#tw radqueer

[anti-willo-eren]

No, I think I'm okay. Go to hell.

[education-system]

I hate the endogenics are radqueers arguments because they just show such a misunderstanding of what each community is as well as why radqueers are problematic in the first place.

Endogenics are not claiming to have a disorder due to their plurality(except in cases where they have trauma they typically fully remember to back up actually needing treatment). It is focused on non-disordered experiences of feeling like you are more than one regardless of autonomy of parts. This includes things like parts work, code switching/masking, delusions and a natural lack of stagnancy of identity that comes with other identities or disorders. If it makes you feel like you are more than one and benifits you to identify as such its plural(a term coined explicitly to be pro-endo). It is regularly a theraputic coping mechanism for adverse experiences as the majority of endogenics have significant trauma(many significant childhood trauma) alongside multiple disorders(regularly developmental and/or trauma based) that they report and makes day to day life naturally more difficult for them.

And willogenics specifically? Are actually the least like other created plurality types as it developed as a practice in the plural community instead of the singlet one. It is more often used to create headmates in already existing systems over creating plurality from scratch. Its also commonly used for traumagenic parts such as with elaborating fragments or aiding in difficult traumagenic splits. Yes one can be both traumagenic and willogenic at the same time without it contradicting one another. When you go "I wish x could exist to help me cope with this trauma"(whether consciously or subconsciously) and an alter that is x forms to deal with said trauma that falls under willomancy per the community definition(doesn't not mean you have to see or identify yourself as such with how common an experience this is just that some with that experience will identify it as willogenic as it benefits them to do so and fits the definition).

Now radqueers... We need to acknowledge that there is a distinct difference between what radqueers would label as radqueer experiences and THE radqueer community. Because the community 100% is harmful and breeds potentially dangerous situations but the experiences being described themselves are regularly normal trauma responses that have been demonized outside of the community. I don't touch the radqueer community but of the few transDID folks I've met all of them are OSDD-1 systems who have atypical dysphoria and feel less valid due to the community treating DID as the more valid disorder. TransTrauma? Is commonly those who don't feel like their trauma is enough(usually again because it has been invalidated) to justify the trauma response they experience. Demonizing these experiences when many join that community due to having their normal experiences demonized only exacerbates the problem. Using their experiences to demonize others who have a completely different experience exacerbates the problem.

Endogenics are those claiming to have a non-disordered experience, and not wanting a disorder, of feeling like they are more than one for reasons other than their trauma. TransAbled folks feel like they should have a disorder due to atypical dysphoria which they may or may not attempt to transition into having to alleviate dysphoria(no transitioning into having a disorder you don't is not ok but experiencing atypical dysphoria should be more accepted with how common it is in trauma survivors). They aren't the same thing.

[squidfreak]

Radqueers are an amalgamation of multiple different and often concerning pro-stances being forced into being somehow "queer." (using the recent times meaning of it, which being not peri-cishet-allo etc etc) No one is radqueer unless they themselves call themself that. You can support certain things they support, but the difference is that they have no limits on when its too supportive.

[anti-willo-kaai-yuki]

My url is my username bud. And being radqueer is inherently pro endo

Im allowed to be aggressive to people in the community that told me it was okay for adults to be sending me rape threats and to take it as a compliment that I was even getting them

[antiendosafespace]

One thing that frustrates me about "Transcultural" radqueers is that they keep reinforcing this idea that only people who can pass a blood quantum test are "really" members of a culture. Radqueers claim to radically believe anyone is whatever they claim to be, but if you look at who they lump in as "Transcultural" often immigrants, people born and raised into a country their parents weren't born into, people who have connections with a culture due to having non-direct but still massively influential in their upbringing family from that culture, etc..

For example, a person who immigrates to Russia, who is born into Russia but has Icelandic parents, or who is raised by their Russian aunts within the context of Russian culture are not "Transcultural", their connections to that culture are real and inherent to them, so for Radqueers to include them in the category of "Transcultural", it is implicitly stating that the only way to be "CisID" for a culture is to be able to pass a blood quantum test.

Of course, I suspect this rhetoric is being spread by radqueers who just want to make themselves more legitimate. If the quirky white American girl trying to be Korean because she likes Kpop can lump in enough legitimate experiences in with her racist bullshit then she thinks that'll make her seem more valid, when really all it does is invalidate other people's genuine cultural ties.

So much of transID's are seriously trying to get the racists to feel valid. We've seen folks trying to claim unless you can be blood-tied to a culture then you aren't actually part of it when it's like....no?? We're 1/4 German. We don't have ties to the German culture, so won't say that we're German. Despite having a blood-tie to it. There's no sort of "cisID" to that Culture is something completely different then what radqueers realize. So much of it is seriously just trying to give the "quirky" racist white person an excuse to say slurs (for example, we've seen "transrace" black folks use it to say the n-word) and seem cool and unique

[darkosomatsuconfessions]

I decided that I'm gonna start stealing radqueer's posts so that people who like the post can like a version that wasn't made by a predator

That being said

whenever a blog says nothing about their stance on blmatsu i have to stare for a few minutes wondering if i’m allowed to breathe near them

Lmaooo

[madokaspaws]

Smol announcement

I've noticed a few radqueer blogs following me, and to be clear, this blog is not the place for that. I don't hate radqueers, I'm don't like, want you to die or anything, if you're radqueer and that isn't what your blog is about, that's perfectly fine. I just don't want to see it, don't want to be involved in it. As long as you aren't pro-c towards anything like animals, children, or other nonconsenting individuals, you're fine to interact.

Simply put, I used to be radqueer, and based on long, hard research into my personal experience with the community, as well as just it's general function, I have reason to believe that it is a predator cult. If this offends you, block me. Don't try to fight me about it, it'll just trigger me for no reason when you can easily walk away.

If you are an adult who publicly identifies as radqueer or as a MAP, do not interact with me. If you are a minor who in any way feels victimized by the radqueer community, you are still welcome to interact regardless of what your blog looks like. If you don't want to get blocked, DM me about your situation, I'm willing to help.

And for the kids like me who think that's the only community that will accept you, they're lying. You can leave. You don't have to accept predators to be loved. Atypical dysphoria is real and does not make you evil, paraphilic disorders do not make you evil, it is completely normal to feel attracted to older people as a minor, it is not normal for adults to tell you you can consent, it is not normal for adults to involve minors in anything sexual. Even if you feel like you can consent, even if they say it's love, you can't, and it's not. My DMs are open to anyone who is a victim of this community, or anyone who wants to leave and is scared to. I know how it feels. There is safety elsewhere. I love you.

[morning-stars-avenue]

Do you have any tips for transhcdid systems :3

please transgetthefuckawayfromme then transgethelp and then you could top it off with permagettingofftheinternet

transhcdid tip: Stop fetishizing my childhood torture and trauma xx