Become a pro at dirty talk!
Dirty talk can make sex even more exciting. You just have to do it the right way! Many men, and also women, often find starting to use dirty talk a big step. You want to prevent something that sounds sexy in your head, actually comes across as very uncomfortable when you say it out loud. That can ruin the moment and the vibe completely. We give you tips on how to use it in a sexy way! Build up slowly!
If you've been in a relationship for a while and you have never used dirty talk before, it's often good to build it up slowly. You'll have to feel if you get excited by what you say to each other. If you have never said anything exciting to each other before and you suddenly start saying porn-like things, it can be quite scary and it can come across as very intense. So think about what you say and start with subtle words. See how you react to that and then you can expand little by little! Use the right voice
To drive a woman crazy with dirty talk, it's not only important what you say, but also how you say it. Most women like the dominance in a man. They see that as masculine and women find that very attractive. So when you use dirty talk, most women also find it exciting when you show that male dominance in it. So say things in a calm but powerful, confident and clear way. Some women get excited just by the way the man uses his voice. Stay true to yourself
When it comes to dirty talk, it is very important that you are comfortable with the things you say. If you're not comfortable with what you're saying, you won't be able to say it in that confident way. So if you prefer not to use certain words, just don't use them! Think of words that suit you, try them out and see if they go down well with your bed partner! But what do I say?
There are lots of things you can say. They can be things you see in 'bad porn movies', but there is much more than that! It all depends on what turns you and your partner on. Calling someone's name during sex, or letting them know your partner is satisfying you in the right spot can be very effective.
You can also use it in foreplay. In this way you can get each other in the mood and build up the tension.By saying what you plan to do with her when you get home or by saying that she looks very sexy, you can get her very excited.
What many people don't realise is that you can also use dirty talk after sex! Let her know how horny you found it when she did something to you or that you would do it again with her. In this way you let each other know how much you enjoyed it and that it's worth repeating ;)