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i'm trying to sort my shit out after escaping an abusive home, if you wanna help i have a ko-fi that takes paypal and stripe! if you can't (or simply don't wanna) donate, no problem! just sharing this post OR dropping a recc on this spotify playlist if you wanna show me what music you're loving lately, that's more than enough! thank you, ily! ♥︎
hiiiiiiiii its me again. long time no see. im dj aka damone. im a blak s.asian disabled bi woman
i just got kicked out of an abusive home with basically nothing but my medication and my laptop, and i live in the middle of fucking nowhere, have no one in the area, no license, and i need to sort out accommodation, food, and other essentials for me and my cats tonight and for the next few days most likely.
im australian and our dollar is dogshit so anything helps more than you know. love u.
Become a supporter of damone today!
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would you consider yourself a pessimist, optimist, or realist?
hello hi some quick updates: the most important is that my accommodation has been extended, but it ends on friday the 31st (it is the 29th today)
after this im likely going to need to find somewhere else to stay and its much more expensive to stay in this town, funds are running out, and so i need to try and get somewhere in the city
ive also added stripe as an option on ko-fi alongside paypal
as always, thank you all so much for your help so far, i would have been utterly fucked without you especially with how much bureaucratic bullshit hoops ive had to jump through and wait on. i will be trying to fund as much as possible on my end as well. any help has been and will be much appreciated. ily
more updates below, much longer. very long actually. slightly rambly sorry ↓
ive received a one off crisis payment of $400 from centrelink, and im going in today to lodge the physical dsp forms ive filled out as i cannot scan and upload them from here
my caseworker has been trying to secure me a spot in a refuge but right now they have yet to get back to her and i am not able to take this into my own hands. i have to wait, as i cant self refer or follow this up on my own behalf
several places are available to take my cats, but they wont be able to until theyve either gotten their boosters or i can get the records to verify their shots are still in date. im waiting on hearing back if the clinic has found them, but in the meantime ive booked an appointment as early as i was able to for the 11th of august to get their shots. however its a matter of finding somewhere to stay until then, once theyre boarded ill have a lot more flexibility. if i can get them in somewhere earlier i will do so immediately even if its out of pocket, but i wont be able to before accommodation runs out regardless
i was able to get some winter clothes so i have some warmer stuff for this abysmal fucking weather. some shirts, pants, a jumper, and hoodie. im gonna get some socks and gloves today i think. fuck winter
ive been cooking so any costs have been kept fairly low in terms of food, at least as far as possible w the price of groceries.
i have applied for other payments and rebates to see if i can squeeze anything else from the system rn from services, as well as having what little super i had released
ill need to pay for transport to the city for me, my cats, and some of my belongings to get there. public transport isnt an option in terms of what i need to take and my own physical limitations with disability, but once i find somewhere to stay and dont need to take my cats everywhere with me to adhere to policy, im very adept at navigating public transport so that should be a relative non issue funds wise beyond time crunches and less accessible locations. even if i were to just send my belongings ahead to the city and take public transport with the cats, courier fees are about $400
i HAVE negotiated my way into being able to pick up some of my things from the house, mainly extra clothes, any records i can get, some personal valuables.
i will potentially be making a gfm to help with the rest of the rental and moving process so i can get as much of my shit as possible from the house that i cant take this week and store it, try and get some basic secondhand furniture and appliances, get some driving lessons to get my p plates so i can retrieve my car and also use it to move things, and try to secure stable housing long enough to find my footing so i can completely remove any dependency on my abusive family permanently
if and once i secure as spot at a refuge, the cats are handled, and i have a moment to properly figure myself out while the dsp application processes, i will be renewing my rsa and trying to find some small shifts that wont fuck up the application (i need to keep my hours under 14 a week, which... w my physical state wont be difficult unfortunately), save, get my p plates so i can get my car, and overall get as much of my shit together as possible
i am very confident that once my dsp is sorted out, i can find a stable few shifts a week bartending, and i have my p plates for my car, i will be quite functional and be able to afford my own stupid fucking baka life. ive been spending the past few months budgeting, working on applications and gathering evidence for my dsp, rental hunting, and meeting with caseworkers and specialists, i know that once i have stability, ive done my best to ensure maintaining it is within my ability, and im as certain as i possibly can be in my current state, that i will be fine. its just getting the fuck out of here and finding somewhere long enough to give me the chance
so my current priorities will be accommodation in the weird limbo phase, transport to and from places as necessary, and groceries
hiiiiiiiii its me again. long time no see. im dj aka damone. im a blak s.asian disabled bi woman
i just got kicked out of an abusive home with basically nothing but my medication and my laptop, and i live in the middle of fucking nowhere, have no one in the area, no license, and i need to sort out accommodation, food, and other essentials for me and my cats tonight and for the next few days most likely.
