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The Pillars Of Self Confidence 🔥💝✅

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You don’t need to prove yourself and demonstrate what you can bring to the table when…

You’re FULLY embodied in your complete natural essence.

When you know who you are.

Confident.

Your energy speaks louder than anything else.

It’s the way you talk, even when you’re silent.

It’s the way you move.

It’s the way you look.

It’s the way you be.

It’s the way you live.

It’s the way you believe. In yourself.

It’s the full spectrum of who you are.

Your feminine and your masculine energetics.

Your strengths and your human sides.

Operating in an artful sensual dance of synergy.

No parts of you is disregarded.

Everything about you is honored as you come into one full MASTERPIECE.

People FEEL you from the first time they meet you.

It’s not much of your appearance they judge you on.

Its not even what you say.

it’s about how you come across, meaning:

the way you make them FEEL…

within the first few minutes of meeting you.

You truly do NOT have to prove yourself to anyone, including YOURSELF when you reach that level of inner synergy 🔥

It all starts with self love.

Nurturing and healing whatever is out of tune inside of your soul.

Learning to mother and reparent yourself, basically becoming the mother you needed when you were a child.

Removing any learned behaviors (in human design we call it conditioning) and reprogram yourself to be who you were created initially as.

God makes ABSOLUTELY NO mistakes and he didn’t start with you, nor the way he made you. 🙌🏽

You were innately created with that synergy.

It’s during the first 7 years of your life that you have learned to become who your environment wanted you to be.

If that environment wasn’t protective enough of your needs, it taught you to adapt to a leaned behavior and way of thinking that’s NOT naturally yours.

Thankfully these conditionings can be unlearned but it take DEEP work that only a certified professional can lead you through.

And that’s precisely how I help and support my clients.

One of the modalities I use is hypnotherapy and it’s one of the most POWERFUL way to lead you to inner synergy.

I will be covering more on that inside of my upcoming virtual event The EPIC Self love Slumber Party 🎉

I’m telling you, you’re in for a TREAT!

If this post speaks to your soul, I want you to join us from the link in HERE 😘

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Girlfriend Vs Wife Energy & Self Confidence

Let's Talk About Girlfriend Vs Wife Energy:

Why I don’t believe in being someone’s girlfriend.

Warning This post contains:

Unpopular opinions

Major triggers

Very colorful language (because I’m very passionate about the topic and will NOT apologize for any of the following)

As the majority of people I dated and also had many relationships.Although I always knew I wanted to get married at some point..

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I also bought into the popular beliefs that those days I HAD to be a girlfriend for at least a year or more to “convince” a guy I was wife material.

Move in with them, travel, cook and clean for them too. And guess what that didn’t work..

AT ALL..

I ended up with a list of failed relationships that I wish I never entered into.

Self-loathing, leaving me with having to recover from them each one of them every time..

But when I had enough of this BS, I simply decided that I wasn’t going to be anyone’s girlfriend.

I would simply date until it would be time to get married..

I didn’t care about the popular lies running around anymore..

I had stopped believing that having a high number of boyfriends was something cool and brag-worthy.

I mean, have you heard of that TikTok trend called "body count"?Seriously ewwwwww TF!.

I knew one thing that was for SUUUURE is that based on my experience I knew for CERTAIN that when a man wants you, and I mean, REALLY wants you, he will pursue you and do ANYTHING in his power to get you..

And additionally, if he thinks you’re the one, he will pursue putting a ring on it until YOU say YES..

So I held onto that knowledge and I started dating differently.

And I went against THE MOST popular dating rule!.

From the very FIRST date (Oh yes you are reading this right) I was crystal clear that I wasn’t their next girlfriend but I was looking for my husband..

I can’t tell you how much I deeply appreciated doing that because that IMMEDIATELY removed any guys who were only looking for fun and get me to give wife duties on a girlfriend plan.

Only a handful remained and eventually pretty quickly I found my one and only .

Now that didn’t stop here.

Having changed the way I saw relationships changed the way I saw everything else because again everything in life is a relationship.

With yourself, friends, and business.

Everything.

So I pondered more on the subject throughout the years and as a business owner, I realized that: When I am in the market for something I’m a quick buyer.

Meaning, it really doesn’t take me ages to buy something.

Not because I’m an impulsive buyer, (and a lot of people tried to make me believe that) but because I always already know what I’m looking for and when I see it I COMMIT to the purchase.

