This blog is a hot mess (Like me)

Thirtysomething hot mess. Anxious Badass. Lesbian. lots of tv and writing things with a dash of personal rambling

[sourdough-seal]

“how did you get into writing” girl nobody gets into writing. writing shows up one day at your door and gets into you

[orbitalmirror]

"how did you get into writing" girl i've been tormented by the visions since i was eight years old

[what-even-is-thiss]

That last post I reblogged got me thinking again about how people can’t separate their idea of manhood from violence.

It’s like some people are capable of imagining womanhood without submission but can’t imagine manhood without dominance. Like for some reason in their minds women can escape their gender norms and make a new definition of what gender is for themselves but men can’t.

[what-even-is-thiss]

My cishet dad has often told me that he found feminist theory to be very freeing. It told him that yes men can be gentle and caring. Yes men can be sensitive. Being a man means what you want it to mean.

I’ve met other cishet men that feel the same way. I really do like talking with cis men about gender sometimes. You really see them become a lot happier when they fully internalize the idea that being a man means whatever they want it to mean.

[what-even-is-thiss]

A “real man” is a myth.

You get told a lot as a man “real men do or don’t do xyz”. I’ve even experienced this as a trans man.

but the “real man” is an impossible standard to achieve. He doesn’t exist. He’s a mythical being to strive towards. You will never be him and trying to be him will trap you in a cage.

If you think that masculinity is a prison, what you need to realize is that the bars are unlocked and there are no guards. You’ve been talked into your cage like an elephant on a string and you can open the door at any time.

[inkedobsidian]

the mel & trinity karaoke scene actually means so much to me and I will cry about it for months to come

[taxfrauddyke]

Okay so when do we get The Pitt Director’s Cut where they haven’t cut all the women’s screentime???

[drtrinitysantoss]

you love santos even though she is a bitch, i love her BECAUSE she is a bitch

we are not the same

[luckythepizzablog]

pleased to announce that this is now a Trinity Santos fan page

[the-night-puncher]

God i got super excited after watching the newest episode and made the mistake of going in the Trinity Santos tag...

and wow people really cannot handle a woman being mean to a man or having flaws.

[blueeyesshyskies]

I love that the every trinity santos fan looked at her and went

‘Bottom. Also has a praise kink’

[lavenderpanic]

stress relief squeeze toy oh trinity

[lietomwe]

WHITSANTOS SIBLINGISM STOCKS ARE UP !!!!!! 🙏🏼

[redwinerozanova]

i go to the zoo from cxgf is truly one of the best songs ever written. i look at the monkeys. their eyes look like my eyes…

[eloiscbridgerton]

TRINITY SANTOS & FRANK LANGDON THE PITT 2.11 – 5:00 P.M.

[sufjeringstevens]

Also omg langdon telling santos that he has been through a lot and being like “my wife almost divorced me” when on her mind she is like, reliving her trauma that is clearly connected to this issue. King you never stood a chance.

[saintsqueensbutchers]

Idc im still a Trinity defender

[redhothothotmess]

If Trinity has no defenders, I'm dead

[trashshart]

[asystolle]

THE PITT: 2.09 - 3:00 PM

[doctor-darko]

Michael “if i dont make it” Robinavitch