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ao3 turns 15 today
reblog if youre older than ao3
(there's a lot of people asking about this, but the legal age to use social media is 13, except in few countries. so yes, there are people here under 15)
I must not mock Gen Alpha. Mocking Gen Alpha is the mind killer. Mocking Gen Alpha is the little-death that brings total generational solidarity obliteration. I will engage with Gen Alpha lovingly. I will permit them to be cringe. And when they grow up I will turn my eye to their accomplishments. Where mocking has gone there will be nothing. Only generational solidarity remains
I know "60s housewives who invented slash fanfiction" has taken on a life of its own as a phrase, but Kirk/Spock didn't really exist until the 70s and THOSE WOMEN HAD JOBS. They were teachers and librarians and bookkeepers and scientists and they damn well spent their own money going to conventions, printing zines, buying fanart and making fandom happen. Put some respect on their names.
Salute to our troops (70s careerwomen who put their hard-earned dollars into homemade gay erotica)
It was women with secretarial jobs doing a lot of the heavy lifting, if memory serves correctly.
They had training in type setting, could churn things out quickly, knew how to organise mailing lists, and had easy access to Expensive High Tech like photocopiers.
Boss make a dollar, she makes a dime. That's why she's printing Kirk X Spock zines on company time.
sometimes you need to give up committing to the bit when someone genuinely canât tell if itâs a bit or not and is getting distressed about it :/ sorry
sometimes all u need to do is take one second to say "(yeah this is a bit)" if someone is genuinely asking because they genuinely can't tell, and then you can continue with the bit. i just feel like refusing to acknowledge someone saying "i cant tell if youre joking or not" and you just continue, or even say, "im not joking" then you're not being very funny, you're just being kind of mean, i think.
obviously there is nuance to this and if you know someone really well sometimes going in harder on the bit will make them get that it's a bit and that's fine if you know them. but just be mindful, yknow? not everyone can pick up on stuff like that, and pushing harder on a bit by saying "im serious" when someone asks if you're joking or not can be harmful in some situations.
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the lee scorseby âyou love her but thats not enough is itâ line is also like at the very heart of the story. the fact that mrs coulter loves lyra doesnt stop her from treating her cruelly and it doesnât stop lyra from rejecting her. the fact that lee loves lyra doesnât stop him from dying and leaving her. the fact that lyra loves pan doesnt stop their separation. the fact that john parry loves his wife and his son doesnt stop him from leaving them and it doesnât bring him back. the fact that will and lyra love one another doesnt stop them from being torn apart. love never conquers loss in hdm the way it usually does especially in kids media and thats what makes the ending so jolting and devastating because you keep believing until the last second before will closes the window that there's going to be a happy ending, because how could there not be, they're in loveâŚ. but then they lose each other anyway
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It should also be recognised that Lucille Ball helped advance the medium of television as a whole by, more or less, inventing the idea of reruns. This was, in large part, what drove the success of non-serialised shows such as Star Trek, but also paved the way for extremely popular television genres like the sitcom
Septa Mordane is largely responsible for the bad relationship between the Stark sisters and Sansa bullied Arya are two statements that can and should co exist.
Every time I see the fandom talking about Arya/Lyanna and saying that they are popular characters for having "masculine" qualities and that is why we are misogenous I want to tear my eyes out.
"Why doesn't social justice include jews?" the fuck are you talking about--we're literally in those movements. how does that mean "not included" to you? "oh but sometimes people are antisemitic and" okay?????????????????????????? are you aware social justice movements are often homophobic and racist ??????? what is with this "why I left the left" nonsense for only antisemitism lol???
i think when people use the word "include" they are speaking misleadingly. they don't mean, why aren't jews able to be activists in social justice movements. because as you point out, we are! the question that's being asked is "why are jews not treated as a marginalized group in social justice spaces' analysis?"
I want to address this more specifically than my original post intended.
I understand what people mean by this--though there's also an element of condemning Jews being pushed out (literally marginalized from) social justice communities. I really, strongly disagree with the premise that antisemitism is uniquely erased in communities which seek some kind of social justice. I want to explain a bit more where I am coming from with this post, because I think it is important for our community to understand. Let me first say that I personally experience a pretty intense, and a bit abnormally high?, amount of antisemitism in the social justice communities I am engaged in.
