Notes on Preface: Ho Tactics by G.H. Lambert- Confidence is Key
- A confident woman sees a set back as a chance to improve
Confidence is something that everyone seems to deal with, whether male or female, including myself. Even now at 21 most of the relationships I have been in have purely been related to the fact that someone took interest in me even though I have a low self image. My plan of action regarding confidence has two steps: the ever cliche, fake it till you make it, and to do things I feel confident while doing.
- Man Will Pick a Ho 9 Times Out of Ten Because Men Cherish Excitement Over Stability
G.H. Lambert defines exactly what he means by the term Ho, which is not this idea of a “loose” woman who sleeps with everyone. The only thing that makes a Spartan woman and Ho different is their motives. They are both ruthless but a Spartan wants love, respect, and partnership, while a Ho wants materialistic goods. “Neither of these women play by the rules nor put other people’s needs ahead of their own. My own experiences in the past have been neither of these women. While I have looked for men for love and respect in the past, something in which I never received, their needs were always met and I was left in the wind with a tarnished reputation. I no longer wish to seek out love or respect but rather things I actually need to live my life, and if love happens, so be it. In essence I’m raising my standards to the highest they have been.
Personally I think the reason men want excitement is because there is a lot of pressure for men to provide stability even if not in a relationship and heterosexual men want something different in their love lives, but that doesn’t mean that mine, or the average woman’s needs should be put below the man’s need. Men want a woman who is sexy and charming without being embarrassed by the amount of sex she oozes.
“How can you compete with someone willing to break the rules?”
