i'm simply one hell of a transfag

this is a rant/ramble blog where i just talk about whatever. it is MOSTLY black butler reblogs. my art blog is @canis-rex-lupus & my NSFW art blog is @splatterhouze

[pbjpuppy]

my secret: making friends is so much easier once you learn not to feel guilty or nervous for existing. the more self assured you get, the more talkative you become! the more talkative you become, the more approachable you are! and as a bonus, when you feel confident casually chatting with others (randomly leaving friendly comments, or inviting someone to come sit with you) it makes it easy for people to like you!

flip the script in your brain! the people around you aren’t critics you need to impress. lots of people spend a lot of time wondering if anyone sees them. if you’re the one who has the confidence to say “hey! i notice you! and you! you’re cool!” you’ll find others naturally gravitating towards you, and friendships blossom from there :)

[beastwhimsy]

huzzletaur from a month ago that I never posted!!! next time I'll give it bird claws for one pair of legs I think..... what IS this thing !

[foreverephemeral]

this is your sign to go doodle a dragon. go do it . now

[yugsly]

Razzmatazz uses she/he ingame, right? I swear I remember he being used, but I don't know where. I'm kind of horrible at remembering pronouns for fictional characters though haha

Yup, Razzma uses she/he. Razzma is meant to be bigender

[help-lubnafamily]

I read your story and I will:

I donate the amount I can

I follow your page and share your posts

I make reminders to help you when I can

I ask my friends to donate to help Lubna and her family

Voting ended onNov 29, 2024

Unsurprisingly, the cost of living in an active war zone is very high.

Hello friends I am Lubna from Gaza, a mother of three children My middle son, Nasser, has been sick since his birth Nasser was born without a thyroid gland He needs to take thyroxine medication every day to compensate for this. Unfortunately, the doctors discovered this on the fiftieth day after birth😭 which worsened his condition for the worse, and he began to suffer from problems in perception, speech, and growth. My child is 4 years old For years, to this day, he does not speak and still uses pampers We were monitoring his condition in specialized centers before the war Things were better, and now, after 405 days of war, suffering, displacement and high cost of living, we have lost our home and our source of income We are unable to help ourselves and our children I am in the midst of a fierce battle with war conditions and the indescribable high cost of living to provide food, medicine, and care for my children I appeal to everyone in good conscience to help my family by donating or participating.

Thank you so much 🙏

You can read my story here, and donate here.

My campaign is vetted as #191 on the @gazavetters list, .

Please Help my child and my family 🙏

@bilal-salah0 @omegaversereloaded @jehadism @mauesartetc @neptunerings @wayneradiotv @itwashotwestayedinthewater @postanagramgenerator @dippersguidetotheunexplained @2spirit-0spoons @komsomolka @tamamita @serial-unaliver @a-shade-of-blue @beetledrink @bricky-b @punkitt-is-here @sayruq @apas-95 @rhubarbspring @catnapdreams @ashwantsafreepalestine @a-scary-lack-of-common-sense @that-angry-frog @isuggestforcefem @paper-mario-wiki @annabelle--cane @greetings-fiends @koobird @weirdmarioenemies @wellwaterhysteria @irhabiya @heritageposts @vampiricvenus @sporesgalaxy @buttercuparry @feluka @sabertoothwalrus @ethioirhab @prisonhannibal @opencommunion @ot3 @rickybabyboy @beserkerjewel @irangp @extremelycursedimages @whatcoloristhatcat @nyancrimew @tpwrtrmnky

[help-lubnafamily]

Please Help my child and my family 🙏

@bilal-salah0 @omegaversereloaded @jehadism @mauesartetc @neptunerings @wayneradiotv @itwashotwestayedinthewater @postanagramgenerator @dippersguidetotheunexplained @2spirit-0spoons @komsomolka @tamamita @serial-unaliver @a-shade-of-blue @beetledrink @bricky-b @punkitt-is-here @sayruq @apas-95 @rhubarbspring @catnapdreams @ashwantsafreepalestine @a-scary-lack-of-common-sense @that-angry-frog @isuggestforcefem @paper-mario-wiki @annabelle--cane @greetings-fiends @koobird @weirdmarioenemies @wellwaterhysteria @irhabiya @heritageposts @vampiricvenus @sporesgalaxy @buttercuparry @feluka @sabertoothwalrus @ethioirhab @prisonhannibal @opencommunion @ot3 @rickybabyboy @beserkerjewel @irangp @extremelycursedimages @whatcoloristhatcat @nyancrimew @tpwrtrmnky

[klapollo]

Hana-Rawhiti Kareariki Maipi-Clarke, the youngest MP in Aotearoa, starts a haka to protest the first vote on a bill reinterpreting the 1840 Treaty of Waitangi

[tigriivy]

I made this out of the rage I felt from seeing transphobic, butchphobic and enbyphobic comments in my tl.