Some of that is from an actual Holocaust denier who is a prominent leader in disability communities. Any time I bring up antisemitism, I am dismissed.
Antisemitism is not uniquely reproduced by spaces which seek to advocate for some kind of social justice.
But, any time I bring up racism, as a white person, I get chewed out for it. When I bring up transphobia (I am a trans woman), even my allies tell me "some people are uncomfortable with that." Women's rights are also a "difference of opinion." I almost always run into situations where even acknowledging the basic humanity of Palestinians--much less being actually supportive of Palestinian liberation!--leads to conflict with PEPs* and their supporters.
(*Progressive Except Palestine. On that note, it does not escape my mind how folks who complain about antisemitism in the way you describe are all too comfortable with marginalizing Palestinians and Palestinian death. Are we not also responsible for our communities? I know for a fact that you, the person who I am responding to, will make community with Zionists, while also seeing what Zionism is doing in Palestine. Are we not also complicit? Is antisemitism in social justice communities really more unique or harmful than anti-Palestinian racism in social justice communities? How do we lecture when we do not do the work? I think that's a real question that deserves a real answer.)
Now, there's open questions for me as to how/if to engage with these groups, coalitions, and communities, etc. when they are openly antisemitic to me and few people will even listen to me about why that's a problem. Sometimes it is important to engage and sometimes it is important to build around. Whatever I do, I make sure to act in solidarity with the numerous people of color and trans people in those spaces and pushed out of those spaces. As in, literally, I work with them. That is the only way to get through this and this is something that other marginalized communities have already discussed. In the notes of this post, people of color are discussing this, for example.
Again, I, sadly, understand feeling angry at the ways communities will reproduce antisemitism while not acknowledging that they do it. I am currently literally wracking my brain over how literal actual "six million Jews did not die in the Holocaust" tweets aren't career ending in the disability rights movement. I feel very fucking irate about this! I fully understand the mental anguish associated with people just failing to give a shit about Jews.
At the same time, I must acknowledge that this is not a unique feeling and there is safety in solidarity with my friends who are similarly marginalized by these racist, misogynist, anti-LGBTQ, Islamophobic, and xenophobic movements. It is also important to distinguish between fueling antisemitism and using antisemitism, which the progressive Jewish group Bend The Arc describes: https://www.bendthearc.us/understanding_antisemitism_fueling_vs_using
On confronting antisemitism: We all have a lot of work to do to challenge antisemitism and it's going to be increasingly frustrating work as antisemitism becomes more and more normalized. Both covert antisemitism (Soros conspiracy theories) and overt antisemitism ("Christ is king, synagogue of Satan") are becoming more acceptable in mainstream politics. It certainly doesn't help that Zionist politicians in both the U.S. and the State of Israel will promote the covert antisemitism and, occasionally, overt antisemitism but specifically about anti-Zionist or left-wing or diaspora Jews! We need to get serious about this. Part of getting serious about it is acknowledging antisemitism is not aberrant and expecting it. We need to expect conflict. You need to be brave about confronting it through the very annoying process of coalition organizing and solidarity work. Retreating from it--and, especially, retreating into racism--will not work. Luckily, maybe, we are not actually alone in this dynamic.
As Jews, understanding that our struggles aren't completely unique can help us recognize opportunities for solidarity against a white supremacist system which produces antisemitic violence and antisemitic ideology alongside structural racism and racial terrorism. Our struggles are clearly intertwined--the same ideology which murdered dozens of Muslims attending their Mosques in Christchurch and Black shoppers in Buffalo and Latin American shoppers in El Paso also murdered a dozen Jews at the Tree of Life Synagogue. We need to act like it. We need to do the work, just like, horrifically, other marginalized communities are forced to do.
