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shit the western media won't show you

We were all taught in school that if something like this happens within our lifetimes, it is of the utmost importance that we call it out and don't just go along with it or look away

now theyre like "oops, we didnt mean it"

kvothes

it is indeed quite aphoristic and fun to pull individual quotes. but if you want to read “october” by louise glück in its entirety, which i highly recommend, you can find it here

kvothes

friends, devastated to report that louise glück passed away today in this very october. if you haven’t read the poem before, i recommend doing so now.

iamnotlanuk

asking for a little reassurance sometimes is good and fine actually, what matters is you gotta believe them when they answer cause if you don't then you're missing a fundamental piece of secure attachment, trust. and it feels bad when someone you care about doesn't believe you in how you feel about them, like it's worth the work to work on that for everyone. and it's also like unfair to ask for it and not give it return. like to be treated like someone who's a machine you put quarters in to feel better about yourself sucks bad. it's gotta be mutual

pansyfemme

the way cishet people talk about sex is so fucking depressing. anal sex is kinky. oral is foreplay. i think if you told them sex doesn’t have to involve genitals at all they’d explode

pansyfemme

i’m not sure if i’d be able to find it bc i don’t think i saved it but i saw a tiktok a few weeks ago of a trans woman talking about her experience of having sex with trans men, and she brought up that specifically she refuses to see it as ‘penetration’ or ‘penis in vagina’ because she doesn’t feel that way, she doesn’t understand why the penis takes the dominant role. Instead, for her, it’s more like being engulfed, swallowed, surrounded. And i’ve been like. thinking about that constantly ever since. I don’t think that referring to it as penetration is bad, but i think that theres an assumed importance of that certain aspect of sex, that the most important factor to whether something ‘counts’ is the dominance assumed by the role of penetration, with fingers, a toy, etc. In a lot of ways, as a trans man, i’ve learned to distance myself from my body. I am able to feel through peices of plastic better than my actual nerve endings. I feel that the act of transitioning sometimes upsets this hierarchy of sex. The idea that someone may use their body in a way seen as traditional sex but not view it through a traditional lens can be just as terrifying to people as someone not having traditional sex at all. It’s really difficult to articulate. Sex can be a lot of things to a lot of people, and i find it so frustrating when people limit the ways they are able to describe and connect with their bodies because of assumptions that something is not ‘real sex’ because it doesnt involve a certain act, or that penetration is inheritly more accurate or important than alternate views, such as the one i described before.

bebewrites

woop there it is

lostwoodscutie

wasabikitcat

Documenting what is quite possibly the best exchange I have ever seen on this website.

cheshiregrinfu

wind-on-the-panes-deactivated20

This website is a prison amd stuff like these are the bars of my cell.

sewerfight-deactivated20250114

Kind of a Reddit AITA post but sometimes it is a little funny to fuck with people in ways that deliberately conform to a stereotype of what they must think of you. the other day I was talking to my friend and I randomly said that I wanted a pet chimpanzee. I'd dress it in person clothes (dungarees and hats) and I'd teach it to love science fiction. And this girl nearby was like "you know how dangerous those things are, right? Also how unethical it is to keep an ape as your pet for your own amusement" and I was already seeing where the conversation was going so I was pretending ignorance like "yea but it wouldn't just be for my amusement. It would have practical points too." And she ignored that statement entirely to say "Well chimpanzees can rip faces off" and I was like. What's the most frustrating thing I can say now. Finally settled on "Mine wouldn't do that though." and you could tell she wanted to hurt me very very badly. Like a chimpanzee would if I had one as a pet

lgbt-tiktoks

morgue-xiiv

this is peak trans culture because this would have been easier with very nearly any other guitar design but she just haaad to use one shaped like the letter e. Not afraid of a challenge. Respect.

e-von-dahl

I would like to add that their name is E, literally just the letter E, like they’re in a spy movie. As if that wasn’t cool enough already she went and got a guitar shaped like her name. Fucking icon.

thefingerfuckingfemalefury

TRULY A M A Z I N G

beaft

my mother has started using the phrase "gendie neutch" with abandon

beaft

yesterday she said my "birthday fit" was very "gendie neutch" and i felt like i was in an episode of black mirror

derinthescarletpescatarian

No she's right, this is the correct way to talk

the-quasar-hero

I’m going to Constantinople, that shit better not be Istanbul

the-quasar-hero

Real shit

twofigs

when kosinski wrote “i’m sure there are aspects of my personality buried within me that will surface as soon as i know i am completely loved.”

bruno-has-definitely-deactivate

narwhalsarefalling

MY TA SHOT SOMEONE IN THE FOOT AND THE PROFESSOR WAS SO FUCKING QUICK LMAOOO

cerealbath

🥺🥺🥺

owlservice

I wish I was taller. I wish I was a baller. I wish my cat had a phone I would call her.

antimasculist

everyone needs to stop telling rich white women to stay safe by "trusting [their] gut" bc now theyre just attacking minorities

antimasculist

rich white women will see a man of color or a poor man or a disabled man or god forbid all 3 and go "i dont know guys im kind of getting bad vibes. like he seems dangerous i cant put my finger on why. he just acts off. my gut is telling me to call the police idk why"