Talking isn't a relationship status, dating isn't a relationship status, stop giving relationship benefits to people who are playing you.
1. HE’S FAKE BUSY
Men make time for their boys and they make time for their hobbies. Work, business, side hustles, family issues NEVER stop them from checking their phones every ten minutes and contacting those people who they want to contact.
It stops them from coming to see you, from planning a date night, from sticking to a promise because he doesn’t fuck with you like that! When he looks at your text he’s thinking, “she doesn’t want shit, I’ll get at her later.”
2.HE’S FAKE JEALOUS
You know he likes you because he doesn’t want you talking to anyone else 🙄
Men are always in a perpetual state of competition. You don’t have to mean anything to a guy for him to want to control you, but a series of toxic relationship examples in your life has convinced you that control = love.
A guy will go out and stick his dick in his ex-girlfriend then tell you he’ll Nicole Brown you if you even DM another man. You don’t see the hustle? Once again, men instill fear, they flatter you with attention, they paint you to be a possession, they stroke your ego by wanting to keep you under lock and key, while in the meantime he’s not laying any real claim to you because he’s still an active free agent. He acts jealous it’s sexy. You act jealous, you’re a paranoid bitch—wake up.
3. HE’S TRYING TO BUILD WITH YOU, NOT BE WITH YOU
If you keep assuring a woman that you see you two being together officially down the road, she’ll be patient. “Le’s see where it goes, continue to get to know each other, become friends first…” it’s a way to satisfy an ultimatum without coming off disinterested in a woman.
By telling her “don’t worry, you know I love you, I just need time to get myself together,” it allows her a real thing to take back to her circle and something to lean on when common sense is saying, “He’s full of shit.”
A man that’s building, is either looking to replace or looking to train. Which means you either get left behind during the dating stage once he finds his Game Changer or you become the Bottom Bitch who he just trained to be obedient to his commands. What do you get out of it? A relationship you had to roll over and beg for.
I'm sorry but this was so inaccurate...this is not representative of all men and the fact that the author states to erase what a person thinks they know and follows with Men are full of shit....is bullshit. I'm so glad I don't have to deal with people who think this way. Shit like this is why it's hard to date and truly form a connection with someone.
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