you can call me your little sis :3

Ashiok. age 23. ΘΔ. &. tma. she/her. dont call us dude, dont they us, and dont compare us to some man

[rakdos-dogdyke]

We get a lot of messages; We're not ignoring you for the sake of it; We just don't have it in us to respond to everyone, sorry

Tag us in any post relating to a fundraising campaign or message it our way and we'll reblog it every time

Here's our lewd discord server for transfems only

Love y'all

[tamamita]

Notice how Charlie Kirk is awfully quiet about Mitch McConnell and Lindsey Graham? Curious.

[tamamita]

[radgepacket-deactivated20241030]

me in argyle st greggs for my weekly steak bake

[deadgoliath]

my favourite part about this post

[targetedknowledge]

[pangur-and-grim]

my house is scary at night

[storyweavingspider]

Interpreted this initially not as shelves, but as your cat having erected defensive fortifications

[rakdos-dogdyke]

I could really go for some food that's middling at best

[rakdos-dogdyke]

My buddy called me a stalker which was very rude and I was like "stalk 'er? She hardly knows me!"

[rakdos-dogdyke]

Alternate universe where Fozzie Bear got really into making posts for a specific genre of trans women on Tumblr

[rakdos-dogdyke]

My buddy called me a stalker which was very rude and I was like "stalk 'er? She hardly knows me!"

[thehorizonmachine]

there should be like secret extra editions of dnd that wotc denounces as false like christian apocrypha

[athelind]

[IMAGE: The logo for the Pathfinder TTRPG]

[contemptible-scoundrel]

adhd is such a humiliating disease to have ones life ruined by

[lesbi-nyan]

sorry i cant leave this in the tags

FUCKING! REAL!!! say it louder fur the people in the back! ~nya

[sistertaxon]

Buckle up, European and Foreigner Tumblypoos, because I'm about to learn you a thing about AMERICA.

You see these delectable motherflippers? These are called STATES. You stupid foreigners might not be able to wrap your head around this, but basically they're administrative subdivisions of the country.

And here's the thing: They are totally heckin' different from each other! For instance, New York:

Looks TOTALLY DIFFERENT from Kansas:

And they both look TOTALLY different from California!

So before you make fun of an American for not knowing where tiny third-world countries like "Check Republic" or "South Korea" are, maybe think about how much we have to learn about the unique regional differences in our OWN country. Maybe you should think about AMERICA more.

[mousidy]

long one incoming. so, obviously male socialization is a load of rhetorical bunk. im not really here to relitigate that, but when it comes up it makes me think about my particular upbringing.

throughout my adolescence, me and my brother were always put in opposition to each other. he was always treated as the boy brother and i was the girl brother, so to speak. he was a wannabe man who liked working out and hanging out with the Boys, and i was an obvious effeminate faggot whose stepdad always danced around questioning my sexuality or perceived maleness, he would always say things about "being a man" to me but never my brother, like he knew i was failing it.

anyways, within the household, there was an obvious gender dynamic applied between me and my brother. fundamentally, i got treated as the girl, but without any of the allowance to actually Be the girl. and, to be marxist about it, this was in a large part consistently reproduced through household labor. i was the one expected to do the "inside chores" while he did the "outside chores," and at a certain point in my teen years, my stepdad stopped even bothering asking me to work outside at all, fully making my expected workload to be the cooking and cleaning. and if i did not clean, i was reprimanded in the way of a bad woman, and if my brother didnt mow that week or something it was brushed aside because he was a mans man and the favored sibling as such.

the point is, both in and outside the household, i was not experiencing life being "socially male" and in fact the dynamics within my household specifically were reproducing gendered dynamics where i would be maintained as the woman through feminized domestic labor. because, guess fucking what, as trans women, even before were out, people can notice things about us and act accordingly and we genuinely truly get socially classed as women, and i think my particular experience was starkly important as it raises questions about the labor and domestic processes and the family and how these forces are literally foundational to the maintenance of gender class and its reproduction and how these forces position themselves to transfeminity. these questions which i mull over constantly.

