People saying "They were both abusive/shitty to each other." Is just a watered down version of "A man is not allowed to defend himself or express discomfort when being abused by a woman." And it shows. Self defense is not mutual abuse. And for the love of fuck if anyone goes "But the texts!" I will personally put a lego in your shoes.
So true. It's not considered abuse if the person is reacting to being abused. Abuse would be if he ever started it. But it seems like in all the occasions that we know, she starts it and he just reacts.
Idk about you, but if I reacted off of someone abusing me and someone told me "Well clearly you were abusive as well" I would lose my shift.















