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Hello, really loving your posts and wish you could share more insights on composite. Anywho, what do you think about composite moon opposite venus?
Composite Chart in Astrology
The Composite is a mid-point method and shows how the relationship between the two will be, not in theory but in actuality. How they operate in practice. It is not a synastry chart where we place two charts together side by side/ or on top of one another and see the impact two people have on each other. Synastry is how two people’s planets get along. The composite chart is the energy of the relationship. It’s the final result of synastry. The biggest difference is that you have more control over a synastry aspect than a composite aspect. A composite chart basically becomes its own entity. The relationship itself has its own birth chart basically with a Sun, rising, moon etc. As a result, basic relationship dynamics can be seen in the composite chart.
Basics of the Composite/How to Read a Composite
Interpret planets by House and Aspect
Ascendant: How the relationship started & how others / environment see you + Degree + Ascendant ruler [=Area of focused expression]
Sun [houses and aspects]: Indicates what brought you together and what goal you have in life. [Aspects to Sun : Shows purpose of the relationship supported or not]
Moon : Emotional connection & the soul of the relationship
North node : Indicates in what direction you should grow as couple
Note Stelliums
Meaning of the Houses
1st House
Planets in 1st are directly and most immediately felt by the couple. This is how they operate with one another and how they are perceived immediately by others. How their relationship typically plays out/the energy of it.
2nd House
Deals with the possessions and values of the couple. Their ability to share with eachother and maybe even the income they make with each other. The sign this house is in van indicate how they demonstrate their values to each other.
3rd House
Is about communication, and how the couple thinks about their environment. They way they communicate and their intellectual understanding of each other and the relationship.
4th House
One of the core houses to observe in the composite [Davison or Midpoint]. This house can indicate whether the couple will last or whether they’ll settle down with one another. Moon here is fabulous. Uranus, which is an erratic and unstable planet is not the best.
5th House
This has has to do with the fun and creativity a couple demonstrates with one another in the relationship. Kids, etc. An occupied 5th can indicate the couple may wish to have kids together. This can also indicate whether this will be more of a fling than a long term commitment. Like the 8th, sexual activity can be seen here. Saturn here can also restrict fun and creativity in the couples relationship or lack of kids. Well performing Saturn can make it a long lasting sexual connection.
6th House
Represents where the couple will be tested, in order to handle the outside world. It deals with the couples everyday work and routine.
7th House
Is the house of intimate lovers or open enemies. A Venus placed in 7th can display itself as two people beginning the relationship off as lovers but also where one can hurt each others [feelings[ enough for the relationship to devolve into arguments and at worst, enemies. Venus in the 7th on the other hands, can slo be one of the primary indicators of marriage/romance.
8th House
The couples ability for commitment and ownership together. 8th is death, sex, and other people’s resource. Joint accounts and possessions. An occupied 8th shows a profound bond between two people. deep intimacy and transformation. Deep sexuality.
9th House
Shows how the couple explores and thinks with the higher mind about the world together. Their beliefs. How they expand together.
10th House
Deals with the status and prestige of the couple, How they appear to the public. As a couple, it shows how they navigate the world in an outward manner. The serious approach to life and the relationship.
11th House
The social activities and social culture of the unit. Their peers, social circle/friends. How those in their environment see them. their relationship’s acceptance by society and also their social limitations. Pluto here can mean their relationship can be perceived as forbidden.
12th House
A full or occupied 12th house can be challenging in a composite chart, since it’s the house of the unconscious feelings and all things hidden. This can indicate mixed signals, confusion, miscommunication between the two people involved. Adversely, it can create a feeling of fatedness, soulmate binds, spiritual ties and even psychic connections.
Composite Ascendant/Sun
Type of couple, how your relationship appears to others. Ego/ Personality of couple Aries : Active, self-sufficient, confident, bold. Careful with impatience or bullying.
Taurus : Traditional, practical, Stable, security minded. Careful with rigidity or bull-headedness/possessiveness.
Gemini : Mental, instinctive, restless, adaptable, social. Careful with duplicity or inability to commit. Cancer : Emotional, Security, comfort. Careful with moodiness or neediness.
Leo : Confident, compassionate, popular, warm, dramatic Careful with arrogance or pride.