Being a lesbian is part of my identity too and I refuse to let other people tell me I am not a lesbian just because I don't fit their binary perception of things. It's so sad to see other lesbians shitting on butches and gender non-conforming or non-binary lesbians.

But hey, we are here and we're not going anywhere, I am not going anywhere. I've always been a loud lesbian and I'll always be.

Keep being loud, proud and gentle with other lesbians and be fierce with the ones who try to erase us.

[karemandohan1999]

This is a campaign to cover the cost of buying milk and clothes for little Palestinian Hamoud for only $5.

I will donate

I will not donate

Voting ended onNov 15, 2024

Hamoud, my little boy, is only 17 months old, and he has spent more than half his life in war... He doesn’t know the warmth of a home, nor has he felt the safety of a real shelter. Every night, I hold his tiny hands and see his fingers trembling. I hear his cries, but all I can give him is my heart, yet a heart alone is not enough, and hunger shows no mercy😭😭

All I have is this tent that shudders under the rain. All I ask for are a few drops of milk, a piece of clothing to warm his fragile body, and a chance for him to sleep without the fear of freezing.

To everyone listening, to anyone who has felt the cold of winter: I ask for so little. With just five dollars, you could be the reason Hamoud gets through one night without pain.

Help me give him a warmth the rain can’t wash away, and an innocence that even war cannot take💔😔

Donation Link

Donate to Save Kareman Dohan's Family from Despair, organized by Zenzi Zeme

I’m Zenzi and have made this GoFundMe for my friend in Palestine and her family. H… Zenzi Zeme needs your support for Save Kareman Dohan's F

Or through PayPal

Go to paypal.me/donate4hamoud and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.

Our campaign is verified by @90-ghost here and @gaza-evacuation-funds here🤍❤️

[karemandohan1999]

Alhamudulilah 🥰

Thanks to our wonderful friend and thanks to everyone who contributed.

[karemandohan1999]

Alhamudulilah ❤️

Thanks to your continuous support, today I was able to provide very important goods so that we can eat and resist life🫂

This $5 made a difference, what if you donated more 🫴💗

To all the compassionate hearts out there, I want to extend my deepest thanks for your generosity, which reaches us like a breath of fresh air during these difficult days. Because of your donations, we've been able to secure some basic necessities that bring a bit of comfort amidst the hardship, like milk, cans of tuna and luncheon meat, and other essentials we rely on each day🥹🥰

Your contributions are the warmth we feel in every moment, the support that strengthens our resilience. Your kindness reminds us that we’re not alone on this journey. We hope you continue to stand by us, as each bit of help brings us one step closer to the life we dream of for our children. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts❤️

Don't stop, support now

Through the campaign link 👇

Donate to Save Kareman Dohan's Family from Despair, organized by Zenzi Zeme

I’m Zenzi and have made this GoFundMe for my friend in Palestine and her family. H… Zenzi Zeme needs your support for Save Kareman Dohan's F

Or paypal👇

Go to paypal.me/donate4hamoud and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.

[magic-can]

Senators are going to vote on whether or not we should continue to send aid to Israel on Wednesday, November 13th. Call them, bombard their phone lines with calls. Every fucking day. We have a chance of doing something about this.

