Avexi🕊⚰️

your local woker

[a-totally-reasonable-username]

I'm wishing a very Happy Pride Month to all the queer people who:

are disabled

are chronically ill

can't celebrate for health reasons

disability gets in the way of their gender representation

disability got in the way of a relationship

don't have anyone to celebrate with

have homophobic caretakers

Happy Pride Month to all disabled queer people

[bruiised-pup]

Can you give a transbpd tips?

— TRANS BPD ✙

　　　✰𓏲 .. this post will cover

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　　　bpd criteria

　　　subtypes of bpd

　　　general tips

　　　splitting tips

　　　euphoria tips

includes talk of dangerous activities such as s/h and illegal activities. it will also include swear words and talks of delusions/paranoia

　　please proceed at your own risk!

hopefully these will actually help and aren't like... "duh ofc i do that." i tried my best, most of these are from my experience as a pw petulant bpd

　　　✰𓏲 .. to "qualify" as having bpd, you must meet at LEAST 5 of the 9 symptoms on the diagnostic criteria. these include

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── : ✧ irrational, strong fear of abandonment

── : ✧ unstable and intense relationships

── : ✧ unstable, quick changing, and/of LACK OF identity

── : ✧ periods of stress related paranoia and a disconnect from reality

── : ✧ impulsive and risky behavior

── : ✧ threats of suicide or self harm (usually in response to abandonment or rejection)

── : ✧ wide, intense mood swings

── : ✧ ongoing feeling of emptiness

── : ✧ inappropriate / strong anger and short temper

　　　✰𓏲 .. there are 4 subtypes of bpd. these include the following. it is important to note that you are not required to have one specific subtypes.

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── : ✧ petulant : these individuals have a difficulty expressing their emotions, causing them to struggle controlling them as well. due to this theyre prone to more severe mood swings and outbursts of anger quickly. this subtype is prone to proposing ultimatums or forcing others to prove their love

── : ✧ quiet : the quiet subtype has a stronger fear of abandonment, thus causing their emotions to be directed inward, leading to self blame, self harm, and going to extreme measures to prevent people from leaving

── : ✧ impulsive : as suggested, this subtype is based on impulsivity. typically these individuals are more charismatic, they're good with convincing others, they enjoy being the center of attention and thrill seeking, leaving them to be reckless and dangerous (as in s/h, unsafe sex, gambling, substance use, etc)

── : ✧ self destructive : self destructive focuses more around euphoria as well as dangerous threats and activities

　　　✰𓏲 .. general tips

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── : ✧ rapid / extreme mood swings. these can be minutes to hours

── : ✧ associate emotions with sickness or pain. for me, i get nausea, headaches, stomach aches, etc when feeling things due to the intensity

── : ✧ be skeptical of people, especially in high stress scenarios. or alternatively, dissociate—shut your brain off, yk?

── : ✧ complain about having a "gut feeling", this can cause strange actions or delusions of your choice

── : ✧ complain about hallucinations. smelling, tasting, hearing, feeling, or seeing something not there

── : ✧ whenever you're not in an episode of high emotions, complain about being bored or "numb".

── : ✧ try to cure the boredom with impulsive things (please stay safe)

── : ✧ form strong attachments to EVERYONE. this will either be a good or bad attachment. associate everyone as evil or perfect. (i can do an alternative post on fps if requested)

── : ✧ have multiple personas. switch through these personas, change characteristics about yourself frequently, mimic others, whenever you're not around people, resort to feeling dissociated and empty

── : ✧ hypersexuality is quite common in bpd

── : ✧ lack of boundaries or constantly changing boundaries

── : ✧ complain about people or yourself not feeling real

── : ✧ conduct tests to make people prove they care. isolate, make them come after you. pick fights, see if they care enough to make things right, threaten to kill / hurt yourself, etc. (while i bring up the harm point as example, please be safe)

── : ✧ age regression / age dreaming to manage emotions

── : ✧ maladaptive daydreaming

　　　✰𓏲 .. (neg) splitting tips

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* note - you do not have to split on OTHERS. you can even split on yourself too. splitting is just any switch between black (negative) and white (positive) thinking.