I don’t need tricks or a manipulative false sense of urgency to convince me (I can see right through them).

The truth is that A LOT OF PEOPLE are people who are ready to commit!.

And yes a lot of people are afraid of it too.

BUUUTTTT!

It doesn’t mean that we must bend ourselves over backward to convince!

Seriously, F.U.C.K the Convincing energy!.

And prove what we “bring to the table” (I F’ing hate this term by the way ).

In business or career, a whole lot of the gurus will teach you the convincing strategies to sell….

But again, from the bottom of my heart F.U.C.K that!.

There are people out there ALREADY looking for what YOU offer AND are READY AND WILLING to commit to THEMSELVES by buying from YOU..

There are people out there who want to have friendships with people like YOU, YES!.

AND will show their commitment to your relationship by showing the F up for you..

The girlfriend energy is the life where you have to prove yourself and keep giving away free test drives like it's "nobody's business" to prove what you can "bring to the mother fucking table".

(Ths one is for my fellow entrepreneurs: Free challenges, Freebies, Free tips, Free shipping, Free products, Free samples... you name it. Free 99 yourself in every possible way. Bend over and give yourself for FREE.)Do you think that Chanel, LV, Bugatti, or Ferrari give away free shit anything???

Free anything only brings in LOW vibes of EVERYTHING..

Whereas, The Wife Energy is KNOWING with ABSOLUTE CERTAINTY that you are ONE of a kind.

VALUABLE..

Irreplaceable.

And worthy of being committed to !!!.

You bring QUALITY into everything you do.

And others see it, they feel it, and they fuckin' LOVE it!.

Your energy is VALUABLE to them.

That’s why they stick around and want to keep doing so.

They show you genuine LOVE and SUPPORT you fully.

Now after learning this all, I embody this WHOLEHEARTEDLY.

I only deal with people and clients who are ready to commit to themselves and value my energy because I am READY to commit to them and their success in return.

I know myself in and out. As a Human Design Generator, I naturally radiate a strong frequency, and so If you can’t feel or see the value of my energy from the get-go, I’m not for you and you are not for me.

And it's OK.

I’m NOT afraid of walking away from things or people, even if they seem like amazing opportunities on the surface of things.

I’m not here to convince you of my value.

I already know I’m BEYOND valuable.

Because I have done the inner work to elevate myself to that frequency.

And that’s EXACTLY what I mentor my clients on.

I take them onto an incredibly deep self-discovery journey and they come out of it CONFIDENT AF in their abilities and talents.

COURAGEOUS and DARING.

They drop any need to prove themselves.

In the deepest knowledge that they too are VALUABLE and ready to achieve things that they never even thought they could manifest in their 3D reality.

Their lives change completely and they thank me for that. I have lost count of times when I was told “you saved my life”.

Again QUALITY in my relationships that’s what I call the Wife energy.

If you are READY for it, let's do THIS together!

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It’s a FULLY immersive healing experience. I walk you, through a journey of self-discovery, based on Human Design experiments, that are geared toward helping you

genuinely fall in love with who YOU are.

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My very unique multi-dimensional approach ensures that we tackle ALL the deepest areas that require healing.

We clear the shadows and heal any traumas that are weighing you down, with Hypnotherapy, Tapping, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Breathwork, Journaling, and Gene Keys.

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So many get heated up with pointing the finger of blame at others and trying to decipher whether or not they may be narcissists,

But,

The truth is that it doesn’t matter at all.

You can’t control others,

ESPECIALLY narcissists because that’s their specialty.

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Giving them a taste of “their own medicine” is a waste of your precious time that should be invested in YOUR healing.

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It’s also becoming “them” and stooping at their miserable levels.

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NOT 👏🏽THE 👏🏽VIBE 👏🏽you should to go for.

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Revenge may taste good in the moment but the aftermath is you becoming like the ones you’re so relentlessly pointing the finger at…

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Self love is the answer.

Believing in YOURSELF is the answer.

Doing YOUR part for YOURSELF is the answer 💝

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It you’re ready for that next step, head over to my link HERE to download my Self-Love Journal

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Self💝 isn’t selfishness it’s FAITH.

We live in a world where people truly don’t love themselves and in the same way faith is being lost…

Why is that you may think…

I’m pretty sure you never heard anyone linking these two things together but let me tell you how both are linked…

The different scriptures clearly tell us to wish what you wish for other the same as what you wish for yourself

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To love your neighbor the same you love yourself

And how are supposed to do that unless you love and/or learn to love yourself first?

