problematic-system-terms

[problematic-system-terms]

sextoy

a term for an alter that wants to be used as a sextoy, this can be do to them having/holding sexual trauma and or trauma around abusive/sexualy abusive relationship(s) the system had in the past but is not exculsive to those with trauma)

cock sleeve

a term for an alter that wants to be used as a cock sleeve, this can be do to them having/holding sexual trauma and or trauma around abusive/sexualy abusive relationship(s) the system had in the past but is not exculsive to those with trauma)

fleshlight

a term for an alter that wants to be used as a fleshlight, this can be do to them having/holding sexual trauma and or trauma around abusive/sexualy abusive relationship(s) the system had in the past but is not exculsive to those with trauma)

(might rename these terms in the future if i come up with a better name )

(flags will come in future)

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sexual preformer

a alter whose role it is the preform sexual acts/stuff with their/the systems partner (this can be either used for them having concesual sex with their partner or if the are forced to have nonconsensual sex with their parnter)

(no flag at the moment)

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cnckinkic

a alters whose role it is the hold the systems cnc kink urges/needs, this my cause them the to front during sex and or bdsm realted activitys

(this alter also can hold sexual trauma but that doesnt have to be)

(also english isn't our first language and we have dyslexia, so sorry for an typos)

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problematic alter roles

i just wanted to note that we dont support pro shipping,the transid/radqueer comunity and consang, we just made these terms sinds when we were like 13 years old we used to ID as a proshipper and the trauma we went through affected the roles of certain alters in our system and even affected how some alters act/how our system works. SO we went to look if we could find any terms that could explain the roles of these alters but couldnt find any so we decided to make them ourself, and also because we thought that some other system might see these terms and feel less alone in their trauma

(also we have not yet made any flags for these terms,but sinds we dont know how to make flags we might either figure out how to make them or we might just not make them at all, we havent decided yet /gen)

(also english isnt our first launge and we have dyslexia so sorry for any typos)

radqueertraumatic

a alter that holds trauma related to radqueers/pro raqueers and or the radqueer communtiy

ex-proradqueertraumatic

a alter that holds trauma related to being a former pro radqueer

transidtraumatic

a alter that holds trauma related to the transid community and or pro transid blogs/people

ex-protransidtraumatic

a alter that holds trauma related to being a former pro transid

incestthoughttrauma

a trauma holder that holds trauma related to having incest thoughts

consangtraumatic

a alter that’s holds trauma related to consang/pro consang people/blogs and or the consang comuntiy

ex-proconsangtraumatic

a alter that holds trauma related to being pro consang

proshippingtraumatic

a alter that holds trauma related to pro shipping and or pro shippers

ex-proshippingtraumatic

a alter that holds trauma related to having been a pro shipper