Virgo : Practical, detail-oriented, tidy/prim and proper, perfectionistic. Careful with criticism or letting anxiety overwhelm you/
Libra : Compromising, loving, sociable. Balanced compromising. Careful with too much passivity or superficiality.
Scorpio: Intense, transformative, sexual, probing, private. Careful with Possessiveness and jealousy.
Sagittarius : Adventurous, independent, bold, optimistic, careful with tactlessness and drama.
Capricorn Focused, structured, perhaps an age difference is there. Careful with lack of emotional demonstration or pessimism.
Aquarius : Independent, unconventional, quirky, philanthropic, brilliant. Careful with flightiness or inability to commit.
Pisces : Dreamy, spiritual, sacrificial, silent, creative, emotional. Careful with co-dependency or martyrdom.
Asteroids to Consider
Eros : Mutual passions, erotic connection, sex & obsessions.
Psyche : Intuitive connection. Psychic bond of two people/where it will display itself [look at sign and house].
Juno : “You and I” dynamic. Nature of commitment in marriage-like sense.
Ceres : Nurturing connection
Vesta : Dedication & Commitment
Chiron : Deepest wounds. Indicative of the struggles of the couple and where healing is needed between two people to make relationship function.
North node : Purpose of the relationship. Life goal of the relationship/trajectory.
Aspects
Conjunction : Binding force, depending on the planets combined. Be mindful of too much power exuded here as a conjunction is still a hard aspect/fusion of energy
Sextile : Harmonic union, comforting, pleasing.
Square : Challenging, however with understand break-ups are not as common
Trine : Harmonic union, cooperation is organic.
Opposition : prone to push pull and make u/break up themes, strong attraction.
Favorable Aspects for Compatibility
Sun conjunct Venus = Love union, warm mutual feelings. Like and love each other.
Sun conjunct Jupiter = Luck and growth. Prosperity, Optimism forgiveness and abundance. Pride of the couple.
Sun conjunct Moon = love that feels divine. People who like and love each other.
Sun trine Moon = Natural compatibility. Nurturing. Understanding
Sun conjunct Uranus = True unconditional love
5th ruler and 8th ruler conjunct = Very passionate, active sex life. Key to look at these houses and aspects.
Sun in 7th = Indicate lovers or enemies.
Moon in 4th or 7th = Excellent for a relationship or marriage
Venus in 4th or 7th = Excellent placement for relationship and marriage
Venus opposite ASC = Deep love.
Venus-Mars = Sexual attraction. Natural pairing.
Stellium in 8th = Very deep, intense bond. Transformative [look for harmonious aspects or conjunctions]
Venus-Moon = Emotional balance.
Jupiter conjunct DSC = Mutual understanding & support
Neptune conjunct Jupiter = Soulmates, spiritual
Sun-ASC or ASC ruler = Chance for survival
Juno in 1 or 7th = Fated
Juno conjunct DSC = Fated. Karmic. Met each other before.
Stellium in the 1st = relationship will be important part of the couple’s identity. Drama may be played out at face value so out so careful if you don’t want the world involved in your business.
Difficult Aspects [long term]
Multiple squares = Challenging relationship. Misunderstandings. Tensions.
5th ruler and 8th ruler square = Lifeless sex, strange uncomfortable vibe.
Planets in 12th house = Secrecy. Misunderstandings. Cheating.
Mars conjunct Saturn = Sexual distance. One is hot while the other is cold. Unnecessary formalities. Drive is impeded.
Nessus or Sado forming many squares = Abuse/ sadism masochism. Some might like it hot like this but if there is no balance it can get outta control.
Saturn square/opposite Mercury = Communication struggles. Restricted speech. Two people don’t express what they really want to say.
Lilith square Chiron = Lack of depth, conflicts of past wounds, particularly in the sexual realm. Couple that wounds each other.
Saturn square to the nodes = Bad indicator for long lasting relationship. Also an indicator of lack of support with goals [north node].
Jupiter or Venus square/opposite Uranus = Divorce/break-up aspect
Sun square/opposite Saturn = Something is missing. Power struggles.
Neptune in hard aspect = Beautiful beginning, sour endings, deception or rose colored classes come off
Neptune to Mars in hard aspect = sexual idealism. Disappointments in sex. Couple that cheats on each other.
Mars in hard aspect to Uranus = Sexual attraction, competitive & quarrelsome
Sun in hard aspect to Pluto/Mars = Power struggles. Intense and out of this world sex but can be an abusive or manipulative relationship.