im australian and our dollar is dogshit so anything helps more than you know. love u.
Become a supporter of damone today!
poll to make this less "woe is me" (though please do not get it twisted. its at least a little woe is me. but look theres a button to press)
would you consider yourself a pessimist, optimist, or realist?
hello hi some quick updates: the most important is that my accommodation has been extended, but it ends on friday the 31st (it is the 29th today)
after this im likely going to need to find somewhere else to stay and its much more expensive to stay in this town, funds are running out, and so i need to try and get somewhere in the city
ive also added stripe as an option on ko-fi alongside paypal
as always, thank you all so much for your help so far, i would have been utterly fucked without you especially with how much bureaucratic bullshit hoops ive had to jump through and wait on. i will be trying to fund as much as possible on my end as well. any help has been and will be much appreciated. ily
more updates below, much longer. very long actually. slightly rambly sorry ↓
ive received a one off crisis payment of $400 from centrelink, and im going in today to lodge the physical dsp forms ive filled out as i cannot scan and upload them from here
my caseworker has been trying to secure me a spot in a refuge but right now they have yet to get back to her and i am not able to take this into my own hands. i have to wait, as i cant self refer or follow this up on my own behalf
several places are available to take my cats, but they wont be able to until theyve either gotten their boosters or i can get the records to verify their shots are still in date. im waiting on hearing back if the clinic has found them, but in the meantime ive booked an appointment as early as i was able to for the 11th of august to get their shots. however its a matter of finding somewhere to stay until then, once theyre boarded ill have a lot more flexibility. if i can get them in somewhere earlier i will do so immediately even if its out of pocket, but i wont be able to before accommodation runs out regardless
i was able to get some winter clothes so i have some warmer stuff for this abysmal fucking weather. some shirts, pants, a jumper, and hoodie. im gonna get some socks and gloves today i think. fuck winter
ive been cooking so any costs have been kept fairly low in terms of food, at least as far as possible w the price of groceries.
i have applied for other payments and rebates to see if i can squeeze anything else from the system rn from services, as well as having what little super i had released
ill need to pay for transport to the city for me, my cats, and some of my belongings to get there. public transport isnt an option in terms of what i need to take and my own physical limitations with disability, but once i find somewhere to stay and dont need to take my cats everywhere with me to adhere to policy, im very adept at navigating public transport so that should be a relative non issue funds wise beyond time crunches and less accessible locations. even if i were to just send my belongings ahead to the city and take public transport with the cats, courier fees are about $400
i HAVE negotiated my way into being able to pick up some of my things from the house, mainly extra clothes, any records i can get, some personal valuables.
