⚠️Trigger Warning: mention of suicide and self-harm ⚠️
"Only women have BPD...”
This is false. Men make up about 25% of
'DIAGNOSED' cases of BPD, more recent studies show it mav even be closer to 50%!
BPD in males can present differently than it does in females which can lead to misdiagnoses and mistreatment. There is also a large gender bias within the dianostic and assessment procedures, leading to under-recognise the disorder in men.
"People with BPD can't maintain good relationships...”
BPD brings out intense emotional fluctuations and impulsive behaviours which can be challenging for both partners. Individuals with BPD are also particular sensitive to rejection or have a fear of abandonment.
However, people with BPD are empathetic, compassionate, kind people wbo, with treatment and recognition of their disorder, can live a high-functioning, beautiful life.
With a strong foundation of patience and commitment, couples can work together to navigate these challenges and build a loving, long-lasting healthy relationship.
"BPD cannot be treated...”
This is incorrect. Although there is no overnight fix, BPD is definately treatable and manageable. The quicker you deal with it, the better.
There are many different therapies and treatments including:
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (BPD)
Cognitive Bahavioural Therapy (CBT)
Schema Therapy
Psychotherapies
Mentalization Theranies (MBT)
DBT is a go-to treatment method for many mental health professionals, and research shows its usefulness in significantly reducing negative behaviours and hospital admission rates in people with BPD.
Medication can be prescribes to help manage the symptoms of comorbid (simultaniously occurring) conditions, such as depression and anxiety.
A BPD diagnosis is NOT a life sentence!
"People with BPD are dangerous..”
One of the main diagnostic criteria for BPD is an intense level of anger.
This does not mean they are a threat to others.
Research shows individuals presenting with
BPD traits are unlikely to actually physically cause any harm to others.
People with BPD have a high suicide rate, so they pose the greatest danger to themselves, not others.
"Suicide threats by individuals with BPD aren't serious...”
All suicide threats should be taken seriously.
People may see suicide threats from someone with BPD as a way to create a reaction. This assumption is untrue and unfair.
People with BPD experience a high rate of suicide. As many as 10% of people with BPD with commit suicide while even more engage in suicide attempts and self-harm.
All suicide threats must be taken seriously.
The risk of ignoring the threats are too high.
If you or anyone you know are struggling, please reach out for help.
Comprehensive list of suicide and emergency hotlines around the world. Includes additional hotlines and links to in-person care.
You deserve to be happy and live a beautiful life. It gets better.♥️