Note: Aspects that appear in composite can be traced often back to the natal chart of either person. it will likely be a natal aspect and an astrologer can tell who will play out more of the theme in the relationship/or who will be more comfortable with the energy.
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— James Baldwin, Conversations with James Baldwin
what does having a t-square mean? i have 2.
The T-Square:
As you can see, the T-Square is an aspect that is formed by one Opposition, and two Squares forming out of the Opposition, leading to a point in a chart that is also called the 'apex planet/focal point' of this aspect pattern
The T-Square defines itself by following points:
-> possible drastic behaviour and strong emotions. The focal point to the squared planet makes this are in the chart very reactive. A lot of frustration that comes from the opposition is channeled into this apex planet.
-> the squared planet can be a focal point in the native's life as it is the outlet for the reoccuring frustration of the opposition
-> the apex planet those hold the reigns: as the opposition try to find a compromise - which can lead to nothing/stagnation - the apex planet manages the opposition and becomes 'the one in the middle'
-> this behaviour can manifest in the individual's environment: the dynamic of 'two are at fight and one stands in the middle' can reflect in the people around them, situations, etc
-> as the apex planet tries to make sense out of the opposition and takes up all the tension, the apex planet becomes driven to find a solution and has to take action. They feel the responsibility to take action and improve/better the situation created by the opposition
-> thus with the T-Square there is the potential to become even overly ambigious, most likely it creates a lot of ideas and plans that the individual wants to follow through
-> depending on the modalities involved this can become easier or harder: a fixed T-Square might find it easier to follow curse, while the cardinal and mutable T-Square can find it easier to channel their energy and find a clear direction in all that action they create
-> the apex planet can thus be compared to the lesson learned to resolve the tension of the T-Squre
-> the 'ghost leg': there is another theory to use the sign opposite of the apex planet as another focal point to resolve the tension of the T-Square, it is another point that can point to a 'lesson to be leanred/understood', even if it's unoccupied. The 'ghost leg' can represent solutions you haven't considered yet, are overshadowed, might be considered unrelated, etc.
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This might be weird because idk if you accept asks like this but. Have you read any slavic horror? Do you have recommendations?
I absolutely accept asks for recs, but I admit I haven’t read a lot of Slavic horror, and what I have read was mostly Russian. If anyone has something to add, please feel free!
Viy and A Terrible Vengeance (short story), Nikolai Gogol
The Vampire, Aleksey Tolstoy
The Little Angel and The Seven That Were Hanged and Other Stories, Leonid Andreyev
The Motion Demon, Stefan Grabiński (maybe The Dark Domain, I haven’t been able to find that one)
There Once Lived a Woman Who Tried to Kill Her Neighbor's Baby, Ludmilla Petrushevskaya
Can’t vouch for but you could take a look:
Seven Terrors, Selvedin Advic
The Bone Mother, David Demchuk
Łukasz Orbitowski
Lear (@bluebeardsbride) pointed me in some interesting directions: this list with recommendations for horror stories by Polish women writers, and the existence of Darker magazine.
Hope this helps!
Are there aspects of the natal chart that indicate that a person attracts people who become possessive or obssessed with them?
Oh my gosh yes😭
🥀Astro Attraction 101 —
Possessiveness/Obsession
Hey love, before we proceed let me make sure that we're on the same page here. Obsession/Possessiveness ≠ Love.
In no way am I romanticizing or promoting toxic relationships, people who experience abusive patterns whether mentally or physically, should always receive immediate medical attention and local authorities should also be alarmed if your mental/physical safety is harmed or threatened. The listed points are strictly from my personal observations, experiences and/or known astrologers' work as well as some minor research. Please do not label anyone with these placements.Thank you🖤
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🍿Venus - Pluto aspects & Moon - Pluto aspects
A classic. I notice that the harder the aspect is (square, opposition) the worse it may be manifested into the native's life. Usually very seductive and daring. Any person with tight Venus/Moon- Pluto aspects (esp if its placed with more Pluto energy and/or fixed placements) will tell you that they had at least once have someone who was obsessed with them.
