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ramdaughter

someone: *offers perfectly reasonable advice that would go a long way to solving my problems*

me:

thoughtsof-r

kraizynkonfuzed

Apology languages is new to me 🤔

thoughtsof-r

yeah i had to look that up as well. but that’s a dope an important concept as well

trappeds0ull-deactivated2020072

!!!

unclewalk-deactivated20190218

Apology language? I gotta look into that.

owned-little-kitten

Interesting! Another thing learned.

Though I’m not surprised. I need five things in an apology.

A) recognise what you’ve done

B) acknowledge what it did to me

C) fucking apologise (lotsa people think simply expressing a) or b) was enough, it’s not)

D) ask for what you can do to make it up to me (don’t ask for my forgiveness - that’s up to me to decide if and when I forgive (plus it makes an apology sound terribly self-serving))

E) let’s talk about avoiding the same in the future

memecucker

i cant wait for the climax of Infinity War when Nicholas Cage as Ghost Rider just speeds in out of nowhere and one-shots Thanos and leaves without saying anything

cybercrimer

nitrosplicer

So I just heard about “Primed: The Back Pocket Guide for Trans Men and the Men Who Dig Them.” It’s the first sexual health resource written by and for gay, bi and queer trans men/ transmasculine people, put out by Rainbow Health Ontario, and it’s a very frank guide that answers basically any questions you might have about safer sex. They’ve released it for free download here.

damnitmiles

A similar guide geared towards trans women/ transfeminine people (though not really sexual orientation specific) is “BRAZEN: Trans Women’s Safer Sex Guide.”