hey, i'm really sorry if this offends anyone, but i've been seeing a lot of similar patterns lately.
so, the kin community had a really huge boost of members in about 2014 or 2015. it was mostly people who believed in reincarnation or such, or people who were just getting into it (both just getting on the bandwagon and learning something new about themselves). today, the kin community has died down quite a bit. and i know there are lots of you out there who are just as passionate as me, or maybe you're just a casual therian / firm believer in reincarnation.
but what i've noticed is that there's been a huge decrease of people who actually believe in reincarnation and the such and actually 'care' about kin. most people are treating it as just a silly game or something, i've seen tons of people refer to it as roleplaying.and, i know everyone has their own perspective and definition of what kin really is, but... i'm pretty sure that's not what any of this is? wouldn't that be a synpath or otherhearted? relating with a character because you identify with them a lot or roleplaying as a character you relate with or project onto isn't what kin is at all, and i'm seeing tons of people getting all the definitions mixed together and it's almost kind of alarming. from my understanding, it's about identifying AS, not with characters, and in the case of therians (and even fictional characters!), learning about your past lives and connecting with them. this isn't a lifestyle -- it's not something you necessarily need to devote your time and identity to, but it also isn't some silly hobby or game. i'm not saying you have to take it seriously to be considered 'valid', but please do some research before you call yourself otherkin, fictionkin, or a therian!
again, i'm really sorry if i offended anyone. reincarnation is a huge thing in my family's culture, and i've been a firm believer of it since i was young, it's just a really big part of my identity and it kind of disheartens me to see that the most of the community nowadays is people who aren't even sure if they're kin or not. :(
thank you so much for reading! feel free to reply, i actually encourage you to argue since i've never really had a chance to speak my opinion on this and would like to see this situation from different perspectives