The trine/sextile is usually very subtle and more about admiring from a far or having secret crushes on the native (considering there's no extra Pluto energy or even more indicators ) While I notice that the conjunction can be scarily alarming. The native will receive a lot of unwanted attention, male or female and depending on the rest of their charts, I doubt any of them will enjoy this nature. Others may try to over-sexualize them or make extremely inappropriate jokes about their body. The opposition/square will amp up the native's distaste for the strangers and will make them very suspicious and careful of people in general as well as having some horrible encounters with stalkers or people over idealizing them.
🍿Pluto square ASC
Tend to make very intense first impressions, standing out in a crowd without trying, a lot of power struggles, and always attracting stalkers. People either love them or despise them, and if its the latter, others will attempt to sabotage these individuals or make an example of them.
Sadly, every action of them are overanalyzed by others and ever since they were a kid, they could have had severe image issues regarding their bodies due to people constantly giving out comments.
Its as if the more they try to hide themselves, the more curious others get.
🍿Mars in water houses (esp 8H)/ Scorpio degrees/ anaretic degree (29°)
These people often struggle with profound questions about existence and its hidden meanings on an internal level.
These natives are always on the lookout for these responses yet with it is extremely difficult at times.They don't want other people to see how soft and vulnerable they are, so they keep it to themselves. Their psyche and feelings are multi-layered.
This perhaps is why they attract so many obsessive people. Everyone loves a good challenge.
🍿Pluto - ASC aspects & Pluto in the 1st house/ 7th house/ 8th house
If the 1H is the self then the 7H is the mirror of the self while the 8H is the sea of truest desires. With the planet of Pluto here, individuals with these placement magnetically find themselves surrounded with stubborn and dark people.
While some of them may feel at home with Plutonians, others simply will not.
🫀Pluto conjunct the midheaven/ the Sun &
🫀NN - Lilith/Eros/Pluto aspects
Very similar to Pluto 1H but less personal. These placements manifest a fiery and seductive nature. The smallest thing they do will be consider as provocative for absolute no reason.
I observed that these natives must be careful when it comes to finance. Others may come to them purely for their resources and public image.
🫀Mars — ASC aspects
Mars. Hot & heavy but not nearly as cold and detached like Pluto. Both are independent in their own ways but Mars - ASC tend to be very outwardly driven people.
Hot without trying too much. Their passionate way of life draw people in. Especially people who have a harder time relating to the more artistic way of life.
🫀 Pluto dominant/ Mars dominant
Loads and loads of buried pain and grief. They then feel the need to put up a certain front to fight off this effect.
For some reason, people tend to be attracted to this forever burning fire in them.
They look untameable and usually pretty independent people. Others are fascinated by their ability to detach and distance themselves from the rest of the crowd. Long and lingery gazes.
🫀Mars in the 1st house/ 7th house, Mars - Pluto aspects &
🫀Mars conjunct the midheaven
They aggressively attract aggressive people. This energy may feel so different and new to them yet also so at home.
Strangers will look at them. They ignite a burning fire in everyone of us.
They can be very defensive and arrogant at first glance. But I see a lot of people being drawn to them due to their daring and witty way of life. Life of the party.
🫀Venus in the 2nd/ 8th / 12th & Stellium in 8H/Scorpio
Embodiment of the saying "Attracting people is the problem but the type of people you attract is a problem"
Others are drawn to their sacrificing and alluring nature like fireflies.
A lot of the time, not all of these natives realize the effect they have on people, esp 12H Venus. People would always want to open them up and study them and the further they get in, the more obsessive they become.
Very tolerating towards people they love. Which is why they attract a lot of energy vampires. These people feed off their compassionate and deep nature.
🫀Lilith - ASC & Lilith in the 1st/ 4th/ 7th/ 8th/10th
🫀Lilith - Moon aspects & Lilith - Mars aspect & 3h/7h/11h ruler aspects to Lilith
Forever someone's guilty pleasure.
People literally want to have a taste of them, to see through their minds and soul and the more they resist and run away, the more people go after them. Very draining and horrible experiences with strangers a lot of the time.
As for Lilith - Moon aspects. The moon rule over people. People are not only find them mysterious. but also enchanting, always feel so exposed most of the time. Its so easy for people to see their weak spot too.
[ And of course.. The attraction and dynamic between two charts is heavily influenced by their interactions. Although it's difficult to identify an obsessive pattern, comparing two charts is a much easier way to see if two people are pulled towards each other! ]
— Some classical ones would be🤎
An abundance of Lilith/Plutonian & Mars synastry/composite
-> PAINFUL. life-changing relationships are created and there are so much lessons learned.