i will potentially be making a gfm to help with the rest of the rental and moving process so i can get as much of my shit as possible from the house that i cant take this week and store it, try and get some basic secondhand furniture and appliances, get some driving lessons to get my p plates so i can retrieve my car and also use it to move things, and try to secure stable housing long enough to find my footing so i can completely remove any dependency on my abusive family permanently
if and once i secure as spot at a refuge, the cats are handled, and i have a moment to properly figure myself out while the dsp application processes, i will be renewing my rsa and trying to find some small shifts that wont fuck up the application (i need to keep my hours under 14 a week, which... w my physical state wont be difficult unfortunately), save, get my p plates so i can get my car, and overall get as much of my shit together as possible
i am very confident that once my dsp is sorted out, i can find a stable few shifts a week bartending, and i have my p plates for my car, i will be quite functional and be able to afford my own stupid fucking baka life. ive been spending the past few months budgeting, working on applications and gathering evidence for my dsp, rental hunting, and meeting with caseworkers and specialists, i know that once i have stability, ive done my best to ensure maintaining it is within my ability, and im as certain as i possibly can be in my current state, that i will be fine. its just getting the fuck out of here and finding somewhere long enough to give me the chance
so my current priorities will be accommodation in the weird limbo phase, transport to and from places as necessary, and groceries
ok but the fact you said you will never refer to your ocs by name on your blog is so funny like. we are all the fae and you shall NEVER hand us their names, for we are too wretched and deceitful u_u
like, part of it is because my ocs are very personal and i dont tend to bring them up unless theyre for something simple i dont mind discussing, or theyre like a fan oc (e.g. ill occasionally discuss my bg3 tavs or whatever) and i generally keep anything about my ocs to my oc blogs or my art blog.
but also. i am SO fucking weird about names. i have like 50 myself because i hoard them. i obsess over names and their meanings and origins. i have this massive list of names ive been maintaining since i was like 19, which is my second name list, because the first one id had since i was 12 was lost (yes i was devastated)
my own names are all very meticulously and purposefully chosen, and even if i pick a name at random for an oc i can usually trace it back to something and make it seem deliberate and Meaningful when. like. it absolutely wasnt.
but ive had a fixation on the fae since i was a kid so youre like for real on the money with that, thats unironically a huge part of why im insane about names. like. no. names have power and such.
★ got my cats records so they should be all good to go for boarding, i might be able to get them set up within the coming week! their vaccines should be within date from my understanding but ive read some conflicting stuff re: boosters, but i HAVE found some quotes to get it done cheaper (~$55 per cat as opposed to ~$90-$109)
★ my disability support pension forms have been lodged and ive gotten all my evidence together so once thats uploaded its simply waiting on whether they ask for more bullshit or approve it
★ i was rejected for the other refuge based on a "conflict" or what the fuck ever, so that ones a bust, but my caseworker has been working her fucking ass off trying to get me in somewhere else and find places for me to stay during The Limbo Period til i can get to the city
★ god i cant wait til these cats are sorted out because thats gonna make shit a million times fucking easier like. you have no idea
★ i slept very well last night and i hope all of you did too. mwah
hiiiiiiiii its me again. long time no see. im dj aka damone. im a blak s.asian disabled bi woman
i just got kicked out of an abusive home with basically nothing but my medication and my laptop, and i live in the middle of fucking nowhere, have no one in the area, no license, and i need to sort out accommodation, food, and other essentials for me and my cats tonight and for the next few days most likely.
im australian and our dollar is dogshit so anything helps more than you know. love u.
Become a supporter of damone today!
poll to make this less "woe is me" (though please do not get it twisted. its at least a little woe is me. but look theres a button to press)
would you consider yourself a pessimist, optimist, or realist?
hello hi some quick updates: the most important is that my accommodation has been extended, but it ends on friday the 31st (it is the 29th today)
after this im likely going to need to find somewhere else to stay and its much more expensive to stay in this town, funds are running out, and so i need to try and get somewhere in the city
ive also added stripe as an option on ko-fi alongside paypal
as always, thank you all so much for your help so far, i would have been utterly fucked without you especially with how much bureaucratic bullshit hoops ive had to jump through and wait on. i will be trying to fund as much as possible on my end as well. any help has been and will be much appreciated. ily
more updates below, much longer. very long actually. slightly rambly sorry ↓
ive received a one off crisis payment of $400 from centrelink, and im going in today to lodge the physical dsp forms ive filled out as i cannot scan and upload them from here
my caseworker has been trying to secure me a spot in a refuge but right now they have yet to get back to her and i am not able to take this into my own hands. i have to wait, as i cant self refer or follow this up on my own behalf
several places are available to take my cats, but they wont be able to until theyve either gotten their boosters or i can get the records to verify their shots are still in date. im waiting on hearing back if the clinic has found them, but in the meantime ive booked an appointment as early as i was able to for the 11th of august to get their shots. however its a matter of finding somewhere to stay until then, once theyre boarded ill have a lot more flexibility. if i can get them in somewhere earlier i will do so immediately even if its out of pocket, but i wont be able to before accommodation runs out regardless
i was able to get some winter clothes so i have some warmer stuff for this abysmal fucking weather. some shirts, pants, a jumper, and hoodie. im gonna get some socks and gloves today i think. fuck winter
ive been cooking so any costs have been kept fairly low in terms of food, at least as far as possible w the price of groceries.
