Princess

Princess/23/Just a witch who studies an MSc in Health Psych/slowly traveling the world🌕🔮💜

[princessfish101]

I walked through the streets of Madrid screaming Viva La Espanol with the Spanish at 1am this morning, after their World Cup win.

Nothing beats travelling. You can’t put those moments into words, you had to be there kind of moments. But nothing truly beats it.

[princessfish101]

In hindsight, he was so boring.

[northern-punk-lad]

‘The biggest rollback of disability rights in a generation’ – Charities respond to Supreme Court ruling

The uk Supreme Court has just done a major rollback on disability rights and is putting more disabled people in danger

[upsettingandunfortunateclasshate]

Yeah, it's fucked this. Bad.

[bebsi-cola]

The Court implies that individuals with profound cognitive disabilities cannot be "deprived" of liberty because their condition limits their ability to experience it—a view that devalues their fundamental rights.

they treat disabled people like animals

[futurefishy]

They're actually treating disabled people *worse* than animals. They're taking away the independent investigation of conditions within involuntary inpatient care. An animal in a zoo has more oversight over their quality of life in captivity than disabled people have in inpatient settings under this ruling.

This is removing any external oversight of institutions that are already abusive.

[princessfish101]

I work in care, and any good care service will see this as unsafe.

At our place, we’ve had a few individuals have their DOLs removed due to this new law. Which in my opinion, is quite unsafe.

However to counteract that, we can ‘act in someone’s best interest.’

So whilst individual A could, legally, just leave the service, or go to the shops alone, it’s within their best interest they remain in the service or go to the shops with a staff member as it’s unsafe for them to do this alone.

As time passes, I can definitely see more people having their DOLs removed that really shouldn’t, as it keeps them safe. And whilst that’s just a minor example, there’s a real big safeguarding risk with getting rid of this act.

At any good service, staff should always still continue to do the same measures that keep people safe, for individuals ‘best interests.’ But, I can imagine a lot of not good services will get away with a lot more neglectful behaviour.

[princessfish101]

I spent a week in Tuscany with some random Australians. Part of traveling is meeting people you connect with and leaving, even if you want to stay.

About to get a plane to the next adventure. Bittersweet memories indeed 🥰

[passenger-principessa]

no i’ve never gotten over anything ever in my life thank you for asking

[princessfish101]

They really weren’t kidding when they said the second you decide to backpack your life is in a backpack.

Some how gone from a girl who wears 20 dresses to a girl who’s repeated the same outfits and has 1 nice dress.

[remanence-of-love]

[princessfish101]

Chloe or Sam or Sophia or Marcus?

[princessfish101]

Holy crap cakes

I’m actually starting a degree 😂

[princessfish101]

Dear younger me,

You did great. You’re now midway through a masters course ✨

[o0ogurl]

How do you deal with a broken heart?

You cry and you scream and you act pathetic. You skip out on showers and lay in bed for days. You have pity parties. You get irritable and push everyone away. You cry in bed, you cry in the shower, you cry in the car. You let your heart ache. You let the pain throb and pulse through your entire body. You blame them, you blame yourself, you blame the world. You exhaust yourself with, “What if I did this… would we still be together?”. You pretend you’re getting better, only to have a relapse. You drink irresponsibly, in hopes that you’ll forget them for one night. However this will only backfire and you’ll end up crying harder and trying to drunk dial them. You consider giving up on life. You gather the strength the get up and take a shower, only to break down once you start the water. You attempt to completely remove them from your life, you attempt to bring them back into your life. You can’t bear being around anyone or anything, because everything around you reminds you of them. You watch romance movies and listen to love songs, then you listen to I Will Survive by Gloria Gaynor. You have your good days and your bad days. You distract yourself at times, and at times you sit semi comfortably with your misery. You wait for them to come back no matter how unrealistic that is. You wait until you wake up and one day the sun shines a little differently. The wind grazes you and there’s a slight spring in your step. One day you catch yourself laughing genuinely, and things seem okay. You go out with your friends and family again, except now you’re not distracting yourself anymore. You still have those Saturday nights when you sob while watching The Notebook while wondering if they’ll ever come back. But the feeling doesn’t last. You wake up on Sunday and feel alright again. Happiness will grow again, it just takes strength and patience. 

