another thursday at the mall…

i'm sylvie i'm twentysomething and i like comic books & silly tv. please don’t follow if you’re under 18. they/them baybee

[lesbianmarrow]

whedon astonishing xmen wanted to be buffy the vampire slayer. buffy the vampire slayer wanted to be claremont uncanny xmen. claremont uncanny xmen wanted to be hypno fetish porn

[starspilli]

everybody loves a winner, so nobody loved me

[lesbianmarrow]

this is weird to me lol. i don’t think you should test your friends without telling them you’re testing them. it seems unkind and judgmental. if my friend invited me to go grocery shopping with them i would be so delighted because i would think it means they want to spend time with me. and if i found out they were really doing it to assess my ability to be good-tempered in a dull situation i would be so crushed. also “can you entertain yourself” is so weird like. you invited me to hang out? so we are entertaining each other. that is what friendship is. i don’t want to be friends with someone who is secretly testing and judging me

[lesbianmarrow]

@midnightatmidday REAL

[whysosirris]

[grendel-menz]

siren x vampire

[lesbianmarrow]

like unless grocery shopping is challenging for you in general, i really don’t think it’s particularly challenging to go grocery shopping with a friend. in fact it’s usually much more fun! but also i don’t think you should be putting your friends through challenges to test how worthy they are of being your friend. it’s not a kind way to approach friendship

[lesbianmarrow]

this is weird to me lol. i don’t think you should test your friends without telling them you’re testing them. it seems unkind and judgmental. if my friend invited me to go grocery shopping with them i would be so delighted because i would think it means they want to spend time with me. and if i found out they were really doing it to assess my ability to be good-tempered in a dull situation i would be so crushed. also “can you entertain yourself” is so weird like. you invited me to hang out? so we are entertaining each other. that is what friendship is. i don’t want to be friends with someone who is secretly testing and judging me

[lesbianmarrow]

new buffy comic comes out tomorrow…………..i think it will be bad

[nknkt99]

[xinakwans]

hi again, i’ve been applying to jobs + finally might have an interview, but i’ve been choosing to pay my storage unit and nothing else for two months so my credit’s pretty messed up right now with what i could defer, any help at all would be appreciated so i can pay down a credit card/one of my loans:

k*fi / p*ypal / v*nmo

[xinakwans]

$0/$471 for my credit card!

[xinakwans]

can i get $25 by july 8th for my phone to stay connected?

[xinakwans]

15/25!!

[xinakwans]

for my phone covered! trying to reach 273 for my storage unit before the end of next week (7/17)

[xinakwans]

hit with a late fee! 20/300

[xinakwans]

i’m sorry for asking so much, but i’m supported by friend for food & shelter but my storage unit WILL disappear if i cannot raise this: 25/300

[houndmother]

deriding things as performative is anti third space

[houndmother]

im sitting on a patio at my favorite cafe rn and im hand stitching them hem of a dress im working on. and i can see why someone would say im being performative by working on something like this in a public space. but frankly theres no element of that. i just want to work somewhere that isnt my apartment. i want to be in public, i wanna chat with strangers, i wanna see the world. it’s nice to hang out somewhere that isnt my home!

[houndmother]

what i mean is when you say people are being performative you discourage them from doing shit they love in public. and thats no way to foster the world we want to see.

[nknkt99]

[geyfrog]

Referring to someone as your “partner” sounds as if you are deliberately obscuring their gender and may subtly out you. “My ex”, however, is entirely unobtrusively gender-neutral. #breakupallrelationships

[lesbianmarrow]

nooooo i was gonna get chipotle for lunch but then i remembered about the parasite……

[dogboybruisebait]

A local bar is doing like a puppy girl/cat girl rave type thing and they have plastered all over it “not a kink event, this is not pet play” and I’m like are u fucking kidding me…

[xenasaur]

this event is pet serious

[hardwrench]

i dont read contemporary SFF and i dont mean that as an insult against the genre i just happen not to maybe i should so i dont really have a horse in this race but as an uninvolved observer can i at least say that i hate when a book’s marketing transparently uses “lesbian” as a modifier meaning “super zany and out-there like can you even imagine”. i find it condescending

[hardwrench]

there is no deep space nine polycule and there never will be

[hardwrench]

Morn Fucks Theory