backwards compatible autism

She/It - Ace/Pan - 30yrs pfp commissioned from BamSara Still obsessed with the DCA (and now Ghost in the Machine by extension)

[thepuffster]

i forgot i had tumblr

gitm art variety pack (except i lied and it's all misuta)

5th image was a commission for @cacklingcarousel of their swag oc red

[vacantfields]

"Hello, Starling. Want to come over here and relax with us?" They grin at you. I also just realized i have hit 3k followers THATSSS CRAZYYYY!!!! thank you guys for all the support!!! Have this as a thank you SKJGHKSJHSG LOVE U GUYSSS Close ups under here!!!:

[filthyfuckingcainestan]

New type of kiss unlocked: A text prompt/button/pop-up that you have to "click" to activate.

[zer0caffeine]

Original post by @morallygrayautisticscientist here, this post was so funny I decided to draw it lol.

For those of you who joked about Stratt projecting her period cramps on Grace, I drew that too here.

Panel by panel below:

[wynnibee]

Hey guys, I know I’ve asked for a lot of help with rent these last few years, but I really need help this time because things are getting a little wild on my end.

I'm not normally one to put my personal business on blast like this, but long story short, my mom has gone off the fucking rails. We're planning on moving out of this shitty apartment in the next few months. Keyword here being 'months'. however, my mom thinks that because we're planning on moving, that means we're already moving, which means we're practically already moved out and our next place is guaranteed.

We do not have a set move date. We do not even know if we're approved to move yet. We just have a place picked out and an idea that we would like to move.

Given my mother's crappy logic, she believes that means she doesn't owe our landlord rent anymore, because why pay for another month if we won't be here for it? We will very much still be here for it. This is where even more of her shitty logic comes into play; my mom thinks she can "game the system" to keep us from getting evicted and thrown out on the streets before we're ready to move. The system being the legal system. The fucking. Legal. System.

Her plan is to not pay for this month, not pay for next month (July), hoping that they'll start the eviction process at the end of July and she has some weird plot of being able to drag it out through August and into September by filing a response to the eviction once it's been filed for non-payment of rent.

However, for some reason, she seems unaware that they will start the eviction process at the end of this month and have everything ready come July, because they can, do, and have evicted people for being behind one month of rent. They have proven this time and time again, especially in the past with us when they've tried to file for eviction (the last time I was here was because she was mad at our property manager and decided not to pay rent as a way to "get back at them" which we saw how that turned out).

I would very much like to not be thrown out on the streets into the heat during the driest spring on fucking record here in my state. I have senior dogs and senior cats who will already be stressed out by the impending move, and being homeless will only make that worse. I am begging for help so I can literally go behind my mom's back to pay our rent before the next billing cycle rolls around with the start of July.

A friend was kind enough to give me half of what i needed, so the bar will be much lower than it normally is. I don't know what I'm going to do about July yet, I’ll have to wait and see if I can convince her to pay then. as always, please share if you can't donate! Every bit counts <3

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[kuropin]

Jax and Kinger

[radiophxbia]

my awesome unstable daughter and the army of stuffed animals that do her evil bidding for her

[charnel-grounds]

Tyler Pennington, Untitled

pen & ink on paper, 2026

[probuccalfat]

avoidance is lowkey funny because it’s like i don’t want love on the off chance that it gets taken away from me and then i have to become john wick or something

[probuccalfat]

we’re all on the only social media that matters and this is why.

[sealemoons]

soleils

character belongs to @/venomous-qwille

[sealemoons]

HIII I just want to tell you that your art leaves me in awe every single time i see it!!! you have such a wonderful way of doing colors and rendering and well everything!!! And i wanted to give you this as well <3

YOUUU!!!

OHHH MY GOD HIII!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH THIS IS SO CUTE!! squeezing and shaking sun in joy

I love when your art shows up in my timeline 🫶 here’s your boys in return love them sm

[sealemoons]

playing with more designs

[vacantfields]

"I'll do anything to have you near me." Heres another sweet drawing of the boys and yn :) i just love them being all loving KSJGHKSJHG

[sleepykas]

They're fun to play with :)

[sleepykas]

small & cute ≠ innocent

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

I work with kids and I've had two occasions where a little boy straight up won't listen to anything I say because I'm a woman. and like yeah he's gonna continue to be raised by terrible role models and probably grow up to be a sexist douchebag but I have three hours a week to get through to him and so far I'm crushing it. I got six year old boys who previously didn't listen to a word I said telling their shitty dads to not speak to me like that. yeah that's right I'm the teacher making your kid woke. go fuck yourself about it.

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

you left your kid with me and I taught him that women are people. and also to question authority. and also how to kick someone in the nuts. have fun with that.

[rainbow-demoness]

Do you have advice for people wishing to also learn the skill of getting through to little boys who've been taught not to listen to women?

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

honestly there's nothing that's going to work for every kid but I've found just turning kid behavior back on them usually works pretty well. like if they say something about "girls are like this and boys are like that" be like why. why. why. why. exactly the way little kids do. they'll try to come up with an answer but usually after like five rounds of me asking why they'll eventually be like huh. idk.

in my case it definitely helps that I teach kids martial arts classes at a boxing gym with a lot of women. so little boys just factually cannot tell me that girls can't fight or aren't strong or something, because they're constantly surrounded by proof that isn't true. also rules are very different in a boxing gym so if a kid is being a little shit I'm allowed to pick them up and put them in upside down air jail. you probably can't do this in most contexts.

I think the biggest thing is that they need to see men and other boys listening to women. they're following the example that's been set for that. at home maybe their dad never listens to their mom, but when they show up at my class all the other boys are following my instructions. peer pressure is real and you can use it to your advantage. I make a point to tell the biggest buffest manliest dudes what to do in front of the little boys. now this works because those dudes already listen to me, but getting any dudes to follow your instructions could probably work.

the best punishment is the natural consequences of your behavior. if a kid isn't going to listen to me, he doesn't get to do class. this works because class is fun and he wants to kick stuff and hit people with noodles. kids want to have fun more than they want to misbehave. as long as listening to me is more fun than misbehaving, they'll listen.

because these boys are learning this behavior from their dads, the dads also tend to be the kind of tough strict emotionally distant parents that would yell at "girly" behavior or crying. even when I'm strict with the kids, I never yell, I obviously never hurt them, and I always listen. they want to yap at me about pokemon or youtubers. it can be tough when they're really sexist at the beginning but eventually they will show you something that their dad wouldn't approve of, whether they want a pink noodle or quietly mention they like a girly show. this is the part where you simultaneously act like it's no big deal while encouraging it. you need show it's completely normal for a boy to want or like that. if you can, bring up another boy or man they know who likes the same thing. I always show off my nails to the kids and bring over the guy who also paints his nails. you'll probably get "boys can do that?" comments and I usually just go "well he's a boy and he did it, so unless his hand falls off right now I think it's okay"

for me, it's always eventually gotten to a point where the boys realize that everyone else thinks it's normal to listen to women, and that if they want to have fun they need to listen too. they also realize that these people and these women are nicer and listen to them more than their dad does. they notice how all these nice people that make them happy talk to women very differently than their dad does. when those boys yelled at their dads for being rude to me, I made a point to thank them and say that they were right and their dads were rude.

encouraging the behavior you want to see is even more important than punishing the behavior you don't want to see. you can't tell kids what not to do without giving them something to replace the behavior with.

[aroace-ryland-grace]

he's gonna fucking get you