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Fanfic Prompt

I'm not really a fic writer but I had an idea after reading a lot of crossover fics where Peter Parker gets dumped in the DC universe by Dr. Strange after the multiverse fiasco. 

However, I think it would be really cool if someone made a fic where Strange dumped Peter in front of the Justice League explained what was going on and why, and asked them to take Peter, and then the League or Batman proceeded to ream out Strange for destroying Peter's life. 

I would love it if someone would write this if they do or if there is already a story like this please link it is that possible on Tumblr?

Links to current Fics:

Dark Matter by mysterycyclone (Complete)

Make it out Just to fall by derryhawkins

Peter the Pizza Guy by Irisen

Dumpster Diving for Treasure by Clovrtree

Along Came A Spider by RagsnBones (Complete)

Rated T For Traumatised by WibWoby

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Protection from Fentanyl

I saw a video of a police officer taking down a drug dealer or something the suspect was down and they had his car with his trunk open with the drug paraphernalia inside. There were two police officers, one looked in the trunk and collapsed from fentanyl.

So here is my question if this drug is that dangerous why isn’t there something for the police to protect themselves? There are good and bad police, the actions of the bad police prompted the bodycam to be a required part of the uniform. So for the police who just joined to help people why is there not a device, a gas mask something to protect themselves when inspecting suspect's possessions? I understand that they are sometimes in intense fast-paced situations and don’t have time to put something on they need to go after the suspect or what have you.

In this instance, the suspect was down secured if they had something they would have had time to use it.

In this day and age people are inventing new things all the time, so why isn’t there a protective mask for the police officers so they don’t die while trying to secure this drug?

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Single For Life and Happy About It

I had a traumatic sexual abuse incident as a child. I personally don’t remember as I have subconsciously blocked it out. However, I have had flashbacks, and it’s not something I want to experience again. So I have decided that I don’t want to have a romantic relationship with anyone man or woman.

I have had people express interest. I don’t always notice when someone is interested or flirting. I have had instances where I was trying to be friends with someone and they thought I was interested in them in that way. It didn’t end well mainly because I didn’t know how to explain I wasn’t interested in that without hurting their feelings.

Another person I told why I wasn’t interested, and then he proceeded to try to convince me how gentle he would be. And expressed that he was with other women who supposedly went through something similar and how happy they were with the experience. He would not let it go and so I finally expressed that I wasn’t interested at all in him personally. He took it pretty hard, but I didn’t know what else to do I wasn’t interested in him or anyone.

Most recently, I realized someone at my work is interested. I think I hurt his feelings because I didn’t remember his name. (it takes me a while to learn names) Then our coworkers got involved. First, my supervisor asked if I was single, I told her I wasn’t interested in relationships though I didn’t tell her why just that it was too complicated. Then the manager of the home department made a comment about how nice of a guy he is. I know they care about him and are being protective. I don’t know what to do but just be nice to him and try to be friends I guess.

I watched or read a clip about a famous actress in the 90s. She was beautiful it was a very short clip where she was explaining why she became fat. It heavily implied how hard it is to be pretty and that she was abused or raped. I read that and saw safety in being bigger. I am 5ft tall and 219 pounds and yet I still get hit on. Being big is starting to affect my health and yet I know if I lost weight it would get worse.

I shouldn’t have to justify not wanting a relationship, to another person, their friends or family or society in general. I’m sure there are people who went through something similar and are in loving happy relationships because they chose to move past it. Maybe I should get into therapy and move past this, but that should be my decision and I shouldn’t have to feel pressured.

I wrote this to let other people know that it isn’t always about you. Someone may not want to be with you not because of your looks or personality but because of their own issues. If someone says they don’t want to be in a relationship respect that. Don’t expect an explanation. Telling someone this is extremely personal and sometimes awkward. Plus that person will always wonder if you see them differently. As less than, because they don’t want sex or romance.