My 11-year old sister recently collapsed at school because she was starving herself from feeling like she was too “fat” to dress up as Glinda for Halloween. I fear that there will be more incidents like that happening with how much Glinda’s bony chest is exposed in the movie. Do you also have any fear for how Ariana being so deep into her eating disorder will affect an upcoming generation of young girls?
Im so sorry to hear about what happened to your sister!
I understand where this is coming from, and I want to acknowledge it with care. But it’s also important to be mindful of how we talk about bodies and health. Ariana Grande has never confirmed having an eating disorder, and assuming that about her (or anyone) is speculation. Some people are just naturally thin or have body types where bones show more, that doesn’t automatically mean they’re unhealthy. I’m speaking from experience here.
It’s also not the responsibility of celebrities, or a costume, to safeguard every child from body image struggles.
A thin frame in itself isn’t dangerous. What matters most is the messages kids receive at home and in their communities. Parents and guardians play a huge role in teaching children that their worth isn’t defined by size or weight, and that they are enough exactly as they are.
I’m so sorry your sister felt that way. Please remind her as often as you can that she’s beautiful, worthy, and that she can shine in whatever costume she chooses. Kids need to hear that every day, not just when something goes wrong. With support, love, and gentle reminders, she can grow to see her own beauty and strength.
I also get the worry about how images in media will affect the next generation of girls. Representation does matter, and kids do compare themselves to what they see. But it’s not about one actress or one character, it’s about the larger culture and the conversations we have. If we want to protect kids, the most powerful thing we can do is give them resilience: reminding them daily that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, teaching them to value what their bodies can do rather than just how they look, and encouraging them to see costumes as something fun to wear. not a standard to measure themselves against.
Because at the end of the day, a costume is supposed to fit them, not the other way around.
Thanks for the question! Lots of love for you and your sister. 💚🩷
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