My Anxieties Have Anxieties

my name is Hannah What you must understand about me is that i am a deeply unhappy person 20 and Canadian kik @hannahrosiina

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Rock Bottom - Neck Deep

[killing3r]

[doyoung-moved-deactivated201809]

[vviirgo]

[marci1900]

[hermajestyx]

[pixiebabi]

when neck deep said “pain is never permanent but tonight it's killing me” i felt that

[thekwikemart]

[godshideouscreation]

Anonymously ask me some "would you ever"s

[laterskaterrr]

kinda wanna cuddle and have my hair played with, kinda wanna get pinned down on my bed and make out

[harryedward]

No offense but I want to fall in love with someone who wants to fall in love with me

[apocalyptic-bliss]

After a while you get over it and you stop checking up on them.

[drinkyourjuiceshelby]

[fakethistoyourgrave-blog]

What’s the word for horny but not in a sexual way like I’m horny for Halloween but I don’t wanna fuck a pumpkin you feel

[hahlsey-blog]

do u mean excited

[kompanie-mutter-deactivated2021]

this is scientific evidence that porn makes you stupider

[jenndoesnotcare]

I just left my husband alone with our two children for sixteen days. I was not worried about anything regarding the house, their food, or their wellbeing. I put all the appointments in the family calendar and my husband checked it and kept them. I literally did not worry about them. I missed them, and I was sad that they missed me, but I didn’t worry about them AT ALL. I need to impress upon you all that I missed their company, but was not worried for their welfare.

I also did no meal prep. I don’t even think I went shopping right before I left.

This is not about apples and oranges. This isn’t even about my husband. This is about the fact that this is apparently WEIRD.

Another mum at my daughter’s school is leaving for ten days. She’s taking her youngest (who is a very small baby) and leaving her husband with their two girls. She has been cooking for days preparing freezer meals. She’s panicking and deputizing her six year old to remind him how to make school lunches. AND I AM APPALLED.

A) He is definitely not helpless. (He’s a doctor or something.) What gendered bullshit. B) THAT LITTLE GIRL IS NOT OLD ENOUGH TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR HER AND HER SISTER’S WELLBEING. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. C) Why is she married to this person and creating children with him if he’s this big of an idiot?

While she was laughingly recounting this, the other mums were nodding and smiling sympathetically, like oh yes, I too have my caveman at home!! Such managing required! I was the only one who was like “Dude, he’ll be fine. Literally. He will be fine.” I said it a lot. She was not convinced. She kept bringing up her older daughter. She’ll be like a little mum!

NO.

NO NO NO NO.

NO.

Straight women, don’t do this shit. It’s gross. Don’t infantilize your husbands and then expect your daughters to pick up the slack. So fucking gross. So. So. GROSS.

[fozmeadows]

The fact that so many adults think a six year old girl is more capable of learning and performing basic domestic tasks than a grown-ass man says it all, really. 

[parentheticalaside]

This stuff is so toxic and awful. I told a car full of women one time that I refused to be in another relationship until I met a man who was capable of making his own doctors’ appointments and washing the dishes. They told me I was going to die alone.

Fuck this shit. Don’t enable men’s incompetence and label it cute.

[truecrime-af]

date idea: watching serial killer documentaries together

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

things that exist but you can’t see:

people thinking about you and smiling

flowers growing in your heart

the moon’s affection for you

how much you’ve healed already

a lovely future written in the stars