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@rowdyblastyboy
My life goals VS Executive Dysfunction. Or not knowing what you want from life because if you’d want it you’d do it...right??
This one is a little sad because I don’t have the answer myself yet. (I only have this problem unmedicated though)
Yooooooo i know i haven’t been on tumblr for Literal Ages but im more active on Amino
Sooo if anyone likes anime and anime figures and stuff like that, come join my new community! Its pretty rad if i so say so myself
There are places foe anime figures, anime styled dolls (including Dollfie dreams and other anime bjds), anime merch, and all sorts of stuff. Because anime is awesome and cringe culture is dead
Anyway come join! (๑>◡<๑)
http://aminoapps.com/c/AnimeFiguresCollectors
A place for all anime figures, dolls, and their collectors!
Yooooooo i know i haven’t been on tumblr for Literal Ages but im more active on Amino
Sooo if anyone likes anime and anime figures and stuff like that, come join my new community! Its pretty rad if i so say so myself
There are places foe anime figures, anime styled dolls (including Dollfie dreams and other anime bjds), anime merch, and all sorts of stuff. Because anime is awesome and cringe culture is dead
Anyway come join! (๑>◡<๑)
http://aminoapps.com/c/AnimeFiguresCollectors
A place for all anime figures, dolls, and their collectors!
any other autistic people wake up absolutely STARVING every morning? I get nauseous and dizzy sometimes with how hungry I am at like 7am. I often make full dinner-like meals in the morning cause I’m so hungry. what gives
uh, i mean
i’m pretty sure this is just a human thing? because when you sleep you’re not eating...?
it would almost make more sense for me if autistic people didn’t feel hungry after waking up because sometimes we don’t interpret signals like hunger correctly. i know i don’t.
that’s just me though, i know everyone’s experiences are different!
attention! the male ace trainer in pokemon masters is autistic. i've claimed him as one of us.
you forgot the most #relatable line he has
Autistics: one of us
A thousand clown ass allistics in the comments of this post, predictably: um actually autistic people are not allowed
ooo, i like this a lot! (but also, can we like...chill a little bit with 'omg precious soft boy baby child' because like...tad bit infantilizing. i know it's not meant to be that way but i've had people literally respond that way to me, a human being, and it's...funky. so anyway, lol)
Autistic iida headcanons? Sorry if you've already done some I couldn't find them 😳
my BOY. i love iida so much and i can definitely so some hcs for him.
he very obviously stims with his hands. lots of body stims!
he’s a big stickler for routine (also obvious in the manga/anime). he doesn’t like breaking rules unless he absolutely has to, and deviating from his personal routines makes him very uncomfortable.
tensei was always super supportive of tenya, starting from when he was diagnosed as a kid. he always listens to tenya’s infodumping, even when it gets a little technical.
tenya’s special interests focus a lot around vehicles, especially fancy technical ones and new technology. he likes planes and jets a lot, and goes deep into the technical aspects of them when he’s infodumping. most people can’t follow it at all, but his friends don’t mind and will always listen. (momo actually does get a lot of it though, because she’s fascinated with how things are made and how they work.)
tenya oscillates a lot between super verbal and nonverbal, especially when he’s stressed or very focused on something. he’ll talk constantly for a bit, then suddenly goes quiet and will usually stay that way for the rest of the day. if he’s forced to talk and interact a lot during these times, it’ll often lead to a shutdown or meltdown.
tenya’s meltdowns aren’t very verbal, but he does move a lot. he’ll rock quickly, cover his ears, and often lashes out at anyone that gets too close to him. tensei is the best at getting him to a safe place, as tenya recognizes him best when he’s in the midst of a bad meltdown.
i could do a lot more tenya honestly, and maybe i will soon. i have some aus with him as well~
Iida is autistic. I will fight on that to the death he’s my fav
SAME I LOVE HIM SO MUCH??????? SUCH A GOOD BOY UG
(also @ everyone i am TRYING to get back into writing so i will slowly be responding to all the requests in my inbox! i’m not ignoring anyone, i promise!)
Hi!! I’m ND with combined type ADHD so basically all the variants of adhd lol Though I am not diagnosed w autism, am I still allowed? I relate to your blog a lot and love what you do!🧡 I just don’t want to impose!
you’re absolutely allowed! all ND friends are allowed here. we’re all basically cousins anyway lol
that autism feel when you dont know youre hungry til you get the shakes and you dont know youre thirsty til you get a headache and you dont know you need to pee til youre bursting and you dont know its hot til you start sweating
Kid me: Why is that rude?
What I meant: Tell me what’s rude about this so I can avoid saying other rude things.
What people seemed to hear: I refuse to acknowledge I said anything rude. Fuck you and your whole family.
@ the person who sent a prompt about the dekusquad, i promise i’m working on it! it’s taking a little longer than expected, heh
i should have it done soon!!
every time an allistic person thinks their opinion about how autistics should live matters, i get a little more feral
reminder that requests for headcanons/aus/drabbles/etc. are always open! i’ve been kinda low on ideas recently but prompts help!!
Why "doing something relaxing” does not help your anxiety
A lot of the time when people give advice intended to relieve anxiety, they suggest doing “relaxing” things like drawing, painting, knitting, taking a bubble bath, coloring in one of those zen coloring books, or watching glitter settle to the bottom of a jar.
