Adi 🐞

Personal Agere Sideblog SFW interaction only

[protectmyinfancy]

About Me

𐙚˙✧˖°  Adeline  (Adi),  1-7,  she/her,  bi

Personal  Agere  Blog,,,  my  regression  +  ramblings.

Just  a  girl  who  goes  feral  for  bluey,  strawberry  shortcake  and  hitting  fictional  characters  with  the  baby  beam

This  is  a  sideblog,  my  main  is  @cryingatwindermerepeaks  where  i  post  lots  and  lots  of  writing  and  other  fandom  stuff  and @butterfliesturningtodust is my personal non-agere (sort of) blog!!  𐙚˙✧˖°

[bubbagirlsblog]

literally why am I not on someone’s hip right now?? nuzzling into someone’s neck?? having my back rubbed??

[littlemoded]

💭 🍼thinking about a padded babyre character getting the seat of their diaper patted gently by their carer as they shush and bounce them softly, trying to lull their poor fussy baby to sleep...

[bunnybabysnursery]

[appelpup]

caregiver who tucks me and my plushies in as if I’m a baby and kisses my forehead and sings me to sleep while stroking my hair :((

[loving-homeowner]

🏠　　lots of love for mentally ill CGs..! We always talk about littles with mental illnesses, but i want to point out CGs ;

YOU are not a bad CG for having a personality disorder,

YOU are not any less caring for having low empathy,

YOU are not any less caring for having depression,

YOU are not any less fun for having OCD or Paranoia,

YOU are not any less caring for having Schizophrenia,

YOU are not any less fun for having Social Anxiety,

YOU are not any less caring for having PTSD,

YOU are not any less caring for having DID,

And so on, your health doesn't make you any less of a caregiver.. <3

[mama-ghostie]

Soft mama x baby who struggles with derealization

Mama who always has sensory toys in their bag to help ground their baby. Crinkly toys, spin gadgets or pain fidgets to help ground them via their hands or fingers.

Mama who always talks them through it and pulls them aside if the episode happens in public places. Quiet spaces work best to bring their baby back

Mama who talks to them in a firm voice to get them out of it, but no anger and no fear. Cause fear makes situations worse.

Mama who holds their hands tight and bear hugs them to reassure them that they are here and not in that dream state. Mama holds them and pats them to make sure they're able to notice that they're body is here, as well as their mind.

Mama who breathes with their baby and doesn't rush them so they know that they're safe and ok to go through it, even If it is scary.

Mama who has snacks to bring them back like sour candies or spicy foods.

Mama who coos and tells them that it's alright and gives them stuffies or comfort items after it passes.

Mama who doesn't discourage them from holding onto their items or them after. These episodes are super scary and babies need their mamas and/or stuffies.

Remember kiddos, derealization may be super scary, (I suffer from it so I totally understand how you guys feel!) But with the right items, words and coping mechanisms, it WILL pass! Even if it comes again n again. It will always pass. You are so much stronger than those icky episodes and feelings. And your mamas, papas and bubbas are always there to comfort you all. You are NOT a burden. And you give so much love to your caregivers, and they love you just as much!

-Ghostie

[nevermore-lost-love-lenore]

baby regressor sniffling and clinging to their carer... not particularly upset over anything in specific just feeling emotional in general... head buried into their shoulder as your carer gently bounces you in their arms... carer letting you drift off to sleep against their chest, head on their shoulder...

[crayoncubbie]

What doesn't kill you makes you a teensy tiny little baby for the foreseeable future.

(WHAT DOSEN'T KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER /lyric)

[sweet-k1d]

From upset kid who missed thier parent and crying when they hear their voice to upset age regressor who missed this caregiver and crying when they hear their voice.

[canidkid]

Give. Me. Embarrassing agere.

Give me loud wailing and sobbing and clinging to a trusted person. Give me begging to "go home" whether that home is real and reachable or not. Give me crying for parents and siblings and grandparents and *anyone* who feels safer than the present situation.

Give me stress regression. Give me trauma response regression. Give me regression as a result of someone's self-soothing ability completely imploding.

Give me the gross parts of it. In writing, in drawings, in headcanon ramblings. The tantrums with snot and spit and red faces. The potty accidents. The bedwetting. The lashing out and yelling and hitting. The physical symptoms of feeling like you're no longer in full control of your mind and body. Let me see the MISBEHAVIOR that comes with feeling like a child in a body that's too big for you when everything is SCARY. The behavior you REGRET later.

Seeing the cozy, comforting, voluntary end of agere is so important when you're using it to comfort yourself.

But the embarrassment of it goes beyond "I use pacifiers and stuffed animals to self soothe after a hard day." for a lot of people. Acknowledge and accept that, too. Please.

[extralargebubbl]

sometimes agere is just daydreaming about all the baby stuff and not actually doing much of it at all irl. sometimes some of the things you love to daydream about are not things you would find fulfilling or fun in practice and that is okay and valid! your regression is valid whether you enjoy those things or not!

[babykin25]

So your test results came back, turns out your diagnosis is baby. Yeah sorry about that. Yeah.. go play with toys and drink apple juice

[moo-moos]

[sleepylittlebabie]

💭 Thinking about going on night drives with my cg after a long, stressful day

having my stuffed animals sitting on my lap and my favourite blanket wrapped around me while he talks about anything and everything with my favourite music playing quietly through the speakers

Sitting in the passenger seat with the window slightly open in the summer, keeping us both cool, or having the heating on in the winter making me super sleepy

Him noticing I’ve fallen asleep and driving just a little longer cos he knows how hard it is for me to sleep

[dougs-den]

thinking abt like, what I'd do if I was taking care of a little who's self conscious about using regression gear... bc my first thought is "well what if I do something in-between first to show it's okay?"

don't want to use a sippy cup even though u could spill? how about I get us no spill water bottles and we can both use those?

don't want to take a nap? that's okay, I do want to take a nap though, can you hang out with me while I nap? you can color or do anything else, and if you end up wanting to too, you can join me!

worried about wearing padding to make sure you don't have an accident? it's okay, you can put it in the same place I put my jumbo pads! there's not really much of a difference when you think about it, we can be two cool cats taking care of ourselves together!

do you want warm milk while we're out but don't want people to think it's weird? let's get steamers then! see, it can't be that weird if I'm getting one too

you don't need to worry about it if I'm there, because I'm never going to judge and I'll be right there if someone else does. It's okay to want to do little things, even if you aren't quite there yet!

[cubdreaming]

⊹☾ things you can do for a regressor w⼃ chronic pain

ʚɞ decorate their pill containers with them

ʚɞ help them pick out their favorite kids ice packs, heating pads, and water bottles

ʚɞ hold them tight when they cry

ʚɞ make bracelets with them to put on their mobility aids

ʚɞ reassure them that they're not too much to handle

ʚɞ help them figure out the best distractions for high pain days (playing games, watching movies, coloring, going on walks)

ʚɞ download their favorite games on handheld devices for when they can't get out of bed

ʚɞ keep stim toys (especially pain stims) nearby to keep them from hurting themselves

ʚɞ gather materials for crafts you can do from bed!

⠀⠀⠀⋆ no-sew blankets

⠀⠀⠀⋆ torn paper art: kiddo needs paper for ripping (preferably construction paper), paper for the background, and glue! kiddo can then tear the paper into tiny scraps (like 1-2 in.). they'll love that part. you can use an outline for the next section but it's not required. help them (or direct them to) arrange the paper scraps into a design, like an owl or their name!