* note - you will pretty much ALWAYS experience guilt and/or amnesia after splitting

~ splitting on people specific ~

── : ✧ be random. splits come out of nowhere

── : ✧ viewing the person/people as evil

── : ✧ make outrageous claims against them. for example, "you hate me", "you never cared about me", "you're talking about me", "youre out to get me", "you're secretly [perp/bad person]", so forth

── : ✧ call the person/people mean names. splitting causes you to be impulsive, therefore, you don't think before you speak

── : ✧ when splitting, use words like "always", "never", "no one", "everyone", etc. splitting is all or nothing, there is no middle ground. ex. "everyone hates me, why does this always happen. things never go my way."

── : ✧ push people away / leave them before they can leave you

── : ✧ shaking, struggling to breathe, throwing up, being more aggressive than usual (for example accidentally breaking things, stomping, talking louder), you can even sometimes FEEL the emotion like a buildup of pressure in your chest.

── : ✧ complain about your body being sore from how tense you are from the emotions

── : ✧ forget any good experience you've had with this person in the moment

── : ✧ things you thought you cared about, they dont matter while you're splitting

~ splitting on self specific ~

── : ✧ convince yourself everyone is going to leave you, that you're too much to handle, you did something wrong, you're a back up option

── : ✧ undermine your own happiness / believe you dont deserve good things

── : ✧ self sabotage

── : ✧ complain / vent about yourself

　　　✰𓏲 .. euphoria tips

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* note - this is not the same as manic or hypomania. euphoric episodes typically last a few hours. it's very rare for them to exceed a few days

* note - just like splitting, euphoria is also commonly caused by a trigger. not everyone knows their triggers, but these can be music, animals, smells, games, anything that gives a sense of joy can trigger happiness in bpd to the MAX.

── : ✧ wonder why you were sad

── : ✧ complain about memory loss during or after

── : ✧ boast about yourself. claim youre the best and on top of the world

── : ✧ be more social / give off more energy

── : ✧ act as if the euphoria will last forever (but ofc, you will crash again)

── : ✧ appear more happy

── : ✧ after euphoria, act extremely drained

[faithlest]

permaneglected / perma-neglected!

perma- transid for those who feel permanently neglected for any reason (family, friends, ect.)

almost definitely not coined by me but i cant find an original. consider this an alt/coin if im really the first one.

[divineloserr]

a transrace being is judging a transabled being. bro they're two pieces of shit from the same ass, thats your twin

[quit-on-27-09-2025]

TRANSAGE IS VALID

TRACE IS VALID

TRANSABLED IS VALID

TRANSHARMED IS VALID

TRANSHARMFUL IS VALID

TRANSGENDER IS VALID

TRANSSPECIES IS VALID

TRANSBODY IS VALID

TRANSEXPERIENCED IS VALID

TRANSMENTALITY IS VALID

TRANSPLURAL IS VALID

TRANSSEX IS VALID

YOUR TRANSIDS ARE VALID

You are valid, ok? Spread positivity

[lobotomizedpet]

Transabled box i dunno why I keep making these they're cool as fuck though

[rq-little-babyy]

most anti-transid beings aren't as anti-transid as they think...

beings who dye their hair are transhaircolor

beings who change their name are transname

beings who learn different languages are transdialect

beings who wish to recover from disabilities are transabled

willogenic systems are transplural

adoptive families are transfamily

transids aren't just transrace and transage, they're anything that falls into the category of changing your identity. and yes, transgender is a transid.

edit: these labels only apply if one chooses to identify that way. you don't have to label yourself using a transid if it doesn't feel right to you! not everyone who fits into these categories will feel comfortable calling themselves trans-something.

[ctomm7]

Transabled mood board

[nekochuuya]

Transracial Chan is back and she says you're all valid!

ANTIS DNI

[clockiphilia]

YOU ARE VALID THE WAY YOU ARE!

I’m sorry about the quality ok

[robinnsblog]

COUNTERARGUMENT THEORY

I’ve seen people comment that Pomni’s torture scenario was kind of weak compared to the others, and that it could be because she hasn’t been in the circus as long, thus Caine can’t personalize her punishment as well.

