IDEAL AND THE REAL

dream of butterfly or is life a dream? ☆

[pq2-moved]

remade under same url 

@pq2

mutuals please interact if seen

[pq2-moved]

i want to remake but i don’t know the process of remaking

[pq2-moved]

i might remake later!!! i found a nice new theme and I want to keep mutuals only i think

[dearorpheus]

06/03/2019

some recommended viewing if you have an interest in film theory: > Annihilation—The Art of Self-Destruction > Why Cosmic Horror is Hard To Make > How Guillermo Del Toro Uses Violence > Denis Villeneuve - Crafting Morality Through Mystery > The Meaning of Red in Movies > Eastern Promises: A Study In Bodies > Pan’s Labyrinth: Disobedient Fairy Tale > Colour In Storytelling

[pq2-moved]

theme testing on another blog and themeing it around nemissa despite not playing soul hackers. women loving disease

[pq2-moved]

having huge tits is fine if you’re a guilty gear character

[orbitkevin]

[yehudah]

people act like being critical of the shit you like is some sort of weird stressful thing thats new and forced on the internet. like lol no, everyone is critical of their interests

you thought the movie was too straight and didnt have any gay characters? thats being critical. you thought it had a lot of awkward scenes that couldve been handled better? thats being critical. you didnt like that the director made misogynistic remarks? thats being critical

im so tired of people acting like being critical is something so tough and time consuming. 99% of the time, you already do it, you just dont want to recognize the pedophilia/racism/antisemitism/etc in the media you love

[godbastian-deactivated20210907]

to everyone who doesn't know petrinja ( city south of our capital city zagreb) got hit with a 6.3 earthquake and also went through a 5.0 earthquake yesterday. there is lots of damage and one child has passed away. we have no more information on injured ppl.

to my fellow croatians in case of another earthquake get under a desk, bed or anything that can protect you. if you live in a damaged building get outside and stay away from the buildings. keep the distance since covid is still here.

try to stay in a spot that doesn't limit the movement of everyone trying to help including the ambulance, red cross, military... try to not use cars as they limit the said movement of everyone trying to help.

it will take some time until any way of official help will be announced (a bank account for donations etc). we have few hospitals that have been damaged lots of covid patients, newborns and the ones who have been injured in the earthquake are being moved around.

our hospitals have already been under a collapse and now that our covid cases have went down this is another hit. lots of help will be needed but right now everyone stay safe we will get through this. if anyone needs someone to talk to i am always here and i am sure many others too.

[lichen-punk]

hey i’ve been seeing this implied a lot in trans support posts so i wanna make it clear: binding and tucking are not equivalent

i know that to an outsider eye they may seem similar—they’re both trans things where you wear a special garment that squishes you into a shape you want to be.

but binding consists of compressing the breast tissue against the chest to flatten ones silhouette. it is not without its risks, ofc, but when done properly is not innately permanently damaging. tucking, by comparison, usually consists of pushing the testicles up into the body via inguinal canals and then holding them in place. it can be incredibly painful, and even if done correctly can cause an inguinal hernia (an injury in which the intestines actually protrude down into the scrotum, which, left untreated, can be fatal) and other injuries.

conflating the two hurts transmascs and transfems alike, especially younger trans people. it hurts transfems by normalising tucking and minimising it’s dangers. i’ve seen “tucking resources” and how-tos on lists of tips for transfem children. arguably nobody should be encouraged to tuck, but to encourage children to do something so painful and potentially life threatening so that they “pass” better is just unacceptable. and it hurts transmascs by making binding sound scarier! binding is not particularly dangerous or painful if done right, and the idea that it carries similar risks to tucking is an old terf myth to scare transmascs out of transtitioning

the fact that transfems are EVER expected to go through such pain and even risk our lives just to hide the natural shape of our bodies is despicable, but if you absolutely must encourage tucking in your resource posts please PLEASE make it clear that it carries serious risks and trade-offs that binding simply does not

[lichen-punk]

@socksmaybe only just saw this tag but yes!!! using tucking to refer to any shaping of the crotch area is an equally harmful conflation to make, as it both normalises actual tucking and makes gaffs/compression underwear seem scarier! same fucken problem!!

gaffs/compression underwear are garments you wear which, unsurprisingly, compress your external genitals and flatten out your silhouette. they can be worn with your genitals tucked as described above, but also can be worn as is, operating on more of the mechanics of a binder, and will make most folks as flat as they need to be without tucking.

[lichen-punk]

reblog this version actually

[bisuccubus-moved]

my post died but i need $300 for rent by the 7th. i already missed this month, i cant miss next month

paypal.me/tradgoth

cash app: $gothicprincex

[bisuccubus-moved]

i have $108 in donations! im $192 away

[bisuccubus-moved]

i am down to $89 because i had to get to work and eat please please donate and boost

[zlavenka]

Another earthquake hit Croatia. From what ive seen the epicenter was in Petrinja, magnitude of 6.2. The damage is substantial, and there are casualties.

translation (english is not my native language so i apologise for any mistakes in translation)

Strong earthquaqe of magnitude of 6,2 (it was actually 6,4) shook Petrinja in 12:19, and Zagreb was shaking intensly as well

The shaking was felt in all of Croatia but also in BiH, Slovenia, Serbia and even in Italy

The material damage in Petrinja is huge, many buildings have collapsed

One child died in Petrinja

One structural engineer was rescued out of the building while unconscious

[zlavenka]

Majority of buildings in Petrinja are damaged to such an extent they are no longer usable

I truly hope there will be no more casualties

[ohiisan]

https://instagram.com/petrinjasisak?igshid=kz8pxjm2lyqq

^^ housing help for sisak and petrinja

[pq2-moved]

started playing ffxiv I now have goth bunny

[dabistits]

came about after @/killui spammed a bunch of terf posts (no screenshots in link, just someone explaining the situation) and some fandom or adjacent blogs were reblogging from him, so here’s a small terf blocklist:

transphobichawks

tehmyaiida

fandomfem

misandristmomo / main: bakudekuhater

terf-ashido

a lot of their posts are obvious and blatant, so don’t look either if you’d be triggered

[huhuahuhuah-deactivated20210203]

terf-ashido’s main is qi- -rong

[heidiblairmontag]

[teio]

hobbies include: media analysis with the mutuals