[princessfish101]

I’m probably the person that reposts this the most but it resonates with me. I must of been about 15 when I first read this (I’m 22 now)?

He breaks up with me every year in July and this years break up was final. I’ve spent the past few months dealing with the excruciating pain of it.

I haven’t gotten to the stage of healing quite yet, he’s still my first thought when I wake up. But I’m eating and sleeping properly now.

May I never feel or have to deal with this level of heartbreak ever again. 💜

[princessfish101]

[princessfish101]

It happened

They got engaged!!!!

I am so happy for her!!!! 🥰💜

[inkskinned]

NOT to be romantic but yeah my friends are the treasure i found along the way. fuck it, sure, friendship is magic; i've sat down at a table and felt at home and i don't even know what a "home" is. half of them are necromancers anyway. they found me half-dead and they put their hands to my inert body and moved my limbs and said it's okay. it sucks. but we'll both get up again.

[princessfish101]

There’s no greater gift than the friends that sit with you and pull you from the darkness.

[princessfish101]

“I made you my temple, my mural, my sky, now I’m begging for footnotes in the story of your life.”

[princessfish101]

They never prepare you for adult heart break. Like forget how I felt when that one guy dumped me as a teenager and I thought my world ended.

Adult heart break is your world actually ending. The excruciating pain is insane.

[firewalkwithme-1992]

it’s that time of the year again! 🍂☕️🎃

[speaknowworldtour]

“help me hold onto you” // “pulled him in tighter each time he was drifting away”

“i’m still trying everything to get you laughing at me” // “stop trying to make him laugh stopped trying to drill the safe”

“how long could we be a sad song til we were too far gone to bring back to life?” // thinking “how much sad did you think i had, did you think i had in me? oh the tragedy”

“you know i love a london boy” // “so long, london”

“you’ll find the real thing instead” // “you’ll find someone”

“don’t put me in the basement when i want the penthouse of your heart” // “i’ll get your longing glances and she’ll get your ring” // “i didn’t opt in to be your odd man out”

“i can’t find a pulse my heart won’t stop anymore” // “i stopped cpr after all its no use. the spirit was gone we would never come to”

“give you my wild, give you a child + our coming of age has come and gone” // “and i’m pissed off you let me give you all that youth for free”

“is this the end of all the endings? my broken bones are mending” // “stitches undone”

“you had to kill me but it killed you just the same” // “two graves one gun”

“i’m gonna find someone someday who might actually treat me well” // “i’ll find someone”

“i’m like the water when your ship rolled in that night” // “and when i was shipwrecked i thought of you” // “and so the battle ships will sink beneath the waves” // “and you say i abondoned the ship but i was going down with it”

“is it really your anxiety that stops you from giving me everything or do you just not want to?” // “holding tight to your quiet resentment” + “every breath feels like rarest air when you’re not sure if he wants to be there”

“wondering which version of you i might get on the phone tonight?” // “my friends said it isn’t right to be scared everyday of a love affair”

“and i wouldn’t marry me either” // “you swore that you loved me but where were the clues? i died on the altar waiting for the proof”

“don’t want no other shade of blue but you, no other sadness in the world would do” // “is it insensitive for me to say ‘get your shit together so i can love you’?” // “you sacrificed us to the gods of your bluest days”

“my face was grey” // “i’m just getting color back into my face”

“i’d never walk cornelia street again” // “i’m just mad as hell cause i loved this place for so long”

“i once believe love would be black and white. but it’s golden.” // “a moment of warm sun but i’m not the one”