This is my Brain Place

Demisexual/panromantic, mentally ill, white, she/her pronouns work, 22 year old parent of a two year old. I'm not listing all my disorders up here. I'm married. I have hearing aids?

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[chronicallycozy-deactivated2018]

I swear every time I find out something new about EDS the more convinced I am that I have it. I was misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder back in 2012 when I was going through a very stressful situation in my life. My so-called bipolar disorder was 100% unaffected by medication and counselling. The only thing to this day that works to treat my anxiety is to distract myself and essentially ignore it until it goes away.

[chronicillnessproblems]

I’ve been having this problem recently not just with anxiety but depression, except that my depressive “episodes” only happen because when my adrenaline crashes whatever neurotransmitter balance I have going crashes too. And then I really really want to die, but only for 1-5 hours, and then I’m reasonably okay again. 

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i’m not even past the foreword to the art book and i’m already emotional, thanks dav

[flowerfeminism]

[the-last-noel06]

fun fact: queer people weren’t invented in the last century

[chucklebot]

I am going to find this cafe and burn it down.

[gotitforcheap-deactivated201611]

*locks eyes with the barista as I spray whipped cream into my coffee* 

[if-you-see-gay-me]

motherfucker I am PAYING for caffeine and the right to enjoy it any way I want I will cut it with sugar and mainline it right here don’t try me

[mlthrowaway]

[riverphoenixdragon]

On a happier note... Doing job applications. I’m actually kinda excited for the overnight one in a kitchen. I miss working in kitchens. Really easy to stay busy, and also a lot of fun and very engaging. And, the hours would line up so my husband could drop me off and I’d just need a taxi ride home. :)

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I know a big defense of romance novels is that they're not all about sex

And they’re definitely not! I love watching two people fall in love. I love female friendships. I love seeing people work hard to get what they want.

But there’s also something really really satisfying about reading a book where a woman enjoys sex and her partner makes sure she enjoys sex because HE wants her to enjoy sex too.

A book where a man knows what a clitoris is.

I’m typing this from my phone and my autocorrect didn’t even know what that was.

So no, romance novels aren’t all about sex, but I think it helps teach women how to enjoy sex and how to ask for what they want in bed. Which is rarely something people see.

And I just think these things are really important. And I think people who read romance novels would agree.

[diehard-fangirl]

DAMN STRAIGHT, CHICKADEE!

It’s dismissive to say that romance novels are just about sex, but it’s also sexist to say that they’re not. (That’s a bit of a simplification, I know.)

“Ooooh you just read it for the sex!” No, I don’t, but if I did WHAT IS YOUR FUCKING POINT ABOUT FUCKING? Because this just in; sex is okay. Women can enjoy sex if they want. SEX ISN’T A NO-NO FOR US GIRLS ANYMORE!

But women aren’t supposed to enjoy sex or embrace their sexuality. Women are supposed to be sex objects FOR men. So if we enjoy reading sex scenes, that means we have needs and desires all our own and that just can’t be. So obviously that just automatically makes what we’re reading trash then, doesn’t it!

These assholes come at women for sexy-time books, but seem to forget that not just straight cis women read romance. Gay and lesbian individuals, hell Asexual non-binary people…THEY READ ROMANCE TOO GODDAMMIT SO TAKE YOUR TURDTASTIC SHITTY CRITICISMS AND GO MAKEOUT WITH FREDDY KRUGER, WOULD YA?!

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[yourgaydarisonpoint]

SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND DESERVES THE WORLD

[riverphoenixdragon]

A week of "Wait, that's NOT normal???" later... And I can honestly say I didn't realize until yesterday that being in pain all the time ISN'T something most people experience. Who knew?

[riverphoenixdragon]

EEG Wednesday. MRI Friday. Neurologist and OBGYN next month. Still waiting to hear about the rheumatologist and geneticist. No driving. And my memory is STILL shot.

[tribdinosaur]

Cheek Stag Otter, with branches. Now he matches with his dad!

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I’m sorry if I’ve ever been that toxic person in someone’s life &/or hindered anyone’s growth. Even in the smallest of ways

[myfishers]

A sequel to my most popular post

[eudaemaniacal]

this is from a real diary by a 13-year-old girl in 1870. teenage girls are awesome and they’ve always been that way.

[rhube]

Read this - oh my goodness, this girl was wonderful.

[lrlamauthor]

Where can I read this in full?

[caitiesith]

It’s from  Real American Girls Tell Their Own Stories, and that particular section is by Martha Carey Thomas who grew up to be a suffragist, linguist and renowned educator, as well as a badass lesbian.

[rincewitch]

whoa i’ve seen this post a million times but i didn’t know the author had such a cool later life

[eviezella]

Please read this****

If a thief forces you to take money from an ATM, do not argue or resist. What you should do is punch your pin in reverse. EX: if your pin is 1234 you punch 4321. The moment you punch in the reverse, the money will come out but will be stuck in the machine and the machine will immediately alert the police without the theif’s knowledge. Every ATM has this feature.

Reblog this so everyone knows, this happens all the time especially in the city

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ATM’S DO NOT HAVE THIS FEATURE. I CANNOT BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE ACCIDENTALLY PUT IN A PIN NUMBER BACKWARDS AT AN ATM FOR WHATEVER REASON, AND IT JUST GIVES AN ERROR MESSAGE SAYING INCORRECT PIN.

I ALSO CANNOT BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE HAD TO EXPLAIN TO CUSTOMERS OF THE BANK I USED TO WORK CUSTOMER SERVICE FOR THAT NO, AUTOMATIC TELLER MACHINES DO NOT FUCKING DO THIS. 

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO IF SOMEONE GRABS YOU AT AN ATM AND THREATENS YOU FOR ALL YOUR ACCOUNTS MONEY? YOU GIVE THEM YOUR GODDAMN MONEY, CALL THE POLICE, AND THEN CALL THE BANK. THE CAMERA ON THE FUCKING ATM SHOULD HAVE CAUGHT THEIR FACE, AND THERES USUALLY ANOTHER CAMERA NEARBY JUST IN CASE THEY SHIELD THEMSELVES FROM THE ATM CAMERA. CALL THE POLICE FIRST, AND THEN CALL YOUR FUCKING BANK. TELL THE PERSON WHO WORKS FOR THE BANK WHAT HAPPENED, AND THEY WILL TAKE THE POLICE REPORT NUMBER, AND RETURN THE MONEY TO YOUR GODDAMN ACCOUNT.

THAT IS THE FUCKING POLICY IN THE EVENT OF THIS KIND OF CRIME BEING COMMITTED AGAINST ANY BANKING CUSTOMER.

ATM MACHINES DO NOT HAVE THIS FUCKING FEATURE, STOP SPREADING GODDAMN LIES THAT CAN GET PEOPLE FUCKING HURT SHOULD THEY BE IN THAT PREDICAMENT.

[hazah]

REBLOG IF YOU THINK PANSEXUALITY IS A LEGITIMATE SEXUALITY

i wanna come out to my mom as pansexual but when ive hinted at me not being 100% straight, she’s said its not a thing and that im too young to know (im 19) what my sexuality is and it just makes me SO MAD bc i want my mom to accept me but i think i need some support

so, please reblog if you agree that pansexuality is real and that im old enough to know my sexuality.

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Reblog if you are insecure about anything below:

-weight

-appearance

-intelligence (or lack of) 

-skills (or lack of) 

-weird hobbies

-friends (or lack of) 

-body

-personality

-family

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