like what do terfs and tme people who dont understand the transfem upbringing want me to fucking say? i got raised within the social class and expectation of woman, and this fundamentally affects my transfeminine experience and the way i move within any given dynamic now. like the expectations of the woman are embedded in me, both in labor and looks.

yes!!!! I had a similar upbringing, marked as the more feminine child in comparison to my other siblings, including my sister. I was treated as a workhorse of domestic labor, one of my main chores being doing all of the laundry (washing, drying (on the clotheslines during warmer months, even though we had a dryer) and sorting and folding for our 6-person household

and I was constantly being punished heavily for minor lapses in upkeep on this. if the washer finished running but I didn't get to it soon enough, I frequently had my phone taken away and frequently was forced to stay isolated in my room and be seen nor heard. large stretches of my childhood were spent with my stepfather not wanting to see me unless I was doing chores and then going straight back to isolate in my room. meanwhile my three siblings, again including my sister, were on much looser leashes, off playing sports and hanging out with friends and then coming home and being treated like people

[mousidy]

is the "male socialization" in the room with us right now

[found-in-vessel]

my male socialization where my family physically and sexually punished me for not being manly enough and I was also physically and sexually punished for not being receptive, sweet, and responsible enough.

And I was also punished for doing anything actually feminine with my presentation yippee.

Oh and also I was expected to me an emotionally receptive caretaker for my parents... hmmm what does that sound like? Idk it must be my male socialization.

[milf--adjacent]

I was *so* male socialized that I was expected to cook and clean and care for my younger siblings so hard it gave me elder sister syndrome at age 12.

[thewispsoftime]

I was forced to become the only active emotional support for my mom when I was 11, I did all of the cleaning, I did most of the cooking, I got relentlessly bullied by my brothers, and neglected by my father.

you know, how males are socialized. That's how men grow up, right?

[mousidy]

eyyyy household scapegoat club

[thyfl3shconsumed]

This shit is so fucking embarrassing. This woman is 30. This shit is so common and never ceases to piss me off.

Everyone's willing to say "sex work is work" but no one's willing to understand what the fuck that actually means. It's not just "sex work is a legitimate form of labor, leasing your body to men is little different than leasing your body to a company," like that's part of it but the fucking important part is that it's fucking WORK. Its a GRIND it's a fucking HUSTLE!!!!

Bitch, if sex work was just sex or just being hot, I'd be the richest bitch around, but it's not, it's 10% sex, 90% work. Like sitting at your computer, editing shit, making sure things get cross posted properly, negotiating with johns, creating promo clips, making sure you look presentable, like there's so much fucking work that is a part of it, it's not just being hot

[thefalloffs]

hi y’all. i’m still unemployed, and it’s really dire, so i keep having to ask for help. this month i have recurring medical expenses i need to pay off, and unfortunately i can’t keep putting them off. i know we’re all struggling here, so any amount helps. thank you so much if you read this + want to give anything 💞

p/pal | c/app | v/mo

188/300

[d-7th]

I have 3 days left to pay a $400 bill and I barely make $30 a day if I’m lucky

[storyweavingspider]

Hey, my friend Thorn really needs some help and I’d appreciate it if you could at least reblog this if you can’t donate. I’d like them to get more than that $400 because they been goin through it in a way that’s racked up debt beyond that, and they can’t catch a fucking break ever.

So if you’ve ever wanted to toss money my way for anything I’ve written/done, toss it to them right now rn instead. And if you can’t? Reblog this so someone else can.

[trans-gothic-rebel]

[afroflowerr]

Everybody is somebody’s somebody.

“UnMasked Thoughts: 2” - medium, face masks and paint markers.

January, 2025 - Ave

Image description in alt text and under read-more

Image Description of a black surgical mask against a white desk background. Written in white paint markers are two phrases. The first line reads: “Only someone else’s loved ones will die. The second line reads: “Of course, not mine!” - said everyone else”

In the bottom right corner of the mask is the artist Instagram handle vertically spelled out “@afroflowerr” END ID