Purpose: Spell to ease tensions in friendships/relationships.
Requires:
° a big bowl (preferably glass) filled with water
° picture of you and your friend
° blue food colouring [peace, forgiveness, patience, removing bad vibrations]
° 1 brown candle [friendship, to make relationships solid] or white [all purposes]
° cloves (the number of cloves should equal the number of your friendship in years) [friendship, release negative forces]
° a needle
° 1 crystal (lapis lazuli [friendship, honesty] < I was informed that lapis lazuli would dissolve in water, so if you use it, please protect it with a waterproof warpping!, rose quartz [helps all kinds of relationships/friendship, forgiveness], turquoise [friendship, clarity], tourmaline [friendship, peace] or quartz [all purposes])
° incense (honeysuckle [friendship, happiness], sweet pea [friendship, courage], angelica [harmony, insight and understanding], chamomile [harmony, peace, calm] or sandalwood [all purposes])
Point in time:
° weekday: Sunday [friendship, social aspect], Friday [friendship, harmony] or Monday [emotions, peace, insight]
° moon phase: waning moon [banishing negative energy] or waxing moon [relationships]
Procedure:
1. Evoke the magical circle.
2. Ignite the incense. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Enjoy the pleasant smell and meditate a few minutes to prepare if you like.
3. Take the needle and the candle and carve your name and your friends name into the candle.
4. Light the candle and let the soothing light fill you with positive feelings that will help you to open your mind to your intenion.
5. Lay down your picture in front of you and place the glass bowl above it.
6. Pour the food colouring into the water (not too much because you should still be able to see the photo!).
7. Put the crystal into the bowl. Watch it sink to the ground.
8. Stir the water up (use your hands). Say:
“Tension sneaked between us.
Rules our minds.
But shall not ruin us!
Years of precious friendship/relationship overweigh.
Give us peace, balance and harmony.
Don’t let us forget, but let us learn from our mistakes.
Help us to get strong again.
This is my will, so mote it be.”
9. Take the cloves and let them drop into the water, one by one. While you do that, think about the happiest memories you created together and recall the way you felt in those moments.
10. Reverse the circle.
11. Let the incense burn down by itself.
12. Let the candle burn as long as you are able to supervise it. Then, douse the candle.
13. Light the candle the following days until it burned down completely.
[You don’t need to follow each step exactly. Do what feels natural to you, so your energy may flow constantly. Own Spell]
But be aware of the following: Communication is the most important thing in any kind of relationship. This spell will help you to reconnect and ease the tension. But it cannot heal something that is broken. Many friendships/relationships are meant to last forever, but sometimes they are not. It is very hard to acknowledge to oneself that it might be over, especially when you used to be very close. But times will heal and the right people will always be in your life.
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