8th house synastry/composite , especially between personal planets or prominent planets
-> Love-hate relationships. Also a lot of tears and obsession.
2H ruler towards the others personal/prominent placements in synastry/composite
-> Lets not forget 2H is all about possession and resources. The 2H person would want to literally "own" the planet person
12H synastry/ Fixed synastry & composite
-> While this can be very fun and life-changing relationship, I always tell people to be sure what they want in life before entering one. Fantasies and over idealistic are common. Also stubbornness will prevent these people to move on.
— Some interesting thing I notice on the side🤎
Pisces placements/Neptune dominant individuals/12H stellium also attract a lot of stalkers and people who would go to hell and back for them. Also the degree of 12° in any major planet ( 12° ASC /Mars esp) will tend to attract a lot of people who are crazy about them. Literally. This is because obsession is also ruled by the 12°. Neptune also ruled over seduction. Similarly, the 8° can also manifest the same thing as it also rule over obsession.
The themes of worship is ruled by Jupiter and co rule by Pluto. Hence Jupiter dominant people will also attract people who blindly worship them and put them on a pedestal.
Fixed rising, Water Rising tend to have a lot of secret admirers. People underestimate Pisces Rising a lot when Neptune literally ruled over cocain:D
Uranus dominant/ heavy Aqua people may randomly arouse others. This is because Uranus rules over compulsion. (Also the 11th degree too!)
Also, the 2nd degree esp in ASC, Mars and Venus or prominent planet must be aware with people and be extra careful if ever needed with strangers. Since 2° = one's strongest desire.
So it is done🥳🥳 Gosh I worked on this one for so so long haha but I really hope you guys enjoyed this!!! I know I've been so MIA these days i'm so sorry luvs:((( I had to work on the readings & hella school/job at the same time 💀so i'm getting there I promise I'll be more active;)
Anyways I am rambling now!! I really hope you guys love this:) lemme know what yall think down below🤍
love,
saint jenx🪐
Hi! What houses, placements rule how we dress in the chart? Thank u!
Hello thereee
I hope you're having an amazing day! Regarding your question, I can think of a few! 😆
Astro and Personal Style
I'd look into:
The 2nd house ruler/ascpects to 2nd house: While the 7th house is how people see you in close relationship, 2nd house talks a lot about your self-esteem and value, as its ruled by Venus, 2nd house ruler can show us a lot about our style and how we dress!! (it can show us how we're gonna make the most money too LOL) Also, check the aspects 2H ruler have! The tighter the orb is the more significant it is! (eg: 2H ruler - Aquarius Sun conjunct Saturn -> very put together sense of fashion, boujee, expensive yet look very modern.)
Your Venus and you Mars. Like it or not these two planets can seriously tell you how you dress. I notice that masculine signs tend to be very flashy or in your face kinda energy🤣 while femine signs tend to lean more on dressing casually but still very chic and clean.
I think the sun also comes to play too!! Even your mercury and moon can be a huge indicator:) this totally depends on ur prominent planets! (chart ruler, dominant planets, etc) Check its aspects to the ASC and 2H ruler! I would even go as far as taking the degree into consideration as everything matters! Find out more about degree theory here beautiful 🦋 (fire degree will dress to be noticed/try to add more red or bright colours to their clothes and usually love to be trendy, air degree like to stand out and to look different, water degree look very relatable and sultry, earth degree are in love with business attire,etc)
Placements in ur 1H and aspects your 1H rulers make!<3 Mercurian 1H usually look fantastic with silver jewellery and have this playfulness with their clothes, Mars 1H LOVE showing skin, Jupiter 1H dress however tf they feel like, etc.
Fire placements loves to be seen, air placements usually dress very trendy but unique and flattering and earth placements dress to impress and to be functional, water placements dress for their moody and feels to be acknowledged.
eg: I have Leo rising, 2nd house in Virgo 17°(leo degree), my Mercury(Virgo) is in Gemini (also mercury) in the 10th house.
-> I LOVE business attire and kinda flashy, expensive looking LOL. Anything satin, monotone of simple yet eye-catching prints got me like🥰🥰🥰 I loveee tops that show my curves and dresses that hug my waist! Also I either look hella crusty or very put together, no in between ahaha lmao💀
This is me in one of my casual fit HAHAHAH you can see what i mean when i say cAsUaL now!!!
