A Chaos Filled Mind

♡Sammi Pandemonium♡ (Personal & Art Blog) ☆♋ ☆Female ☆Taken Mother of 2 ☆Writer/Creative Person ☆Juggalette ☆Alternative Style lover ☆Piercings, Tattoos, & Music ♡ ☆Geek/Nerd ☆Shy & Awkward ◇My Tags◇ Sammi Curses My Character

[decemberdancer04]

Reblog this if you had to learn cursive writing as a child

If you were ever told or were made to learn cursive writing when you were in grade school. I wanna see how many of you suffered like I did.

[heymom-imgay]

reblog if you’re the fuck up of the family

[stoopidstylee]

Bruh that’s me

[haisies-deactivated20190915]

lmao true

[cloudyheadedstoner-deactivated2]

nd they’ll swear they don’t think I’m a fuckup

[6ixshitttttt]

Ay 🙋🏾

[thegreatlarryfisherman]

They tell me I’m the fuck up at every family gathering. Whoops.

[pxndemoniumghxst]

Yep.... and they make it seem like my brothers are better than me

[existentialwhale]

Active ways to cultivate positive body image:

(Because oh my god, it’s so hard, and everyone’s all like stop feeling so bad about yourself and it’s like how???) 

Be naked. A lot. Sleep naked. Have sex naked. Eat cereal naked. (Or naked and wrapped in a sheet. Favorite thing.) 

Follow beautiful, confident, (un-photoshopped) body-positive babes on the Internet. Unfollow anything that makes you feel insecure. Exposure is key. You’re not going to get it if you don’t seek it out, because the media sucks and wants us to feel like shit about ourselves so they can take our money. (Some hashtags to follow: #effyourbeautystandards #bootyrevolution #blackisbeautiful #transisbeautiful #wheelchairlife #fatkini #fatshion)

Lingerie. Next best thing to being naked. 

Self care, babe. Different for everyone. (Me? Showers, books, shaving my legs, nature walks, dark lipstick, good playlists, clean rooms, candles, sexy time.) 

Get ready in your underwear. Boobs = happiness. 

Self portraits. Be pro-selfie. Take a million selfies. Take sexy selfies. Take no makeup selfies. Take bad angle silly selfies. Take artsy tripod selfies. Take everything-is-on-point selfies. You’re gorgeous; document your gorgeousness. You don’t even need to post them. 

Stop with the self deprecationnnnn. Pleeeeaseeee. It’s hard to control your thoughts love, I know, but you can control what you say. NEVER insult yourself out loud. Dare I say compliment yourself out loud? (And if you can, do your best to try to body-positive-ify your thoughts too.) 

Sex (including solo sexy time), wine, and chocolate. In that order. 

Share the body love. Compliment your girlfriends. Cultivate a nonjudgemental, supportive, lift-each-other-up “we’re so cute” friend group. Everyone’s insecure. Compliment your besties. And strangers, too. Be that person that makes everyone feel good about themselves when they’re around. 

Good luck gorgeous. It’s a battle. We gotta unlearn all this societal bullshit.

[best-of-memes]

[quixiiify]

Make Some Pocket Extenders for Your Pants

So I don’t know about you, but I’m often frustrated by the ridiculous smallness of girls’ pockets. At a bare minimum, I need to be able to shove my cellphone in there - come on, pants companies! So what I started doing was making myself pocket extenders. I’ve done this several times, for pants and shorts. It’s great.

I just got this pair of jeans, so I thought I’d show you how to do it. I kind of feel like it just hasn’t occurred to some of you that this is an option, so maybe now it will. All you need is your pants, some fabric (I just took a random piece from a scrap bin), a needle, and some thread (thread doesn’t even need to match the fabric since literally no one will see it).

See? Ridiculous. Like, half a cellphone, or only 2.5″. Useless.

 So turn those inside out to expose the pockets.

Figure out how big you want your pockets to actually be. I kinda go by whatever looks like might be right. I didn’t really measure them. Fold the fabric in half, so you have a pocket, and then fold it in half again so you can have two equal ones.

Try to get the edges to line up enough, pin it in place, then sew up the sides! Are your stitches crazy uneven and wonky looking? Doesn’t matter; nobody’s going to see it. These are in the inside of your pants. The only thing that matters is that it holds up. So I double-did the corners, since those tend to get the most stress.

Cut open the bottom of the existing pockets.

Pin it in place, then sew around, joining the new pocket to the old pocket. I did this by keeping my hand on the inside, so I wouldn’t accidentally sew through the other side. Again, I reinforced the corners, and didn’t worry about what it actually looks like. Then I turned it in side out to make sure the inside was all joined properly.

Yay all done! And the pockets are so much bigger now!

Whaaaat I can fit my entire phone and entire hand and probably something else now, are girls’ pockets even allowed to do that?! Heck yeah they are.

[rosalarian]

You are a goddamn hero.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Social Anxiety

- Dread going out, especially to social event. - Feel uncomfortable in large groups of people. - Hate meeting new people. - Feel as if everyone is watching me. - Feel as if everyone is judging me. - Terrified of speaking to people. - Find it hard to make friends. - Would rather be by myself at home. - Often feel alone and lonely. - Will generally stay quiet and hide my thoughts and feelings. - Feel ashamed or scared of asking for help. - Feel as if I don’t belong or fit in.

[zodiacspot]

Read more about your Zodiac sign here

[pxndemoniumghxst]

Idea?

