxious. celebrate my wins with me quietly but deeply. smell the newly washed cotton rather than the perfume i wear outside. categorise my smiles (i have one for each person i meet). step into the old broken down house i grew up in. do not fall in love blindly. learn me. then love me.














