What do you think of cancer in the 11th house?
They treat their friends like family but have a tendency to be a bit moody and sensitive. Their feelings about their friends or peers can fluctuate over time, as can their aspirations or long term goals. They may struggle with objectivity in their lives, and this could be a lesson for them, to pull back and observe the nature of their internal responses so that they can discard anything that derails them or ties them to the past in an unhealthy way.
Overall they take friendships more seriously than most, which can really hurt them. They attach themselves to people and often learn early on that not everyone approaches friendships this way, not everyone is loyal. Often they try to overcompensate for an unhappy childhood by making their friends their "found family" but like I said, they may be retraumatized by this or experience abandonment that only reopens those wounds.
Typically they feel alienated from their family in some way or feel quite detached from others emotionally but finding the right people quickly softens them, even if they can be a bit erratic or unpredictable at times.
They really do make amazing friends though. They're looking to maintain a support system around them where everyone feels appreciated and accepted for who they truly are. They heal themselves through their associations and at their best they heal others with their very gentle and nurturing energy.
