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Joey - 19 - trans man - demi + bi - he/him ~ jewish Listen I have a lot of gay thoughts and I NEED somewhere to dump them. Currently taken by my beautiful partner (🐝) Trans, nonbinary, & aro/ace all welcome! Everyone is welcome unless you’re a pedo or you’re into minor + adult ships.

[queer-yearning]

Things I’ve realized in the past 1.5 years: I’m a binary trans guy, maaaaybe with a touch of nonbinary. I am demisexual as fuck. Thought I was ace but uhhhhh no.

[queer-yearning]

ok wait hold up do they have a crush on me???? Or am I bad at social cues??????

[queer-yearning]

apparently they have a little crush on me?? And I was supposed to just Know ™ that because they made out with me

[queer-yearning]

WAIT I THINK ITS MORE THAN A LITTLE

[queer-yearning]

IT IS MORE THAN A LITTLE AND WHEN J TOLD MY FRIEND, MY FRIEND SAID “yeah, and?”

AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DIDNT FUCKIN KNOW

[queer-yearning]

HAH YEAH MORE THAN A LITTLE, DEFINITELY MORE THAN A LITTLE

[queer-yearning]

so we’re officially dating now?????? aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I like them so much

[queer-yearning]

I TOLD THEM I LOVE THEM AND THEY LOVE ME TOO AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[queer-yearning]

We’ve been together for eight months now and I can’t believe I’ve found someone so great. We both have helped each other grow as people and I really like who I am when I’m with them. I can’t wait to take them on that aquarium date we’ve been talking about since we started dating.

[queer-yearning]

ok its been about a year and a half since we started dating. We’re still going strong! We both see each other staying together for a long time. Once I’ve got my bachelors and they’re in grad school, we’re (hopefully) going to live together! They’ve helped me change for the better. I’ve learned to have more confidence in myself, form my own opinions, and I’m so so grateful for that. Even if our relationship ended tomorrow, I would be thankful to have been with them. We’re long distance right now, but we’re making it work.

I want to move in with them and raise kids with them and fall asleep every night holding them and grow old with them and love them and love them and love them

[queer-yearning]

ok wait hold up do they have a crush on me???? Or am I bad at social cues??????

[queer-yearning]

apparently they have a little crush on me?? And I was supposed to just Know ™ that because they made out with me

[queer-yearning]

WAIT I THINK ITS MORE THAN A LITTLE

[queer-yearning]

IT IS MORE THAN A LITTLE AND WHEN J TOLD MY FRIEND, MY FRIEND SAID “yeah, and?”

AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DIDNT FUCKIN KNOW

[queer-yearning]

HAH YEAH MORE THAN A LITTLE, DEFINITELY MORE THAN A LITTLE

[queer-yearning]

so we’re officially dating now?????? aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I like them so much

[queer-yearning]

I TOLD THEM I LOVE THEM AND THEY LOVE ME TOO AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[queer-yearning]

We’ve been together for eight months now and I can’t believe I’ve found someone so great. We both have helped each other grow as people and I really like who I am when I’m with them. I can’t wait to take them on that aquarium date we’ve been talking about since we started dating.

[queer-yearning]

My beautiful partner calls me their boyfriend and my dumb gay heart goes !!!! That is me !!! I am boyfriend !!!!

[druidofulidia]

Thinking of learning how to crochet so I can make my boyfriend a teddy bear that he can cuddle when I'm not around ☺️

[ladybugpdf-deactivated20250512]

i broke into ur brain just to call u out in this quiz (but in a soft way). how does it feel to be loved by u?

[queer-yearning]

Y’all I am so in love with my partner! They’re so sweet and good and I just! I’m really happy!

[strongermonster]

ok so 2020 was kind of a mess but what’s the best thing that happened to you this year?

[queer-yearning]

I want to be laying on top of my partner. My cheek pressed to theirs while they rub circles on my back.

[dysfunctional-transmlm]

i just wanna say explicitly that mlm/nblm that are pretransition or still in the closet are welcome on my blog. i know it must feel weird to participate in online mlm/nblm spaces when you are not seen or recognized as mlm/nblm irl, but even if that's your situation, you are still mlm/nblm and you are absolutely welcome here.

[queer-yearning]

we should skateboard around town and look at the Christmas decorations together

[gaynln]

mlm with cluster b disorders are stellar. you're wonderful. <3

nlm exclus dni

[queer-yearning]

fellas is it gay to sing your partner to sleep every night

[queer-yearning]

I want to wake up next to my partner and sing to them while I rub their back

[inkigayeo-deactivated20201105]

ok i need,,, for science,,, pls reblog with your hair colour,,, a fun fact about yourself,,, and whether you like crunchy or soft cookies

[gaynln]

alright i know i made a post like this before but i just had an idea and i gotta do it again

reblog if you’re a mlm blog that allows nonbinary people to interact! i’m going to be making a masterlist for fellow nonbinary people out there who want safe blogs to follow

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

“Relationships take work”

Some things “relationships take work” should mean:

It takes work to learn to identify, effectively communicate, and mesh your needs/wants with those of another person

It takes work to actively listen and learn the other person’s communication styles as well as their needs and wants.

It takes work to maintain a relationship by planning activities together and investing in time spent together

Some things “relationships take work” should never mean:

Relationships take an exhausting cycle of constantly fighting and making up

Relationships require you to compromise your core values or change core aspects of who you are

Relationships take conforming to the other person’s expectations even when you don’t want to

Relationships take constantly proving to the other person that you deserve respect and/or love

Relationships require you to try to make yourself feel and want things you don’t actually feel or want - or at least pretend you do

Simple truisms like “relationships take work” can be misused in harmful ways.

Relationships do take work, but that work is supposed to be a team effort to support and care for each other while still honouring your own needs and desires.

If your relationship isn’t a healthy partnership, don’t feel like you have to stick it out just because “relationships take work.”

You are not obligated to stay in any relationship you do not want.