God is perfect, he makes no mistakes and he didn’t start with us.

But instead these days we strongly portray self love as a lack of faith.

As if, when you love yourself, a little too much, something is wrong with you.

And most definitely, for the ones who do not love themselves, it’s so triggering to see somebody, especially a woman who loves herself and doesn’t mind admitting it.

These women are very often and so sadly teared down. Comments about how “ugly” they are, or how “not special” she is are constantly thrown on these women.

Internet can go super wild with this…

And instead of just loving themselves these people are spitting on what God gave them…

When you look into the mirror just hating what you see…

When the last thing on your list is to take care of yourself…

When you praise others and envy them because of how Gos graced them but “not you”…

How do you think God would react to ungratefulness??

Taking his distance because it’s not his job to make to the first step it’s ours…

Let that sink in ✌🏽💝

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About Wanting More than enough 

When we hear those words, we tend to think of greed. 

Wanting to have more than you need is how you get to give from a place of abundance.

It’s being able to generously share without needing anything in return.

It’s about giving and being thankful for being the hand that gives.

Not only to god but giving and thanking the person that received from you. 

Because while you give they can refuse to accept. It happens sometimes. 

We give compliments and the receiving person brushes them away.

What happens then? 

There’s a mixture of sadness and incomprehension.

But we didn’t feel uplifted, instead we tend to take it as a rejection of our thoughts and good intentions.

But when someone receives what we give them, doesn’t this feel so good?

Having more than enough is essentially what we humans should aspire for.

In every aspect or in as many aspects of our lives.

Wanting more for the sake of hoarding and holding for ourselves. Wanting things for us and not for others.

That’s what greed essentially is.

But when your desire comes from a place of wanting to be a super flow of abundance, receiving it, thankfully rejoicing in it, and spreading it, this is generosity.

This is what lifts up entire societies. 

So forget about having just enough for yourself. Why?

Because when you’re wanting to be generous when your needs are barely met, you take away from yourself and you, my dear, should have all of your needs fulfilled because that is your birthright.

When you’re receiving what you need, it increases your feelings of gratitude.

That’s from that place that God wants you to live.

That’s where you praise him for his bounty on you. 

That is worship.

And the more you receive, the more you worship, the more you elevate yourself and others around.

Another reason why “just enough to get by” is good enough is that when you give what you don’t have, it creates a sense of expectations towards the ones you give to. 

You expect them to be thankful towards you, to owe you something, or to love you for helping them out.

The truth is that it’s in human nature to be ungrateful.

And this tarnishes your personal relationships. It also lowers your “good intentions” to give.

If you expect something in return, even just as little as a “thank you” of acknowledgment, a good intention isn’t the real reason behind your giving.

Of course a thank you of politeness is always appreciated and humans are better when they are thankful towards others and especially towards God.

However, the giving hand is the upper one and should be thankful towards the receiving hand and towards God.

DOWNLOAD MY FREE SELF-LOVE GUIDE HERE: https://www.subscribepage.com/theselfloveguide

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Yours truly.

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Living Through Others | Podcast

Are you living? Are you experiencing the life that you want to experience or are you doing this just to please someone specific in your life your spouse? your siblings? your mother? Your father?

Do believe that you are worthy of having the life experiences you desire?

LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE PODCAST:

https://anchor.fm/thegodfidentwoman/episodes/Living-Through-Others---How-Codependents-Waste-Their-Lives-e1bvttt

Or are you getting these feelings though watching others experience them?

Just because you keep thinking “I’m too old to xyz” or it’s too late for me to xyz or it’s easier for them because of xyz

I have to admit that I have lived a biggest part of my life just to please my mother. Prove her that I could accomplish things and all I wanted was her approval and love. 

All I wanted was to hear her say I’m proud of you 

Now looking back after waking up to this , though it took me having to reach a burnout, when I asked myself, if it weren’t for this, would I ever had gone through chasing all these goals?

Would I have even wanted to be at the top?

If I was brought up thinking that just being me was enough to receive love, attention and respect, would I have chased all of this?

The answer was a plain no...

And right there my entire life felt like a lie. I wasn’t doing all those things for the reasons I had thought...

Deep down all along, what my heart kept telling me was, I want to be a writer. Even though for someone creative like me there’s hundreds of things we can excel at, all I ever wanted was to live in a nice secluded place and spend my days writing. Releasing books. Imagining stories or creating powerful self help books that would serve as my legacy.

