Wedding Rhyme OC/Ship Asks.
“Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.”
Originating in Lancashire, England, the rhyme represents tokens that bring good fortune, protection, and prosperity to the marriage. Each item carries specific symbolism: "something old" represents continuity; "something new" symbolizes optimism for the future; "something borrowed" brings good luck; and "something blue" represents love, purity, and fidelity.
Something Old: The past, legacy, roots, and what still lingers.
What is a possession from their past that your OC refuses to part with? What does their lover or spouse think of this item? Do they appreciate its significance to your OC?
What family or cultural tradition or belief has shaped your OC’s attitude to love and relationships the most? Have they questioned or rejected this wisdom? Or do they find comfort or purpose in this connection to their heritage?
What memories or information do they have regarding their parents’ relationship? To what degree doe this influence their attitude to their own relationships? How aware of this are they?
If your OC could revisit one moment from their romantic past, without changing it, which would they choose? A first meeting? A first kiss? A satisfying end to a doomed affair? Or something else entirely?
What family heirloom might they hope to pass onto their descendants, or at least those they leave behind when they die? Would those to whom they leave this inheritance fully appreciate its significance?
Something New: Hope, change, beginnings, and the future.
What is something new to which your OC’s lover or spouse has introduced them? Perhaps a new and exotic food, a unique world view, or a particularly compelling new sexual technique?
What is your OC most looking forward to in the next chapter of their romantic (or sexual) life? Do they even have a clear plan or idea about what will happen next?
How has being a relationship (or variation thereupon) changed your OC? Has it made them calmer and more risk-averse? Or more confident and assertive? Or is it hard to perceive any change in them at all?
If they could go back in time and begin their relationship again with no consequences, what would they do differently? Would they be quicker to make the first move? Slower in settling down?
What about being with their lover or spouse excites your OC even if it also scares them?
Something Borrowed: Connections, trust, influence, and shared lives.
What habits or mannerisms has your OC started to pick up from their lover or spouse? Are they aware of this themselves? Does anyone ever tease them about this?
Does your OC go to their lover or spouse for advice? Are there some areas in which they defer to them, or do they remain fiercely independent regardless of their relationship status.
How long did it take your OC to trust their lover or spouse? If they actually trust them at all of course…
What quality about their lover or spouse does your OC admire so much that they've tried to make it part of themselves? Would they ever admit to this?
Has your OC found it easy to share their life with another person? Were there some things they found harder to compromise on than others? Is there something they will always keep to themselves?
Something Blue: Love, loyalty, purity, and enduring devotion.
Does your OC wear or otherwise display some symbol of their loyalty or devotion to their lover or spouse? Or do they keep a secret token hidden beneath their clothes or armour?
Has your OC sworn any oaths, or otherwise made promises of fidelity and commitment, to their lover or spouse? If so, then did they make this declaration in front of others, or in a private and intimate moment with their beloved?
How does your OC’s lover or spouse comfort them when they're feeling lonely or overwhelmed? Or would they never show weakness, even (or especially?) to them…
Was your OC the more sexually experienced partner when entering into their current relationship? Or were they shy, or even chaste, compared to their new lover?
To what degree was love and/or commitment on your OC’s agenda at the point they met their current lover or spouse? Was it something of which they had always dreamt? Or did it come as a surprise – welcome or otherwise…?