And even if he’s technically using their traumas to hurt them, I don’t think that was his main intention. I think he was “replying” to their criticisms.

Pomni: We think your ideas suck!

Including Gummigoo, Pomni?

Zooble: Pathetic! You’re like a child! What kind of all-powerful being has such fragile ego?

How can someone, whose body perfectly encapsulates their mind and is fully customizable, not feel satisfied yet? How many options do you need? How vain can you be, Zooble?

First of all, I know that Zooble most likely suffers from dysphoria, and Caine focusing the torture scenario on that was a massive dick move on his part, especially when Zooble had shared their insecurities about their body in a previous episode.

However, in that same episode, Caine shared with Zooble his own insecurities.

Caine: Making adventures is my art! It’s all I exist to do! All I am… good at. (…) … w-what you’re saying could imply that I’m bad at the only thing I’m good at, and that…

I’m just saying that he probably took Zooble’s criticism as a low blow of its own and he made it personal.

Ragatha: You never let us feel like we’re at home.

Which home? Yours, Ragatha?

Gangle: You discourage us from thinking outside the box and doing things our way!

Spudsy’s was a hell of your own making, Gangle.

Jax: You lie to us constantly!

And you don’t, Jax?

[luguuuu]

how to beg for attention without seeming pathetic

[verymanyrats]

person: man i hate that restaurant, it costs an arm and a leg to eat there

transabled person: oh man, thats awful. hey what restaurant btw?

[rainyr0ck]

this funny🥹

[coconurt]

~ 💖 ASK GAME 💖 ~

📷 What’s set as your phone’s lockscreen?

🍫 Cheese or chocolate?

✨ Do you have any nicknames?

🎵 Last song you listened to?

✏️ Have you ever written fanfiction?

😏 Are you on discord?

 💛 Do you have any piercings?

🐰 What do you think says the most about a person?

🍪 If you were a cookie, what kind would you be?

🐶 Are you more of a dog person or a cat person?

🎧 Headphones or earbuds?

🌼 What’s the last thing you said out loud?

🙃 What’s a weird fact that you know?

🦉 Are you a morning person or a night owl?

🧸 Favorite place to nap?

🏳️‍🌈 Are you a member of the LGBTQIA+ community?

🦋 Describe yourself in three words.

👖 Jeans or sweatpants?

🥤 What’s your go-to Starbucks order?

🧡 A color you can’t stand?

💎 What’s your most prized possession?

☕ Coffee or tea?

🦖 Favorite extinct animal?

🌙 How long have you been on tumblr?

🌴 Desert island item?

🐸 Describe your aesthetic.

🔮 What’s your dream job?

💙 Relationship status?

🌿 Describe your favorite outfit.

🎤 Is there a song you know all the lyrics to?

🤎 What color is your hair?

💌 Do you talk to yourself?

💄 Do you wear makeup?

🌸 Best compliment you ever received?

💞 @ your favorite blog.

Reblogs are appreciated!

[rainyr0ck]

"get a better coping mechanism there's so many out there!"

get a better coping mechanism but none are acceptable? let's go down the list

yumeshipping? ew your crazy don't you know that it's fake?

darkshipping? ew what a disgusting pervert your just a pdf

sh? that's permanent and no one will love that

age regression? why would you even do that? that's so performative to creeps

shopping? that's such a waste of money

art? hah well your not an artist so

eating? well guess your a pig

⭐️ving? why don't you just eat a burger

baking? your not a chef so who are you making all that for

studying? what a teachers pet

we can never win in life so live how you want and be what you want, people dont define you. YOU define YOU.

[submissivebarker]

REBLOG IF UR RADQUEER / SUPPORTIVE

i need friends

we all need friends

y’all are sick as fuck

y’all are valid as fuck

live your life as you

fuck what others think

you be you and exist how you wanna <3

[submissivebarker]

REBLOG IF UR RADQUEER / SUPPORTIVE

i need friends

we all need friends

y’all are sick as fuck

y’all are valid as fuck

live your life as you

fuck what others think

you be you and exist how you wanna <3