Attending events where intellectual conversations would be exchanged.

When you put any kind of pressure over someone else over what they should do with their lives, you rob them.

You rob them from becoming who God wants them to become. You rob them from allowing them to impact their surroundings with their natural genius. 

You derail them from their path. You break off the strength and alignment with their inner intuition.

You put yourself between them and God.

I get it as a parent or someone who just cares, you want what’s best for them. 

You’re certain that you know what is best for them because you’re older and have life experience they don’t.

But do you know better than God himself? 

Will you ever, could you ever?

Offering guidance yes, pressuring no

Advice should only be taken from the ones who have the life you want to have. 

DOWNLOAD MY FREE SELF-LOVE GUIDE HERE: https://www.subscribepage.com/theselfloveguide

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About Money, Providers and Going 50/50

The scarcity mindset rules this world. Especially with this current pandemic. It’s understandable that these days, women would feel even more the pressure to give up their natural need to be provided for.

HOWEVER, and this goes especially for my sisters of faith, please never forget what the Lord teaches us. A man can only be the leader of his household if he provides financially for the entire household needs.

“But how can you expect a man to pay for all the bills in this world we live in?”

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The truth is, we live in an era that has the most millionaires than ever before. The internet allows ANYONE to make a ridiculous amount of money from their home. This is a reality that we are facing. It’s not a myth. Nor a lie. It’s a FACT.

I think that a whole lot comes down to a few things, Lack of beliefs in possibilities, Still living in the 90′s paradigms, Laziness, and stinginess due to scarcity. Fear.

So please never be fooled into buying into this lie.

Does this means all men should be millionaires?

No but that show that there’s no shortage of money only shortages in mind expansion.

Men aren’t built equally in this world, and the ones who understand their masculine essence and roles DO exist.

So why is it that you don’t really hear or see them around?

Making a living keeps a man busy doing so. That’s why. They are NOT around, telling women how to be women.

They are not around trying to get you to lower your standards to get you to provide wife favors for minimum efforts in returns.

Because quality men EXPECT you to have high standards so they can take on a challenge and rise to the expectations. 👉🏽Earn their Trophy 🏆.

That’s based on this that they will earn the privilege of your attention and company and that’s what makes them respect you.

There’s also a subconscious feeling and need to reward you for making them aspire to become a better person by providing for your needs.

Making you happy makes them happy. 🎯

Therefore, if there’s ANYONE around you (starting with you) trying to make you believe that you can’t have a man in your life that will provide ALL the things you need and more, they are lying to you. They’re also lying to themselves.

They are projecting their lack of faith and scarcity mindset on you. Lack of anything doesn’t come from God. Lack results in fear, anger, stress, again NOT from God.

If that person is yourself, go back reading these last few lines.

No matter what your co-dependent thinking is making you think, you ARE WORTHY OF ABUNDANCE. In love and in ALL aspects of your life my Sister.

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Self-Love: How To Infuse Sensuality In Your Life

“Sensuality is a state of being & a lifestyle”

Sensual isn’t much of a word you hear every day. It tends to get rapidly confused with erotism or sexuality. And though they are linked, they are very different from one another. Sensuality is a lifestyle where, as a woman, you take your time to enjoy different levels of feelings.

It will benefit your life in many ways. Such as creating a better sense of self-love, deep desires and body need for fulfillment. Helping you self generate the love and attention you crave the most. Then any love and attention brought by external sources will be a great addition to complete on what you already have. From self-love comes self-confidence. And strength. And who doesn’t want all that?

The female energy is absolutely all about slowing down and feeling our emotions. But not only that, feeling our surroundings. Feeling the food we eat. Feeling the clothing we wear. Feeling the touches we receive, the hugs we give to others and to ourselves.

Pause, receive, accept, and feel. Letting the sensations sink into our soul. Enjoyment. Savoring every single bit of the moment and wrapping ourselves into it.

In our modern society, we also tend to confuse this with mindfulness. But to me, a sensual lifestyle goes deeper; because it’s not just about observing things around you. It truly is about letting the sensations run throughout your body and enjoy them.

Nowadays, We’re all SO focused on being productive and hyper-efficient. We’re obsessed with time management, never-ending to-do lists, and multi-tasking. This comes from a very masculine driven energy and functioning.

