i do not like this recent uptick in usage of the r-word. using the r-word does not make you sound edgy or whatever, it makes you sound like a 12 year old
[ID: a pink-toned illustration of two pale-skinned butches with their carabiners hooked together. Only their torsos are visible in frame, and one is straddling the other’s knee. One butch is wearing a white tank top with blue jeans with a double Venus symbol drawn on the back pocket and has a chain tattoo around their upper arm, the other butch is wearing a fraying black top and black cargo pants. The spot where their carabiners connect forms a pink star shape, and around them is a pink border with chains and angel wings. There is a labrys and Morningstar on opposite sides of the border.]
this applies to clothing as well!!! being happy and comfortable with yourself is ALWAYS more important than adhering to some stupid made up rules about body types. shave your head. wear the crop top.
a raven father (i call him "pants") I've been feeding sometimes likes to sit outside my window and either wait for more food or just listen to the stuff I'm watching while I draw. Today's a colder day so he likes to fluff up a bit, and I kid you not :
Hard pill to swallow, maybe, but sometimes you are the problem. You may not have been initially, but people around you can only have so much endurance for understanding why you're "like that" and how you got to where you are now. Even if you were the one who was victimized, hurt, or abused to begin with, your behavior affects those around you. There's a point at which personal responsibility needs to kick in, or you will become toxic. You can become toxic even if you never become an abuser yourself. If other people are constantly having to help dig you out of the holes you made but you keep slapping their hands away, you cannot expect them to have an indefinite amount of patience and energy to keep trying. If you're not putting in the work to recover from what damaged you; if everyone else in your life is consistently the only one making a real effort to effect change for you--you're the problem.
Rightfully so, I have gotten messages worrying if everything I post is legit (I try my best to make sure the answer is yes), but here’s a masterlist of ones that one or more people have confirmed are legit Palestinians. Most are from the blogs @el-shab-hussein, @ibtisams, @palestinecharitycommissionsassoc ,@90-ghost, @nabulsi and @palipunk
I will also be making individual posts for most of these
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