And here is a real casual fit HAHA, you can really see my Virgo 2H 17° Leo degree in this, I like a clean and sleek look hehe I won't leave my house underdressed😃🤓
So thats barely brush off the top of this whole idea! If you guys have more questions or fun facts, be sure to share in the comment<3
Post you and your style with your placements and tag me in it, i'd love to see and analyze it with y'all🥳🥳
love,
saint jenx🖤
Are there aspects of the natal chart that indicate that a person attracts people who become possessive or obssessed with them?
Oh my gosh yes😭
🥀Astro Attraction 101 —
Possessiveness/Obsession
Hey love, before we proceed let me make sure that we're on the same page here. Obsession/Possessiveness ≠ Love.
In no way am I romanticizing or promoting toxic relationships, people who experience abusive patterns whether mentally or physically, should always receive immediate medical attention and local authorities should also be alarmed if your mental/physical safety is harmed or threatened. The listed points are strictly from my personal observations, experiences and/or known astrologers' work as well as some minor research. Please do not label anyone with these placements.Thank you🖤
master-list I — master-list II
🍿Venus - Pluto aspects & Moon - Pluto aspects
A classic. I notice that the harder the aspect is (square, opposition) the worse it may be manifested into the native's life. Usually very seductive and daring. Any person with tight Venus/Moon- Pluto aspects (esp if its placed with more Pluto energy and/or fixed placements) will tell you that they had at least once have someone who was obsessed with them.
The trine/sextile is usually very subtle and more about admiring from a far or having secret crushes on the native (considering there's no extra Pluto energy or even more indicators ) While I notice that the conjunction can be scarily alarming. The native will receive a lot of unwanted attention, male or female and depending on the rest of their charts, I doubt any of them will enjoy this nature. Others may try to over-sexualize them or make extremely inappropriate jokes about their body. The opposition/square will amp up the native's distaste for the strangers and will make them very suspicious and careful of people in general as well as having some horrible encounters with stalkers or people over idealizing them.
🍿Pluto square ASC
Tend to make very intense first impressions, standing out in a crowd without trying, a lot of power struggles, and always attracting stalkers. People either love them or despise them, and if its the latter, others will attempt to sabotage these individuals or make an example of them.
Sadly, every action of them are overanalyzed by others and ever since they were a kid, they could have had severe image issues regarding their bodies due to people constantly giving out comments.
Its as if the more they try to hide themselves, the more curious others get.
🍿Mars in water houses (esp 8H)/ Scorpio degrees/ anaretic degree (29°)
These people often struggle with profound questions about existence and its hidden meanings on an internal level.
These natives are always on the lookout for these responses yet with it is extremely difficult at times.They don't want other people to see how soft and vulnerable they are, so they keep it to themselves. Their psyche and feelings are multi-layered.
This perhaps is why they attract so many obsessive people. Everyone loves a good challenge.
🍿Pluto - ASC aspects & Pluto in the 1st house/ 7th house/ 8th house
If the 1H is the self then the 7H is the mirror of the self while the 8H is the sea of truest desires. With the planet of Pluto here, individuals with these placement magnetically find themselves surrounded with stubborn and dark people.
While some of them may feel at home with Plutonians, others simply will not.
🫀Pluto conjunct the midheaven/ the Sun &
🫀NN - Lilith/Eros/Pluto aspects
Very similar to Pluto 1H but less personal. These placements manifest a fiery and seductive nature. The smallest thing they do will be consider as provocative for absolute no reason.
I observed that these natives must be careful when it comes to finance. Others may come to them purely for their resources and public image.
🫀Mars — ASC aspects
Mars. Hot & heavy but not nearly as cold and detached like Pluto. Both are independent in their own ways but Mars - ASC tend to be very outwardly driven people.
Hot without trying too much. Their passionate way of life draw people in. Especially people who have a harder time relating to the more artistic way of life.
🫀 Pluto dominant/ Mars dominant
Loads and loads of buried pain and grief. They then feel the need to put up a certain front to fight off this effect.
For some reason, people tend to be attracted to this forever burning fire in them.
They look untameable and usually pretty independent people. Others are fascinated by their ability to detach and distance themselves from the rest of the crowd. Long and lingery gazes.
🫀Mars in the 1st house/ 7th house, