Hiii im Kaino/Icon i LOVELOVELOVE of Montreal and MLP !! feel free to stalk/spam like/spam reblog i dont mind!!
I am BLACK and QUEER. I LOVE BLACK QUEER ART.
I post art and my own thoughts sometimes on my side blog @iconless !! Yes i am annoying :3
only sfw interactions !! <3
If u like oM and we've interacted even once,feel free to ask for a link to the oM discord! I did not make it, i am not a mod, but its very fun and I love it there! (Ppl who participate in toxic music fandom discourse will be excluded and im sorry but if the only songs you like are the ones that r trending audios i may be slow to add you. Feel free to ask why if you want. I do NOT bite!)
im blocking you if ur a terf or proship or a pedophile. or anything else thats stupid and harmful. you people need to learn about three things and thats letting people live and understanding consent and fiction does in fact affect reality (im not a godamn nazi if i think having sex with kids is gross ) on BARNES bro
I tolerate 0 transphobia. Both transmisogynists and transandrophobes will be blocked. Anti black people will be blocked.
I do not read messages as aggressive or ill intentioned until it is undebatedly aggressive, and i do not respond aggressively to people unless you are undebatedly rude.
I believe people can change. I believe in unconditional human rights.
And i believe that kevin barnes should live forever. :3
i think the funniest thing you can ever do with a character that has a lot of focus on a specific type of attraction is headcannon them as aspec for specifically that attraction. my favourite example of this would be an aplatonic Twilight Sparkle.
med people are so annoying "This family's 8 year old child who was about to go through a major surgery and kept crying that she was hungry so they pitied her and gave her food, she then had a heart attack in the surgery. They're so stupid 😒" girl they didn't know that could happen or why it happens. it takes so little time to explain to them that will happen instead of telling them "no food" with no explanation 10 times
"Before surgery, your body’s reflexes that protect your airway are relaxed by anesthesia. If there’s food or liquid in your stomach, it will near certainly come back up and go into your lungs, which can cause choking, a severe lung / heart infection or even a heart attack. That’s called aspiration, and it is life-threatening. It's hard, but it's only a single day to prevent near certain death. Not eating or drinking beforehand massively lowers the risk and helps prevent these life threatening situations under anesthesia." <- TIP: patients have brains which allows them to receive information just like you
I have four kids. I’ve had one or another of them need some kind of surgical procedure that requires anesthesia four or five times over the past 15 years.
This Tumblr post is the first time someone has explained to me *why* I couldn’t feed them before those instances.
I’m not stupid. I understood that just fine. Hell, my kids would have understood that just fine. But no one bothered to tell us.
i did know this before having kids (i have six). we have a kid that's needed multiple procedures requiring anesthesia. and every single time, i am asked multiple times if i'm sure he was not given any food or water after a certain point.
every single time i have had to say, "i understand that if he had food or water, he could aspirate it into his lungs under anesthesia. i am not lying to you." THEN someone would make a little note and i would stop being repeatedly asked.
not a single time was that risk explained to me. the only reason it came up was because i already knew. i still don't understand why it isn't standard pre-op counseling or pre-op check information, when me as a parent acknowledging the actual risk also put THE MEDICAL STAFF at ease because i conveyed that i had informed understanding as reason to not lie about giving my kid food.
"maybe some people will get nervous and refuse surgery" okay so they need more counseling about risks and anxiety, not less information in a way that actually does endanger their child or themselves!
step one: replace entire personality with open, festering wound
step two: contort absolutely all stimuli in my environment to relate to the my wound in some manner, ideally one which justifies random acts of unbridled aggression and vengeance
