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do you ever just feel like you have nobody to talk to? well i’m here for anybody who needs someone to talk to. you’re not alone.

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Hey, sorry if this is annoying but I honestly have no one to talk to. I have this friend but she is so mean to me all the time. We have this group that we hang out with at school and they constantly make plans ( right in front of me) but don’t invite me. I can’t stop being friends with her because im in all of her classes and my family is too connected with hers. I found out she’s been bitching about me, but when I asked her about it she told me it’s nothing she wouldn’t say to my face :( ty xx

omg i am so sorry i just saw this! and you are in no way being annoying, i wanna help! but i know you feel like you have to be friends with her BUTTTT you don’t!! everyone has a choice in life and if you don’t want to be her friends with her then don’t! if she’s gonna be a bitch and talk shit about you and leave you out of thing, then she doesn’t deserve you! just try to continue to talk to her less and less and when the school year ends and you don’t have to see her everyday anymore, then you can start fresh! good luck xx

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I have had a crush on this guy for the longest time, and no matter what, I always go back to thinking about him and wanting to be with him. I can’t get over him, and I just really want to be together. I think he might feel the same way, but I’m not sure, and I do not want to embarrass myself by asking. What should I do?

hello! i would recommend to try and talk to him a lot. if you do not know him well then i would first suggest to get to know him. ask him about himself and maybe flirt a little. if you think about him so much then hang out with him! for the first few times, hang in a group and as you get to know each other more, you’d feel comfortable hanging alone with him. once again, if you think about him all the time, then just go for it! and if he doesn’t like you back then it wasn’t meant to be. you only live once so don’t hold off on trying to get to know him more and spend time with him. good luck!!!!!

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have no luck with guys. the guy I like is so confusing, one day he’s flirty, the other he ignores me. im not unattractive or anything and my personality doesn’t suck, so i kind of want an outward perspective as to why this would be

hey! i think that on the days that he doesn’t flirt with you, you should try and flirt with him because maybe he likes you and isn’t sure if you like him, so take some action and be super flirty! but, if he continuously just is all over you one day and not the next, then i would say something. it may be scary to talk to him about it, but in the long run it’ll help you a lot more to know if he likes you or not because it won’t hurt to simply ask him why he just flirts with you one day and ignores you the next. you could say something like “hey i was wondering why you sometimes randomly ignore me, it really confuses me.”

best of luck,mia

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okay so i like this guy and we’re both 18. we train together. i think he might like me back but i’m not sure, that was the impression he gave me and my friends. We train with his 14yo brother as well. He’s pretty mature and we get along really well. I don’t know why people think we have something going on and he always gets super shy and a few people said he definitely likes me. He’s really nice but I dont think I’m attracted to him plus he’s too young. I don’t know what to do?

hi! first off, i think you should friend zone the 14yo if you don’t like him because if you lead him on or interact with him, then he might think you like him and then when you tell him you don’t like him, it’ll make things awkward with his brother, who you like. you should maybe try and flirt with the guy you like and maybe the younger brother will get signals that you’re not into him while the guy you do like, will get signals that you do like him and maybe try and interact with you more.

best of luck,mia

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Hey. I'm sorry that I'm bothering you but I literally don't have friends rn and I need advice. I have had feelings for a guy since 2015, and last year I got drunk at an open air festival where he was there too and I kissed him (he didn't want to - reasons bc he's kinda old for my age). And I just can't stop thinking about him, it gets worse every day, and it feels like I'll never able to fall in love with another person again. It's scary. Should I speak to him about my feelings again?

hello!!! first of all, you don’t know bother me at all, i want to help! and to me it seems like you really do love him so i definitely think you should talk to him. if you think about the kiss you had everyday, then it really seems like there is something very important there. talk to him because if you don’t you’ll never know if he feels the same way.

always by your side,mia

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im single on valentine’s day 😭

hey!!!!!! you don’t need any boy/girl to feel loved! i love u and i’m sure that there is someone out there who loves you. spending one valentine’s day alone doesn’t mean you’ll spend every valentine’s day alone. i hope you spent the day loving yourself. (btw go to the store asap and get all their chocolate bc it’s on sale) have a lovely night babe 💞