While you are at it, please share @zinaanqar ‘s campaign (link here)

[anarcho-smarmyism]

help an nb and trans little sister escape TX

i haven't wanted to make a donations post for myself for the past months no matter how dire things got, considering so many other fundraisers are much more pressing, but my situation has gotten dire. i was able to leave an abusive relationship with a man who was threatening suicide on a regular basis and then cyberstalking me, but i ended up losing transportation, my job, and my housing in the process, and ultimately had to move back into a toxic and dangerous household (as in, someone pulled a gun on me to prove a point within the last week) back in Texas. as many of you know, TX has now been declared a no-travel state for trans people, and having grown up here and been a youth activist during Trump's election back when i was in high school, the local Republican Christian transphobes and homophobes know me by name and face, and my family is either unable or unwilling to give me rides to work, even assuming i can find a legitimate job. to make matters worse, my little sister is a trans woman and lives only a few hours away from Odessa, where there has been a $10,000 bounty offered for any trans people caught using the bathroom.

i desperately need to begin to save money to move; i have several possible safe places offered in North America, but with no car of my own and very limited funds, i have few options. i even had to borrow money from someone to get my old bank account out of overdraft because i couldn't get anyone to help me open a new account. i'm hoping that i can also find a safe home for my three cats, maybe even bring one or several of them with me wherever i go, but for now i have to start saving money for the eventuality that me and my younger sister have to flee within the next few months.

i'm going to try and set up an Etsy store for additional income while i try to find a job, but in the meantime, any donations or purchases of a tarot reading, or simply sharing this post as widely as possible, could be a literal lifesaver.

venmo: @Smarmy

cashapp: $smarmy1

paypal: @Regan451

(i can also use zelle)

[many-sparrows]

Howdy folks, the Senate will be considering the first ever resolution blocking arms to Israel. This is huge and historic; it would block government contracting and about $20 billion in arms and support. This is an uphill battle, PLEASE urge your senators to support S.J.Res114-115. This is maybe the most important piece of legislation relating to Palestine that we have ever gotten and we must seize this opportunity.

This doc has information on the resolutions and their process, as well as sample messages and a phone script you can use. Please, use this moment to hear witness for your neighbors.

Arms Embargo: Act Now

On September 25, 2025, Senator Bernie Sanders (Vermont) introduced two joint resolutions: S.J.Res.114-115. If passed, these resolutions woul

[sonicspocketwrench1]

This is a massive call to action even if you live in a blue state! You cannot simply trust that your senator will do the right thing here. They need to hear that we still care even if the election is behind us.

[ask-zanderman]

Help a trans person leave.

Hello, I am Zander, I am 22, AFAB, and disabled. Due to my disabilities, I can not hold or get a job, nor can I function on a "neat" schedule. As much and I'd love to hit my high-end goal of 1000 to help my WHOLE FAMILY leave the US, That simply isn't realistic. I am the one in the MOST danger in my immediate family, due to being disabled, afab, and trans. I am asking for help on here because I do not know where else to go. my commissions are open, and so are my donations via kofi only. https://ko-fi.com/paw_in_cove/goal?g=1 https://ko-fi.com/paw_in_cove/goal?g=1 https://ko-fi.com/paw_in_cove/goal?g=1 https://ko-fi.com/paw_in_cove/goal?g=1 "Why not open a go fund me?" i tried once before, but i used someone else's phone number bc i don't have one and now i'm perma locked out of my gofundme account... Also gofundme reports your earnings from donations to the state which kicks you off of medicaid and all welfair programs if you raise over 1000$.

[limbolanegames]

🔊 Our game artist Yugo has an uh, "special" way of drawing animals...

[trans-androgyne]

Remind yourself that this is temporary.

“This will mean I can’t transition” could be more accurately framed as “parts of my transition will have to be delayed.”

This won’t last forever. One day, your body is going to feel like a home. One day, you’ll have people who call you what you want to be called. One day, you’ll look in the mirror and see yourself. Please make sure you’re around long enough to see it. Sending you so much love.

[piratecaptainscaptainpirates]

Daily "avoiding hopelessness" checklist

Hey, friends. I know I've been really struggling to look towards the future with any kind of hope, so here are some little things I've been trying to do every day that might help you, too.

Accept that your productivity might look weird right now. Don't expect yourself to act as if nothing is wrong.

Make art. I try to write something every day, even if I don't really feel like it, and I've found that once I get into it, I'm grateful I did.

Do something to plan for the future. Doesn't have to be big. Even getting some ice cream you know future you will thank you for counts.

Eat. Even if you're not hungry. I keep skipping meals because I don't feel like eating, and then I force myself to make something and realize I was absolutely starving.