i have applied for other payments and rebates to see if i can squeeze anything else from the system rn from services, as well as having what little super i had released
ill need to pay for transport to the city for me, my cats, and some of my belongings to get there. public transport isnt an option in terms of what i need to take and my own physical limitations with disability, but once i find somewhere to stay and dont need to take my cats everywhere with me to adhere to policy, im very adept at navigating public transport so that should be a relative non issue funds wise beyond time crunches and less accessible locations. even if i were to just send my belongings ahead to the city and take public transport with the cats, courier fees are about $400
i HAVE negotiated my way into being able to pick up some of my things from the house, mainly extra clothes, any records i can get, some personal valuables.
i will potentially be making a gfm to help with the rest of the rental and moving process so i can get as much of my shit as possible from the house that i cant take this week and store it, try and get some basic secondhand furniture and appliances, get some driving lessons to get my p plates so i can retrieve my car and also use it to move things, and try to secure stable housing long enough to find my footing so i can completely remove any dependency on my abusive family permanently
if and once i secure as spot at a refuge, the cats are handled, and i have a moment to properly figure myself out while the dsp application processes, i will be renewing my rsa and trying to find some small shifts that wont fuck up the application (i need to keep my hours under 14 a week, which... w my physical state wont be difficult unfortunately), save, get my p plates so i can get my car, and overall get as much of my shit together as possible
i am very confident that once my dsp is sorted out, i can find a stable few shifts a week bartending, and i have my p plates for my car, i will be quite functional and be able to afford my own stupid fucking baka life. ive been spending the past few months budgeting, working on applications and gathering evidence for my dsp, rental hunting, and meeting with caseworkers and specialists, i know that once i have stability, ive done my best to ensure maintaining it is within my ability, and im as certain as i possibly can be in my current state, that i will be fine. its just getting the fuck out of here and finding somewhere long enough to give me the chance
so my current priorities will be accommodation in the weird limbo phase, transport to and from places as necessary, and groceries
hiiiiiiiii its me again. long time no see. im dj aka damone. im a blak s.asian disabled bi woman
i just got kicked out of an abusive home with basically nothing but my medication and my laptop, and i live in the middle of fucking nowhere, have no one in the area, no license, and i need to sort out accommodation, food, and other essentials for me and my cats tonight and for the next few days most likely.
im australian and our dollar is dogshit so anything helps more than you know. love u.
Become a supporter of damone today!
poll to make this less "woe is me" (though please do not get it twisted. its at least a little woe is me. but look theres a button to press)
would you consider yourself a pessimist, optimist, or realist?