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#the entire left has utterly abandoned disabled people to covid based eugenicist genocide but disabled ppl are still out here at the-#-forefront of liberation movements. lol. lmao even.#social justice movements are just like every other aspect of society in that they replicate all its issues.#ableism and antiblackness and antisemitism and all the rest.#but we still gotta do the work.#social justice#antisemitism#racism (via pocketsizedquasar)
#as a middle eastern jew i could say so much abt this#but the most productive thing i can say is#this is exactly what conservatives want#to isolate minority groups from each other#because we are stronger together#ofc some leftists are antisemitic but thats not a reason to turn to the right#(you think the neo nazis are gonna look out for you? pls)#(also psa antizionism is not inherently antisemitic â¤ď¸) (via uriekukistan)
#likeâŚeverybody is antiblack but we're still here cause nothing will get better without Black liberation#lbr if you decide to become conservative it's because you wanted to be but felt like you needed to justify it#you're a coward about your own morality (via ciboriaadastra)
this is going to sound like such a little sibling ass take but i genuinely believe that being a little bit annoying is actually a greater sign of maturity and self awareness than being universally likeable and on good terms with everyone
if some people find me annoying and can't stand me because of how i think and act then that means i'm a fully realized human being with my own personality and opinions and free will and not just a reflective surface for other people's desires, which is in fact a good thing despite what people who want you to just be a reflection of their own opinions and desires will tell you, and why being considered "cringe" or whatever doesn't bother me at all
also it's really funny when you're confident enough in yourself to know that people not liking you isn't always a sign that you're the problem. like there's something undeniably hilarious about being aware your mere existence has the power to piss someone off and ruin their day and i recommend embracing it.
âthey would never get togetherâ this âthey would hate eachotherâ that!what happened to shipping two people who have never even been in the same room! why do ships have to make sense now! who cares! we used to be a proper country!
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Alexa, replace every "stacy" in "Stacy's mom" with "Suki"
you never know what someone is going through. for instance i didnt know i was going through anything until about 2 years later. i thought i was just chilling
His Dark Materials is a franchise that tackles so many branches of physics and even creates a universe where the main course of study is experimental theology which is all about identifying and explaining dark matter while also adding dimensions to string theory, the multiverse theory, and the very concept of the human soul. At the same time, it aggressively calls out the problem with the state being controlled by the church, how people are condemned for being different and religious fearmongering stops the chance at growth both on an individual and a societal scale. Itâs a franchise where the heroes of the story are two children who arenât allowed to know the prophecy theyâre a part of, who save the world unwittingly simply by doing what they believe to be right. Meanwhile, the person who thought he was the hero all along, the person who rallied an army from multiple universes to FIGHT. GOD. HIMSELF. is ultimately consumed by his own ego and forced to take a back seat when he realises heâs just one tiny piece of a much larger story thatâs true heart is his own daugher. The child he abandoned, the child he didnât know or care to know how to look after. Itâs a franchise about finding love even when your biological family abandon you, itâs about looking evil in the eye and seeing your own mother, itâs about good and evil not being black and white but instead a complex and cruel mixture of both. Itâs about the two worst people you know banding together at the last second to save their daughter with their final breaths. Itâs about exploration and learning how to grow through experience, itâs about kindness being shared across the multiverse, exchanging stories with strangers and saving the whole world by doing something perfectly ordinary and receiving no reward.
Oh, and itâs also a franchise rich with fantasy, with giant talking polar bears, witches and ghosts, angels and daemons, and a mammal-like species from another world that travels exclusively on roller skates.Â
And it fucking. rocks.
#i know people have started criticizing the#âmen are afraid of getting laughed at women are afraid of getting killedâ#but this is real?
Oh, yes.
A few years ago I went to pick up a woman I met on OKCupid for a date, and a friend of hers was there. They kind of over-explained âOh, she just showed up to say hiâ and there was a vague nervousness in the air that even my autistic ass was picking up on. Her friend was playing conspicuously with her phone. I went âAh, the safety. Need to get a picture?â
Dead silence for about a second and a half, then the friend took a picture, looked at my date, and said âHave funâ and walked out the door.
(I would ordinarily have been clueless, but Iâd just been asked to be the safety the previous night.)
My advice to male-presenting folks: recognize that this not your problem. By which I mean, this sort of security check isnât a problem for you. It doesnât hurt you. You arenât being insulted or disrespected. And if you treat it like what it isâ a reasonable adaptation to an unreasonable situationâ and just roll with it, your dates will be more comfortable, and you will have a better time as a result.
The same applies to phone calls mid-date. Let them answer the damn phone without drama.
They arenât accusing you of being a dangerous person. The very fact that they are willing to go on a goddamn date with you means that they have extended a certain level of trust. But the fact remains that there isnât really a way to distinguish between âa man who isnât dangerousâ and âa man who knows how to behave like heâs not dangerous.â
there isnât really a way to distinguish between âa man who isnât dangerousâ and âa man who knows how to behave like heâs not dangerous.â