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I have a friend (not) and she is getting on my last nerves. She's annoying and I can't take her any longer. She is obsessed with me and does everything I do, likes everything I like even details. It wasn't until she started to change up her look a bit like me and stalking me. I tried telling the teachers but they only worry about her. I'm just freaked out, stressed, frustrated and it's gotten to the point where I think about death. I also don't wanna say it to her cause she has anger issues.

hello!i first wanna start off by saying, even though it may suck that your “friend” is copying everything you do and stalking you, it’s NOT worth taking your life! since you can’t talk to her about her always copying you, i think it’s best to try and just stay away from her. maybe at school you can try to talk with other people and definitely eliminate any social contact outside of school because if she is really freaking you out, you wanna be around her as little as possible. maybe you can try telling another friend of yours about it and maybe they can kinda mention something to her about how she always copies you like “hey i like your hair, it’s just like *enter your name” or just have them compliment her on whatever she copied you on so she kinda knows that someone else noticed that you copied her. and if nothing is working to get her to stop, i know you don’t want to talk to her, but if things get really out of hand then you really should talk to her about it in a public place, maybe she won’t get as mad as you think. and if that doesn’t work, then you really need to get an adult involved like telling the counselor of your school or something like that and tell them you don’t feel comfortable around her! stay alive for me and for everyone who loves you, and i promise you will get through this!always by your side,mia

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ask me for advice ♡

hello to anyone who is reading this! i am constantly trying to help anyone who needs advice so please ask me for advice if you need some or if other accounts are not able to reply to you, i’m always here!

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I get jealous sometimes of my best friend because he has things better sorted than I do, and I *deep inside* think that he doesn't deserve it. I know it's a bad thing to think like that and I should always be happy for them no matter what, which I do! But like there's another evil side of me, that have such thoughts. And I sometimes think that it must have been something that happened which lead me to think like that, and I don't know what is. Maybe him being selfish sometimes or something. Help

figuring out your life takes time! i know how it feels when you want to be happy for someone but you just can’t. but everyone will always have something you don’t have which is totally okay. and just because you don’t have your life sorted out right now doesn’t mean you never will. even though it’s hard, continue to try and be supportive of your friend because if your life was going good, you’d want your best friend’s support. and when you sense jealousy, just remember that you WILL get to a good place in your life just like your friend! best of luck!

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what inspired you to start this blog?

my friend had a Tumblr blog about something she’s really passionate about so i decided to start a blog about something i love to do, give advice! 💕

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can you speak any other languages?

yes! i speak fluent English and Spanish! 🇱🇷🇪🇸

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where would you want to travel right now?

i would LOVE to travel to Greece right now😍✈️

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i’m being bullied because i’m trans... i know the trans community is huge in tumblr and i get lots of support on here but i can’t deal with being bullied about it at school.

aww i am so sorry to hear that! i can’t imagine what you are going through, some people are just so unaccepting, it’s so sad and cruel! but try and ignore them, because by not reacting, they will eventually get bored of not getting a response and stop bothering you. just continue to be yourself because there are people like me who will always support you and be there for you and i truly believe that you will one day be able to surround yourself with people who love and support you too. remember, the bullying is only temporary. your bullies will get no where in love if they can’t even focus on themselves. stay strong my love, you got this!

always by your side,

mia

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help? my friend is going on a date with a player but she won’t listen to me

just let her go out with him! it’s hard when you know someone is capable of hurting someone but they won’t listen to you, i’ve been in the same situation, but if she doesn’t listen to you then you have to respect her decision because after all she can go out with whoever she wants and who knows maybe the relationship will go great or maybe it will be a flop. but just be supportive and hope for the best with them!

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mia i rly love ur blog

awww thank you sm☺️💕

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help me my boyfriend is cheating on me but he doesn’t know i know

im so sorry to hear that! cheating is the worst. but you need to confront him! if someone is that careless to cheat on you, then they probably don’t deserve you. i think you should talk to him and ask him about it and if he tries to deny it then that is an immediate red flag to reconsider the relationship. even if he admits to it, you should still re think the relationship because he might’ve broken your trust!

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HELP I HAVE EXAMS

relax! i know that school is very stressful but if you’re feeling stressed then maybe you are not taking enough time for yourself. take some deep breaths and just know you can do anything! you got this and don’t let exams tell you other wise!