How to send a letter to your
desired reality s / o
yourself and / or your friends!
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OKAY SO!!! I’m not an experienced shifter or anything like that— I’m still pretty new to all of this. So take this method with a grain of salt! But!!! This is something that genuinely helped me feel closer to my DR, and I wanted to share in case it helps you too.
You can write your letter however you’d like—on actual paper (which is what I did!), in a notes app, or even a Word doc. The medium doesn’t matter—your intention does.
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STEP ONE : WRITE FROM THE HEART WITH FULL INTENT . . .
Say whatever you feel. I wrote how I was sorry I hadn’t made it there yet and how hard I was trying. You can talk about anything—how much you care for them, what you’re excited about, or what you wish they knew.
STEP TWO : TREAT THEM
LIKE THEY ARE REAL
BECAUSE THEY ARE!
Write as if you’re speaking directly to them. Be sweet, kind, respectful, loving—whatever fits the relationship. Whether they’re a slow-burn love interest, a close friend, a family member, or even your DR self, keep your connection in mind as you write.
STEP THREE :
INTENT IS EVERYTHING
Intent is the most important part of this process. If you don’t mean what you’re saying and believe it will reach them, it probably won’t. Your energy needs to be aligned with the idea that they’ll receive it. Affirm that this message is going exactly where it’s meant to.
STEP FOUR :
SCRIPT THAT THEY FIND IT !!!
Seriously — if you don’t script that they find the note or letter in your DR, they likely won’t. Be specific about how or where they find it if you want.
STEP FIVE :
ASK FOR A SIGN ( OPTIONAL )
At the end of your letter, you can write something like:
“If you receive this letter, could you give me a sign? Nothing huge, just something small like [ insert something specific but unusual you’d notice ].” Make it random enough that you’ll know it’s from them when it happens.
STEP SIX :
SEAL WITH AFFIRMATIONS
Once you’ve written your letter, say your affirmations out loud or in your mind — something like:
“This message will reach them. They will find it. They know I’m coming.”
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WHAT TO DO WITH THE LETTER
If you typed your letter:
Say your affirmations, then delete it and try to forget about it. Obsessing over it or rereading it over and over may block results.
If you handwrote your letter:
You can burn it, rip it and release it into the wind, send it in a bottle, bury it, or even ( this sounds silly but it worked for me ) flush it down the toilet. Whatever helps you let it go with belief that it’s on its way.
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JUST REMEMBER . . .
your belief, focus, and intent matter more than anything else. You’re not “just pretending” — you’re creating a connection that already exists in some version of reality.
Good luck, and trust the process 💌 Let me know if it works for you!