Us women need to feel. Not only emotionally speaking. But awaking all of our senses. Our main sense is touching and we are severely deprived of it.

How much of you right about now feels the craving to be in nature and taking a moment for yourself away from any cares and duties?

The more civilization has “progressed” the less we spent time outdoors. And ironically the more businesses popped up to sell us a plethora of plants and flowers. With the idea to bring nature indoors.

The reason why we crave for natural surroundings is because of our deepest need and desire to FEEL our surroundings and allow its purest energy to fill us up completely into peacefulness.

Not only that but our creator made us from dust. It’s your nature craving for its natural habitat.

I mentioned the words “slowing down “ and that’s one way to start transforming your lifestyle into a sensual one.

I know you’re told to keep working your way up against the clock and one way to facilitate this is to time block for your time to slow things down.

Whatever you may choose to do during this time frame. Even if it’s working on creating anything. Because yes you CAN still be productive while slowing down.

Your idea of slowing down could be soaking yourself into a hot bubble bath. Whatever it is, it should be about what your body needs.

So tune inwards and ask yourself “what do I need right now?”

Another way is to allow yourself to choose clothing that makes you feel like you’re laying down on a cloud. The materials of your clothing are the main thing you feel all day long.

Chose them carefully, whether you prefer fresh cotton, velvet, silky materials or lace details. Let yourself enjoy the feeling of the texture of what you wear, every day.

Another way is to choose a body cream that smells divinely with a texture that you prefer. Apply it on your skin daily.

When you’re on the run, you can apply your favorite hand cream. Give yourself a mini massage from the tip of your fingers to your wrists. I used to do this religiously during my lunch breaks when I was working in an office. This would immediately relax me out of the job stresses. And would mentally mark my “personal time” even when I was at work.

Movements. Slow Movements…

The next way I want to cover is to move your body slowly. If you’re into Yoga, you already know this. If you’re not, then slow body stretches with deep breathing will do the trick for you. Moving your body will release tensions and energies that are locked into your muscles due to stress.

So moving your body will ease up the tensions and help you feel into your body.

Dancing is another way to release sensuality. There are many different dances that will help you feel sensuality in your body. The part that needs to move the most is your hip area. This is the part where your womb is and the home of your sensuality and female energy. Belly dancing and bachata have this mesmerizing effect on people because of the way their movements release the feminine energy at its purest and most intense forms.

Next up, spray your favorite perfumes and scents on and around you. Aromatherapy has proven itself a long time ago. Slowing down and allowing yourself to live in a bubble of scents that are unique to your taste will awaken your sense of smell and relax you. Helping you slow down and give yourself into the moment. Closing your eyes and focusing on what you smell. Breathing it in deeply and savouring its benefits.

The main aim of living sensually is to awaken yourself. Remember not everyone who’s living is actually alive.

The masculine energy is beautiful because it helps us make things happen, stay sharper and provide for ourselves when it’s necessary. However, when us, women stay more on our masculine sides, it numbs our feelings.

We lose touch of who we are and how we really feel. This imbalance in energies forces us to live and act in ways that aren’t natural for us; which leads to either depression or anxiety.

This is mainly caused by the misalignment between who our bodies and souls need us to be and who we’re told or force ourselves to be.

The spiritual path to your success:

A sensual lifestyle helps you to get acquainted with your soul on the deepest levels. Developing your intuition and channel your connection with your creator. Though sensuality, you get guidance from him directly to lead you in your life.

You will find many more details and simple steps to activate your feminine sensuality in my upcoming eBook The Femme Trophy. It’s a straightforward guide that encourages women to refine their style and lifestyle to be more feminine and become the best version of themselves.

The art of feminine essence and elegance. Learning to be a woman in a man’s world. Coming up soon.

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Personal Style & Self Confidence

Manifest and attract your dream life through your personal style

Never underestimate the power of an outfit that makes you feel and look like a Million $

When you look your best you literally feel more powerful and confident.Then the levels of energy that comes from you is of a HIGHER vibe

.Then the world and the people around you feel it too.So much so that:

They wanna follow you

They like you better

They listen to what you have to say

They ask for your opinions and advice

They want to associate themselves with you

They want to learn from you

They help and open doors for you.And that’s just the beginning of your new and improved life experience.

It’s not much of a secret, in order to become a match for what you want in life you have to “be it” in order to “get it”.An improved personal style is literally you wearing your life goals and being that higher version of you.

And letting the rest follow your lead.