I've finally been able to (mostly) catch up in anything Pokémon (except the anime, omg that's going to kill me when I can finally watch all the episodes) but this is an idea I've had in my head for a while and after @TinylilTT had answered to it on twitter when she posted a photo of her playing Pokken Tournament (which I still have yet to be able to play like a lot of other Pokémon games that are on consoles other than DS/3DS), ANYWAYS (sorry ADHD), this goes out to any artist, but I wanna see what people think they would look like as a Pokémon Trainer! It would make it even cooler to see what Pokémon you would choose as your partner or your whole team of six, or even all the Pokémon you would want to have through out all six generations! (And now I want to REALLY work on writing a Pokémon story bu that's my own fault....) But seriously, I have been a fan of Pokémon since I was a little kid and I always thought it would be cool to see what other people imagined how they would look as Pokémon Trainers or if they ever thought up their own stories about it! (Sorry, I'm kind wound from lack of sleep, and I have been on a Pokémon kick for a little while, so please if you must, ignore this post)

[thezodiacvibes]

Read more about your Zodiac Sign here!

[disneyyandmore-blog]

[kellyjacobsbooks-deactivated201]

HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE Let’s say it’s 6.15pm and you’re going home (alone of course), after an unusually hard day on the job. You’re really tired, upset and frustrated. Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your chest that starts to drag out into your arm and up into your jaw. You are only about five miles from the hospital nearest your home. Unfortunately you don’t know if you’ll be able to make it that far. You have been trained in CPR, but the guy that taught the course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself..!! NOW HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE… Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack, without help, the person whose heart is beating improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness. However, these victims can help themselves by coughing repeatedly and very vigorously. A deep breath should be taken before each cough, and the cough must be deep and prolonged, as when producing sputum from deep inside the chest. A breath and a cough must be repeated about every two seconds without let-up until help arrives, or until the heart is felt to be beating normally again. Deep breaths get oxygen into the lungs and coughing movements squeeze the heart and keep the blood circulating. The squeezing pressure on the heart also helps it regain normal rhythm. In this way, heart attack victims can perhaps buy precious time to get themselves to a phone and dial 911. Rather than sharing another joke please contribute by broadcasting this which can save a person’s life! Be prepared and become part of the solution. Get your free next-of-kin notification card today. Click here: https://www.InCaseOfEmergencyCard.com/

[shadowkat104-deactivated-blog]

major signal boost

[imgonnariverdance]

Reblogging cause this could save someone’s life

[livinglavidam]

This could save many lives, reblog

[blackglamgoddess]

!!!!!!!!!!

[lexxcreatedyou-deactivated20170]

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[cheshireinthemiddle]

*Color*face

Since Tumblr cannot tell racism apart from sharing culture, I would like to point something out. 

This is yellowface:

This is not:

This is blackface:

This is not:

*color*face is the intentional mockery of a race by imitating an epitomized and perceived stereotype,typically for comedy purposes. *color*face is not a person sharing in a culture or doing something you assume was ‘invented’ by another race. *color*face is not an actor who happens to play a character of a different race. *color*face is not someone with a tan. *color*face is not someone cosplaying as a nonhuman.

So to recap,

Blackface:

not blackface:

Yellowface:

not yellowface:

There ya go

-Yuki

[furlockhound-inactive-moved-dea]

Keep this one moving, it’s a lesson a large portion of this website needs drilled into their heads.

[raddestbabe]

everyone’s having their mid-life crises at like 19

[olivertrees]

[fungusfather]

FREE PADS AND TAMPONS

Hey all you lovely people who have periods, the world is starting to look a little bit brighter now that certain tampon/pad companies have started to allow people to receive small kits and samples of pads, maxi pads, liner, and tampons for free. And I mean 100% free and discreet. You just have to give them your address and name, and bam! You’ve got all the menstrual cycle products you could ever need for no cost. Links below!

U by Kotex

Always

Playtex

Poise

[lyrical-galaxy]

i expect everyone to reblog this

[laracroftsspouse-deactivated201]

Reblog if you think black girls are cute

This is in response to a blog on here that claims to have cute girls of all types but seems to only have white and occasionally asian girls 

[callmedeku24]

Not enough notes this is sad

[twobillionaires]

Reblog because black girls are gorgeous.

[pretty-in-black-hoe]

Black girls are fucking magic

[100hearteyes]

I’m reblogging this because it’s revolting to see that it only has 7k notes

[xmagnet-o]

🙋🏾🤘🏾

[thegreatlarryfisherman]

Black girls are fucking flawless, omg.

[pxndemoniumghxst]

most girls: i need this shirt, i need this lipstick, i need a new haircut, i need those shoes!!!

me: i need this notebook, i need these pencils, i need these sticky notes, i need these pageflags, i need these stickers!!!

[mattjosephdiaz-blog]

Quick reminder that you’re totally allowed to like things without diving completely into knowing everything about them

you like 2 or 3 songs by a band and never listened to more? that’s perfectly okay

you like the Marvel movies but have no interest in reading 50 years of comic books? totally fine

you only play one or two videos games, mostly on your cell phone? they’re fun!

you read and enjoyed the Harry Potter books but don’t care about looking into crazy theories and clues planted in the stories? It’s not for everyone!

You don’t need to meet a requirement to enjoy something and anyone who claims you do is an elitist and an asshole

[gigaguess-deactivated20181203]

This, this, this, THIS, THIS!!