hello hi some quick updates: the most important is that my accommodation has been extended, but it ends on friday the 31st (it is the 29th today)
after this im likely going to need to find somewhere else to stay and its much more expensive to stay in this town, funds are running out, and so i need to try and get somewhere in the city
ive also added stripe as an option on ko-fi alongside paypal
as always, thank you all so much for your help so far, i would have been utterly fucked without you especially with how much bureaucratic bullshit hoops ive had to jump through and wait on. i will be trying to fund as much as possible on my end as well. any help has been and will be much appreciated. ily
more updates below, much longer. very long actually. slightly rambly sorry ↓
ive received a one off crisis payment of $400 from centrelink, and im going in today to lodge the physical dsp forms ive filled out as i cannot scan and upload them from here
my caseworker has been trying to secure me a spot in a refuge but right now they have yet to get back to her and i am not able to take this into my own hands. i have to wait, as i cant self refer or follow this up on my own behalf
several places are available to take my cats, but they wont be able to until theyve either gotten their boosters or i can get the records to verify their shots are still in date. im waiting on hearing back if the clinic has found them, but in the meantime ive booked an appointment as early as i was able to for the 11th of august to get their shots. however its a matter of finding somewhere to stay until then, once theyre boarded ill have a lot more flexibility. if i can get them in somewhere earlier i will do so immediately even if its out of pocket, but i wont be able to before accommodation runs out regardless
i was able to get some winter clothes so i have some warmer stuff for this abysmal fucking weather. some shirts, pants, a jumper, and hoodie. im gonna get some socks and gloves today i think. fuck winter
ive been cooking so any costs have been kept fairly low in terms of food, at least as far as possible w the price of groceries.
i have applied for other payments and rebates to see if i can squeeze anything else from the system rn from services, as well as having what little super i had released
ill need to pay for transport to the city for me, my cats, and some of my belongings to get there. public transport isnt an option in terms of what i need to take and my own physical limitations with disability, but once i find somewhere to stay and dont need to take my cats everywhere with me to adhere to policy, im very adept at navigating public transport so that should be a relative non issue funds wise beyond time crunches and less accessible locations. even if i were to just send my belongings ahead to the city and take public transport with the cats, courier fees are about $400
i HAVE negotiated my way into being able to pick up some of my things from the house, mainly extra clothes, any records i can get, some personal valuables.
i will potentially be making a gfm to help with the rest of the rental and moving process so i can get as much of my shit as possible from the house that i cant take this week and store it, try and get some basic secondhand furniture and appliances, get some driving lessons to get my p plates so i can retrieve my car and also use it to move things, and try to secure stable housing long enough to find my footing so i can completely remove any dependency on my abusive family permanently
if and once i secure as spot at a refuge, the cats are handled, and i have a moment to properly figure myself out while the dsp application processes, i will be renewing my rsa and trying to find some small shifts that wont fuck up the application (i need to keep my hours under 14 a week, which... w my physical state wont be difficult unfortunately), save, get my p plates so i can get my car, and overall get as much of my shit together as possible
i am very confident that once my dsp is sorted out, i can find a stable few shifts a week bartending, and i have my p plates for my car, i will be quite functional and be able to afford my own stupid fucking baka life. ive been spending the past few months budgeting, working on applications and gathering evidence for my dsp, rental hunting, and meeting with caseworkers and specialists, i know that once i have stability, ive done my best to ensure maintaining it is within my ability, and im as certain as i possibly can be in my current state, that i will be fine. its just getting the fuck out of here and finding somewhere long enough to give me the chance
so my current priorities will be accommodation in the weird limbo phase, transport to and from places as necessary, and groceries
For everyone who ‘used to love reading’ but now hasn’t finished a book in years, you CAN get it back. Genuinely start bringing a book (preferably short and either fiction or a non fiction topic you already really enjoy) everywhere you go and when you have 5-20 mins waiting for the bus or at the doctors office or mechanic or whatever, get out your book and read it! You don’t have to finish it quickly or even read it often but it is so good for your brain and fun to get into the habit of reading more (and replacing being on your phone for those moments). Source: I read 0 books in 2023 and I’ve read 12 in the first 4 months of 2026
when men are like “women need to be nicer and more complimentary to men” i CRINGE! why don’t MEN get more complimentary to men. start telling your friends you want to fuck them. don’t make women pick up YOUR slack
people are commenting like “yeah we need to support healthy friendships and boost men’s self esteem” i don’t care about that tbh i just think everyone should be gayer
I hate how a woman having body hair is immediately seen as this like political statement or that she’s gnc or whatever like girl wtf it’s just the natural state of her being
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