shit i swear by

Z & 23

[modogoblin]

[thatwitchrevan]

I personally wanna see less 'you are not a burden/it's not work to love you' and more 'you are worth the work it takes to love you.' I KNOW I'm a burden sometimes. that isn't such a terrible thing! humans are strong. we can carry burdens. and it is work for me to be there for my friends, but it's work I'm willing to do.

we need to acknowledge this because pretending love isn't work will never make people like me feel less guilty for accepting love. we need to talk about it so people don't feel bad for having boundaries and not always being up to do the work. we need to accept it so we can properly appreciate what others do for us and what we're doing for them.

yes it does take work to love you. but guess what? you still deserve love, and you deserve people who are willing to do the work to love you. it doesn't make you bad. all love take work. and everyone is worth it.

[disfordeathramps]

Alex Turner: There is always that one band that comes along when you are 14 or 15 years old that manages to hit you in just the right way and changes your whole perception of things. I don’t know what band is doing that for kids right now.

Stereogum: Maybe it’s you guys.

[lezbianz]

the grind never starts. i’m different

[hashbrownswift]

There’s a reason Rolling Stone named Red the fourth best album of the last decade: it tells the story of a young woman finding her footing as a young adult, feeling happy, free, confused and lonely at the same time. If last year’s folklore and evermore proved Swift to be one of the greatest living songwriters, Red (Taylor’s Version) only confirms that she’s always been that good.

- Phillip Garret - Vox Magazine - Red (Taylor’s Version)' review: Swift reimagines a modern masterpiece (x)

[jaylor]

[fluorescent]

[prettygirlfood]

[miniangel]

happy november

[usertaylorswift]

TAYLOR SWIFT @ The 36th Annual Rock & Roll Hall Of Fame Induction Ceremony at Rocket Mortgage Fieldhouse on October 30, 2021 in Cleveland, Ohio.

[boredpd]

tired isn’t even a mood anymore it’s my entire personality

[lisafrankswag]

[thevibraniumvoid]

Yes I re-read my own fics because I wrote them for ME

[landshark1339]

Wish that bitch would update though.

[slfcare]

be proud of yourself for

the progress nobody sees

feeling all of your emotions (and learning how to make peace with them + give them space)

standing up for yourself even though you lost people because of it

making time for yourself

doing better

saying no to people

letting go of people for your own sake

no longer allowing others to decide when you can and when you can’t be proud of yourself

[desaturated7-deactivated2021090]

interesting watching people trying to get others to take the abortion ban seriously by making it a race/class/disability/whatever issue... i like the subtle acknowledgement that if something is 'just' a women's issue then it isn't that big of a deal.

[eroscestlavie]

do you ever wonder what people say about you behind your back but like in a good way? like what are the #reviews 

[monsieurturner]

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