This advice is always well-intentioned, and I’m not here to diss people who either give it or who benefit from it. But it has never, ever done shit for me, and this is because it goes about resolving anxiety in the completely wrong way.
THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO when suffering from anxiety is to do a “relaxing” thing that just enables your mind to dwell and obsess more on the thing that’s bothering you. You need to ESCAPE from the dwelling and the obsession in order to experience relief.
You can drive to a quiet farm, drive to the beach, drive to a park, or anywhere else, but as someone who has tried it all many, many times, trust me–it’s a waste of gas. You will just end up still sad and stressed, only with sand on your butt. You can’t physically escape your sadness. Your sadness is inside of you. To escape, you need to give your brain something to play with for a while until you can approach the issue with a healthier frame of mind.
People who have anxiety do not need more time to contemplate, because we will use it to contemplate how much we suck.
In fact, you could say that’s what anxiety is–hyper-contemplating. When we let our minds run free, they run straight into the thorn bushes. Our minds are already running, and they need to be controlled. They need to be given something to do, or they’ll destroy everything, just like an overactive husky dog ripping up all the furniture.
Therefore, I present to you:
THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO WHEN ANXIOUS
–Go on a walk
–Watch a sunset, watch fish in an aquarium, watch glitter, etc.
–Go anywhere where the main activity is sitting and watching
–Draw, color, do anything that occupies the hands and not the mind
–Do yoga, jog, go fishing, or anything that lets you mentally drift
–Do literally ANYTHING that gives you great amounts of mental space to obsess and dwell on things.
THINGS YOU SHOULD DO WHEN ANXIOUS:
–Do a crossword puzzle, Sudoku, or any other mind teaser game. Crosswords are the best.
–Write something. It doesn’t have to be a masterpiece. Write the Top 10 Best Restaurants in My City. Rank celebrities according to Best Smile. Write some dumb Legolas fanfiction and rip it up when you’re done. It’s not for publication, it’s a relief exercise that only you will see.
–Read something, watch TV, or watch a movie–as long as it’s engrossing. Don’t watch anything which you can run as background noise (like, off the top of my head, Say Yes to The Dress.) As weird as it seems, American Horror Story actually helps me a lot, because it sucks me in.
–Masturbate. Yes, I’m serious. Your mind has to concentrate on the mini-movie it’s running. It can’t run Sexy Titillating Things and All The Things That are Bothering Me at the same time. (…I hope. If it can, then…ignore this one.)
–Do math problems—literally, google “algebra problems worksheet” and solve them. If you haven’t done math since 7th grade this will really help you. I don’t mean with math, I mean with the anxiety.
–Play a game or a sport with someone that requires great mental concentration. Working with 5 people to get a ball over a net is a challenge which will require your brain to turn off the Sadness Channel.
–Play a video game, as long as it’s not something like candy crush or Tetris that’s mindless.
THINGS YOU SHOULD DO DURING PANIC ATTACKS ESPECIALLY:
–List the capitals of all the U.S. states
–List the capitals of all the European countries
–List all the shapes you can see. Or all the colors.
–List all the blonde celebrities you can think of.
–Pull up a random block of text and count all the As in it, or Es or whatever.
Now obviously, I am not a doctor. I am just an anxious person who has tried almost everything to help myself. I’ve finally realized that the stuff people recommend never works because this is a disorder that thrives on free time and free mental space. When I do the stuff I listed above, I can breathe again. And I hope it helps someone here too.
(Now this shouldn’t have to be said but if the “do nots” work for you then by all means do them. They’ve just never worked for me.)
This would’ve been great an hour ago
If your anxiety includes rapid heartbeat for no reason then it may help to exercise! It helps for me because I’m focused on whatever moves I’m doing and breathing, and it gives my heart rate a reason to be that high so that I can start the slow cooking down process and (hopefully) bring that heart rate down with it. Look up a quick cardio workout on YouTube or something and just do it in your room!
This is so, SO true.
All ‘doing something relaxing’ ever did for me was give my brain MORE free time to FREAK THE FUCK OUT.
I like how this boil down to grabbing something then tell the brains weasels to GO FETCH YOU PIECES OF SHIT
I mean.
That’s basically it tho.
Special interest emoji asks
Please don’t rb if you’re not autistic!
💖 Current special interest?
🔥 How many special interests do you have at the moment?
😇 If your special interest is a video game/movie/tv show/etc, who’s your fav character from it?
💎 When and how did you discover your special interest?
✖️️ Is there something you don’t like about your special interest?
🐒 What’s your favorite line from your special interest if it’s a video game/movie/tv show/etc?
💫 Favorite fact about your special interest?
💕 What’s your fav thing about your special interest?
🍳 Do you have a stim related to your special interest?
🌠 What’s a past special interest?
🏘️ What was your first special interest you can remember?
🍭 What’s a headcanon/theory you have about your special interest?
🌟 Did someone introduce you to your special interest?
😂 Something funny about your special interest?
self calming stims after confrontation ft my security blanket thats sadly falling apart to shreds 😞
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3 - white transguy in big thin framed glasses and a grey short-sleeved shirt with grey and purple diamonds and triangles on it has his knees to his chest with a planet themed quilt thats old and has holes in it wrapped around him as he rubs part of the quilt between his fingers whilst rocking side to side and wiggling his toes with his chin/mouth snug in the crevice of his knees}
