// C H E L S E Y //

// c h e l s e y // writer + photographer + wife + mama to a beautiful baby boy. madly in love.

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[insidehishead]

some of the most sensitive areas of the female body

[dynastylnoire]

look at all the regions that are not titties and vagina guys

porn has lied to you. there are other places you can touch that sensitive and pleasurable. 

[comebackxkidx-deactivated201608]

Oh yeah because I’m just gonna rub her eyes until a she’s horny

[spazztastikim]

Kiss her there you walnut! Use tenderness! Hold her face gently and stroke her eyelids with your thumb and then kiss them! Run your hands down to her neck when you do! THINK!!! Lordie, you have a lot to learn that TOUCH gives more than making her “horny” you’ll drive her nuts doing gentle stuff! It’s trust! It’s care! It’s sensitivity! *smacks your forehead* You want her to be numb in complete ecstasy! I know this shit and I’m ASEXUAL! 

[colamania]

Reblogging purely for the beautiful use of the word “walnut” as an insult.

[bullletproof-love]

You’re not in love with her.

If yelling at her during an argument doesn’t make your throat burn like you just downed 6 shots, you’re not in love with her. If her eyes can’t make you stop in your tracks and think about what you’re going to say next, you’re not in love with her. If her laugh doesn’t make you tense up at your knuckles thinking about never hearing it again, you’re not in love with her. If her voice can’t calm your worst anxiety attacks and makes you not want to listen to anything she has to say, you’re not in love with her. If her smile doesn’t make your chest quake and your lungs shrink but feel refreshed all in one motion, you’re not in love with her. If her taking off her clothes is when you pay most attention to her, you’re not in love with her.

[catseyesonu]

[peachpulpeuse]

I tried to argue that Ophelia resonated because Shakespeare had made an extraordinary discovery in writing her, though I had trouble articulating the nature of that discovery. I didn’t want to admit that it could be something as simple as recognizing that emotionally unstable teenage girls are human beings. … When Ophelia appears onstage in Act IV, scene V, singing little songs and handing out imaginary flowers, she temporarily upsets the entire power dynamic of the Elsinore court. When I picture that scene, I always imagine Gertrude, Claudius, Laertes, and Horatio sharing a stunned look, all of them thinking the same thing: “We fucked up. We fucked up bad.” It might be the only moment of group self-awareness in the whole play. Not even the grossest old Victorian dinosaur of a critic tries to pretend that Ophelia is making a big deal out of nothing. Her madness and death is plainly the direct result of the alternating tyranny and neglect of the men in her life. She’s proof that adolescent girls don’t just go out of their minds for the fun of it. They’re driven there by people in their lives who should have known better.

B.N. Harrison, from “The Unified Theory of Ophelia” (via shakespeareismyjam)

[icanrelateto]

[hplyrikz]

Clear your mind here

[olearypoetry]

[purplebuddhaproject]

If you do not know how to take care of yourself, and the violence in you, then you will not be able to take care of others. You must have love and patience before you can truly listen to your partner or child. If you are irritated you cannot listen. You have to know how to breath mindfully, embrace your irritation and transform it. Offer ONLY understand and compassion to your partner or child - This is the true practice of love.

Thich Nhat Hanh (via sunflower-mama)

[findmomo]

[caitlinjapa]

I used to dislike being sensitive. I thought it made me weak. But take away that single trait, and you take away the very essence of who I am. You take away my conscience, my ability to empathize, my intuition, my creativity, my deep appreciation of the little things, my vivid inner life, my keen awareness to others pain and my passion for it all.

(via sunflower-mama)

[seanodic]

[faula-blog]

"Don't Mess With Me" Folk Charms.

To protect yourself, wear or carry coral, amethyst, diamond, pearl, ruby, carnelian, peridot, turquoise or sapphire, a tortoiseshell bracelet, a necklace of rowan berries, oak or rowan leaves. For safe travel place a sprig of mint in your wallet, handbag, luggage, or glove compartment. Wear white clothing and turquoise and moonstone jewelry. And don’t forget, 55 is a lucky travel number. To protect your space, place pine needles on the floor; twigs of papaya over the door; rosemary in the corners of a room; a pair of open scissors over the front door to cut off negativity from the outside. Place lavender near your pillow to bring sweet dreams; a full glass of water by your bed each night to collect negativity from the room; a cluster of acorns on the front door; St. John’s Wort over doorways on a midsummer’s eve; plum branches over doors and windows. If you’re in a park or walking down a tree-lined street, try standing under an oak tree or knocking on a willow tree. Use your imagination to deflect negative energy. Envision your body as being shielded by a magick circle of pure white light; mirrors that face outward, away from you; a force field; a dense hedge; angel wings. S.O.S! Hazel sprigs and moonstones both have magickal properties that protect against shipwreck. - The Little Book of Spells.

[thefemmeinist]

You are allowed to be as large as you are and larger. You are allowed to use your voice. You are aloud to live your truth. You are allowed to be broken and strong and vulnerable and exhausted and ambitious and smart and talkative and anxious and sad and angry. You are allowed to feel whatever you are feeling. You are allowed to bear those feelings to the world. You don’t have to hide. You don’t have to make yourself less then. You don’t have to starve yourself out of existence. You are allowed to be you. This is a big, wide world. And there is more than enough room for everything you have to offer. Take up as much damn space as you need.

You Don’t Have to Make Yourself Small (via thefemmeinist)

[gracewins]

[aeropostale]

[hplyrikz]

Clear your mind here

[rabbitinthemoon-blog]

Nature loves courage. You make the commitment and nature will respond to that commitment by removing impossible obstacles. Dream the impossible dream and the world will not grind you under, it will lift you up. This is the trick. This is what all these teachers and philosophers who really counted, who really touched the alchemical gold, this is what they understood. This is the shamanic dance in the waterfall. This is how magic is done. By hurling yourself into the abyss and discovering it’s a feather bed.

Terrence McKenna (via rabbitinthemoon)

[hannaoliviaway]

this morning was 👌🏼 (at Yosemite Nat'l Park)

[traversus]

Wake up and open your curtains. Your windows too.

Drink some tea or coffee, whatever pleases you. Notice every sip.

Have some fresh fruit and finish breakfast feeling full.

Stand outside and feel the air. Cool or warm, it will make you feel real.

Get some exercise. Yoga to soothe, running to breathe, lifting for strength.

Take care of your body. Have a nice shower and pamper as much as you want afterward. 

If you’re going to work, remember you have the chance to make anyone’s day or to ruin it. Act accordingly. 

Weed out the bad language. It’s only creating tension in your body and mind. Kind words are infinitely more appreciated.

Take some time each day to improve your mind. Keep reading that great book. Listen to an incredible piece of music. Practice an instrument or a skill. The progress is its own reward.

Pictures will help you remember how wonderful life is. But spend less time on your phone and more time seeing the world face to face. 

Go to sleep knowing that you have done well. Tomorrow is there with room to become even better.

-Notes to myself on how to become a better person this summer.