Halo teman teman berbagi :)) 2015 sebentar lagi akan berakhir loh. Nah Kami dari Komunitas Bageur mengajak teman teman semua munutup dan membuka tahun dengan berbagi kebahagian bersama adik-adik panti ash shidiqiyah yogyakarta. Mari ikut berpartisipasi bersama kami sebagai jalan kebaikan dengan menghibur dan meringankan beban adik-adik lewat bakti sosial gembira. Anda dapat menyalurkan donasi berupa barang(pakaian,buku) dan uang yang inshaallah sangat bermanfaat untuk mereka semua. Ketika Anak yatim menangis, Arasy berguncang. Sabda Tuhan: Demi keagungan-Ku, Siapa saja yang menghiburnya dan menghentikan tangisannya, Aku pastikan baginya surga (Hadist Qudsi) Kontak person Erwan(085223190120) Reza(085223569799)
Katanya, kalau lagi dikasih ujian itu tandanya, Mungkin masih kurang banyak bersyukur sama yang Allah kasih. Mungkin masih suka sombong di hadapan Allah. Mungkin masih kurang prihatin. Mungkin masih suka ngecewain bapak ibu. Mungkin kurang banyak ngamal. Ya Allah maaf ya belum bisa jadi hamba yang baik :'( I know Your plans are way much better than my plans. Aamiin. O:)
"Oh Allah, when I lose my hopes and plans, help me remember that Your love is greater than my disappointments, and Your plans for my life are better than my dreams.". Maaf Ya Allah, aku suka ngeluh. Maaf :'(
Hi, self! You are 22 yo already. You are not a little daughter anymore. On my first day of the new beginning, I wish everyone is happy. I wish mom and dad are always healthy. I wish I could be a proud daughter to you, dad. Eventhough, I know I am not, but I would do my best to make you happy. I wish I would be able to give you a beautiful gift on your birthday which is in the next 3 months. Love you dad! And I miss you so much. Too much. I miss you every hours, nights, and mornings. Hope you are always doing well there. Xoxo O:)
Teruntuk Papaku tercinta, Papa, maaf kalau aku ga selalu ada di samping papa ketika papa kesakitan. Papa, maaf kalau aku belum bisa memenuhi harapan-harapan papa tentang aku. Papa, maaf kalau di umurku sekarang ini aku masih saja banyak bergantung sama papa dan mama. Dan juga, Terima kasih Papa karena sudah mencoba kuat sampai sejauh ini. Terima kasih Papa karena selalu mencoba tersenyum di depan anak-anakmu. Terima kasih juga tuk Mamaku tercinta, selalu ada di samping Papa... makasih Ma, selalu kuat, tegar, dan sabar. Aku tahu betapa sulitnya itu Ma. Tetapi, makasih banyak Ma. Terima kasih sekali! Doaku selalu bersamamu Pa & Ma. Aku cinta dan sayang banget sama Papa. Tetep semangat ya, Pa! ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
A worth reading article that tells us a lot about this trending-topics-in-social-media phenomenon. Well written by Jenny Jusuf.
I’m sick of dating, relationship and (want to get) married talk.
I work in social media and it seems that the only terms that really ‘sell’ — whatever that means are ‘soul mate’, ‘single’, ‘relationship’ and ‘marriage’. Oh, don’t forget ‘move on’ and ‘ex’. The easy way to get a lot of retweets and bunch of likes? Just come up with something, it can be totally common or obnoxious, add one of those terms, et voila.
I’m a bit annoyed by my circle of friends too.
Don’t get me wrong, I heart my friends and heaven knows I’d go to hell and back for them. But I’ve had heard and read enough — again, I work in social media while residing in a small town where it successfully became the best tool to catch up with everything in the big city where almost all my friends and relatives live. I can’t escape all relationship, dating and marriage mumbo-jumbo, and I’m overwhelmed. Not by the talks per se, but by the realization on how much it dominates our life.
Sure it’s normal, wanting to get married or simply have a beautiful relationship. Heck, I’d love to have one. But talking about it every day and bringing it up every time we have the chance?
Have we ever looked inside to figure out what is really happening? Do we really want a marriage, or are we merely longing for love and security? Are we ready for a healthy, stable relationship or are we simply too afraid of being alone? Is the thought of a future with no one beside you completely blows you off your feet that you’d be willing to jump on anyone with ‘available’ lights on their heads?
Being in a beautiful relationship is undoubtedly a mini paradise on earth. Being in love is magical and wonderful. I bet the butterflies in your stomach feel amazing beyond words. I’d vote for love any given time. Hell, it’s nice to have regular sex with someone. But being obsessed over (the idea of) love, relationship and marriage is something else. When it dominates your thought, words and actions, how does it affect your whole being?
Mind-blowing, isn’t it?
Yesterday I was scrolling through the news feed mindlessly and stumbled upon numerous single-dating-relationship-want-to-get-married (THIS YEAR! I WANT TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR! …..OK, maybe next year?) status updates and I couldn’t help but paused and wondered: Are we that incapable of enjoying ourselves when we are alone? Can we have a normal, daily (should I mention ‘healthy’ or would it come off too harsh?) talks without desperation written all over the place?
Alone. Alone. Alone. Is it such a scary word? Can we be content and satisfied with who we are and what we have, without over-thinking or regretting the fact that we, here in this moment, are alone?
Aren’t we enough?
Some people were born in pairs. But most were born alone. Perhaps it’s nature’s way of telling us that we *are* enough. One is enough. If we can find someone suitable to spend the rest of our lives with, it’s great, but if not, it’s also fine.
Because I don’t think our happiness, or our well being for that matter, should depend on the existence of someone else. Because as much as it sounds like a denial, I truly believe that each of us is good enough, at least for ourselves, to the point that being alone should not hinder us from leading a joyful life. Because the absence of a significant other is only a situation, not a death penalty.