Clean up one thing in your space. If doing all the dishes and sweeping the floors and putting away laundry all feel too overwhelming, try just doing one of those things.

Lean on your online and offline communities. I live in a county that voted trump by a margin of eighty percent. My world feels scary and hostile right now, and it's my communities that are helping me feel hopeful.

Try to find one thing that feels normal. One thing that feels safe and normal and helps you feel a bit more grounded. My local grocery store just got their shipment of chocolate oranges in for the season. That's my thing.

Try to find one thing to look forward to, no matter how small. My thing is checking my ao3 inbox for comments on my fics.

Love you all <3

[rhad-barks]

this is really good advice. it's how i've been keeping it together. talking to my friends to remind myself there's good people out there, working on my battle jacket to vent the anger, drawing little furry ocs to feel a little more normal. i look forward to the future where i can do these things for fun again and not as a conscious effort to stay stable.

[xenasaur]

so fascinating that it/its is always the pronoun that gets Forgotten on those polls. especially bc it's probably the pronoun you use most often in speech (other than I, maybe). like genuinely what's wrong with y'all. do u genuinely have zero friends that use it/its pronouns? or do u just conveniently forget abt the "it" part as soon as they also provide you with a more "comfortable" option. anyways here's an option for if you use he, she, and they! let me know if I somehow forgot any???

[xenasaur]

yeah like ik I made the post mostly abt that one dumb poll but. this post applies in most places that have pronoun options. I have had a near identical experience in irl queer spaces I've been in. it's just so fucking infuriating tbh

[sexboobomb]

This a million times. I swear that people will do ANYTHING to avoid using it/its. And then you call them out about it and they just get all cagey like “oo as I’m sorry it’s not my fault I don’t want to disrespect you” like????

You are deliberately avoiding using the pronouns I have requested you use?? Is that somehow less disrespectful than using the pronouns I asked for? No it’s not! Use it/its or shut the fuck up so you don’t have to use any!

[rhad-barks]

here's some things i think we should do to prepare for the coming years:

• get to know your neighbors if you don't already. really talk to them, ask them what their plan is for getting through this. offer your support. community brings us strength, and if your neighbors know and like you they'll be willing to organize and take action with you! if you gotta break the ice first try doing something nice for them; offer them some baked goods or help them rake the leaves out of their driveway or something.

• become more self sustaining. start gardening edible plants such as herbs, greens, strawberries, or if you have the yard space go all the way and do all the fruits and veggies you want! share the products of those plants with your friends and neighbors, and share cuttings/seeds so they can grow some too. start learning how to sew so you can mend or even make your own clothes. learn crochet and you can make clothes, bags, blankets, and toys -- and you can donate those to people in need! wean yourself off of consumerism as much as possible, and share your skills with your community. they'll wanna share theirs with you!

• preserve your culture. i have a feeling that pretty much ANY progressive media is going to face heavy censorship and erasure, so i implore you to download your favorite queer & poc & antifascist movies/youtube videos, collect books & zines, save your favorite queer porn too. and YOU can personally preserve your culture by writing about it. write about what's happening, how you feel, how your friends and family feel, what you're planning. in the future they will try to whitewash and erase the severity of this era and we need to keep records to prevent that.

• educate yourself. go back and look at how queer, poc, and antifascist americans fought for their rights during times like this. learn from what they did and use it now. and PLEASE HONE YOUR CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS. do NOT take everything you read at face value, especially on the internet. question why things are written the way they are, question the reliability of the person telling you the stories they hear, question the sources and the proof. YOU ARE NOT IMMUNE TO PROPAGANDA.

• strengthen yourself mentally and emotionally. this might be the most important one on the list. if you are a more stable person, get ready to be there for others. if you're less stable, find that support system that CAN be there for you when you yourself can't. all of us need to find good coping mechanisms and be kind to ourselves and, most importantly, we need to be able to recognize when we're worn down from the stress of living like this so we can step back and rest. no one will benefit from you burning yourself down just to warm up others. we want you to feel supported too.

[rhad-barks]

AND we need to bring back VISUAL CODE!!!!

bring back hanky code and earring code and carabiners. bring back shoelace code!!! in a time where being openly queer or anti establishment could hurt us this could be the biggest factor in finding our community.