Hey! Do you have any ideas for ways to actually incorporate forcemasc into the bedroom? I love forcemasc and my confidence in being masc in the bedroom has been kinda low, but I don't know how to actually "play it out" like in real time with another person (I'm a bottom btw but I hate being perceived as feminine). My boyfriend is supportive and wants to forcemasc me too but neither of us really know how that works in a roleplay sense in real life... Open to suggestions!
Okay, this answer is going to be long.
People can have an hard time to implement forcemasc in their sexual lives because it's a kink that's more a dynamic than a specific practice. For example, petplay would also be a dynamic, while impact play is a specific practice. In kink, you can use specific practices to enforce dynamics.
So, what is a forcemasc dynamic and how to materialise it with specific practices ?
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Forcemasc is the fiction you are being masculinized against your full enthousiastic consent and as such, can be separated in 2 other dynamics : masculinization and consensual non-consent.
Masculinization
Anybody from any gender can masculinize anybody from any gender. It can be a masculinization of your body, your gender or "just" your gender expression. To engage in masculinization, you need to decide on what it will focus.
Your sens of self ? The gendered words used for you ? Your body langage ? Your clothes ? Your haircut ? Your bodyhairs ? Your hormones ? Gender affirming surgeries ? Sexual practices ? Bod mod ? Voice training ?
Take also the time to establish boundaries : do you want to be forcemasc-ed but not called a man ? Do you want to have gender affirming surgeries but not have them included in your forcemasc play ? Are you willing to change haircut but not to shorter than your shoulders ? All valid and legit <3
Then, you will identify the practices you want to use : Praise ? Degradation ? Training ? Conditionement ? Hypnosis ? Control of your clothes ? Control of your bodyhair ? Administrating HRT ? Daily gender affirming affirmations ? Forbiding shaving ?
CNC
Consensual Non-Consent is a way to role play not being willing to engage in some acts, while staying safe and fully willing. To engage in it, you need a safeword or any other mean of freely communicating no in a way that will be immediatly understood as being outside of the role play.
It can be as simple as pretending to be manipulated into sex or as intense as pretending to be kidnapped and raped at gunpoint.
Now that you know what part of you will be forcemasc-ed and how you will do it, you're going to ask how it's going to be forced on you.
Do you want to be physically restricted ? With hands ? Cuffs ? Shibari ? Tape ? With sensory deprivation ? After a fight ?
If you want to be conditionned, what are the punishments used to make you complie ? Impact ? Electro ? Writting lines ? Doing push ups ? Orgasm denial ?
Do you prefere it to be only verbal, pretend you're in a toxic relationship where you're being manipulated into being more masc to deserve love ? To deserve pleasure ?
An established power dynamic, where the dom doesn't need to ask fo consent (in role play, ofc) ? Just have to decide they want you to be more masc, and even if you beg against it, they will do it and you will obey.
Combine !
Now that you identified each part of the scene you want to play, connect everything in a coherent and fluid way ! A few example :
your dom tie you up to do your t-shot while praising your body and the affect T has/will have on you. It make them so worked up they have to fuck you after
You said "my clit" instead of "my dick" and didn't correct someone that misgendered you ? Well, do 10 push-up, and say "I'm a man, I have a dick, I deserve respect and I shouldn't let other try to convince me otherwise" between each one. Then, perhaps you will be able to win back forgiveness between your dom knees.
you're blindfolded and being edged by your dom, who make you repeat gender affirming sentences. They will only let you cum once they're convinced you really believe it !
10 spanks for each day you're late for your t-shot
you're being stalked, your more feminine clothes disappear, same with your make up and recently you noticed your bodyhairs are getting thicker. You suspect something had been mixed with your body care products. Until you wake up in the middle of the night to being fucked while your tdick is pumped. (need some suspension of disbelief or the means to do a few days of play)
your dom only let you cum if you top or if you take it from behind, like a man
you're talking about your dysphoria and your insecurities, your dom refute everything with praise of your body and masculinity. You say you don't believe them. You get punished and forced to repeat each praise
And many other way, depending of what you like and what speak to you ! It can also be mixed with other dynamics kink, like petplay, ageplay, master/slave...ect
Obviously, this is just a way among others to create a forcemasc scene, but I think for people not used to kink, it's a great step-by-step method to start. Only do things you're confortable with, and that apply to you even if you're a dom. Do aftercare, take care of each other and communicate !
Anyone else wanna train the gender binary out of someone? Keeping them inside, protected from those useless ideas? Dissociate them completely from the idea of traditional gender and sex, never exposing them to any gender binary ideas until they forget what a boy or a girl is? Until all they know is that they're being very good, and they deserve all the world... Just me? Ok.
a lot of untapped potential in forced androgyny. something so so so erotic about just being wiped completely blank so that i can just disappear into any and every desire you project onto me, using androgyny to cement that i’m not a man or a woman but a machine, or an animal, or just an object of aesthetic rather than something that can be given personhood through any sexed categorization.
Forceenby but it’s sculpting someone into something so beautiful you cannot put a label on them and their new job is to stand and look pretty for everyone else to marvel
You don't think it's 'manly' to whine and whimper while I make you feel good..? Your voice gets too high, huh?
That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
Real men don't give a fuck what others think, especially someone with his cock in their mouth. Real men are loud and proud, aren't they?
A real man whines and cries like a bitch while I force him to cum over and over again <3 A real man bucks his hips and twitches against my mouth when I bury my face in his cunt.
I am no better than a cis man because I, too, entirely missed the point of Fight Club. I think forming a boot camp for trans men to beat the snot out of each other in an abandoned basement to build brotherhood while me and the hallucination of my idealized self run a gray market t-gel homebrewing operation sounds fucking awesome.
sorry i turned your shy, innocent daughter into a rowdy and unashamedly horny man. yeah he's so much happier now. yeahhh sorry it's permanent too. might do it again tomorrow
dogboy bf except he’s just so sleepy all the time. he’s not a golden retriever jumping up and down playing fetch he will nap all day and whine and give you sad eyes when you don’t pet and cuddle him. the word walk makes him bury his head under the covers
- 🦴 sending u dogboy asks again im really living up to my name
Aw I would buy him a big dog bed so he can always be close to me and confortable, but at the same time he will go on those walk, I'm not giving him a choice I want to show off my pet.
I'm strong enough to carry him anyway, but if he want a reward before going back to being a sleepy boy, he should walk.
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