🛹 Ken park 🛹

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[razzles-bottom-lip]

“Fuck you my child is fine”

Ma’am, your child’s favorite holiday is Halloween

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[catsofyore]

“Sauve qui peut”. This is a French phrase that translates literally to something like "save yourself who's able/can" and roughly equates to “run for your life!” or “every man for himself!”, indicating a chaotic or dangerous situation/stampede. Postcard from my collection, no date/info.

[theconcealedweapon]

Yet again, "pro life" and "protect our children" are proven to have been lies this entire time.

[theconcealedweapon]

[salylockheart]

🐺🐦‍⬛🖐️

[daftpatience]

trying to be an active mutual feels like this some of times

[razzles-bottom-lip]

This is why it was so hard for me to talk to my mutuals, and I hate it because now I don’t talk to any of them anymore and it makes me sad. I hate having anxiety 🖕🏾

[grungekitty-77]

Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

[grungekitty-77]

Fun fact, that was literally what inspired me to make this post!

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[Image ID: Tumblr tag reading: #file under reasons I don't reblog activism post with guilt trip attached /End ID]

[memewhore]

[brosef-von-dudehomie]

[heywriters]

No, Google Docs, there is a distinct difference between "cussing" and "cursing."

[strawberrykapricorn]

Calling google ‘googie’ is such a power move imo

[heywriters]

Tis indeed! Thank you for this addition. Here are some photo examples of the Googie style.

[tribeofthedrunkenweasles]

IT HAS A PROPER NAME?!

[geardrops]

posts that provide surprise knowledge, balancing out posts that provide net zero knowledge gained, what a rich ecosystem we live in

[feelslikesugarinme777]

I like ‘em crazy

[choco-bite]

"my kids turned out fine" ma'am, ur daughter's eyes light up when someone calls her a 'good girl'

[i-will-recover-someday]

Tumblr feels so fucking home, like you get to know that you are not alone with such weird shitty feelings

[volturez-deactivated20171001]

If u a single gay reblog dis

[rockwoodsss]

my fashion inspiration btw

[2peachy]

[salmonrage]

“Just think, we must be the first herberts in India.”

— Nicholas “Razzle” Dingley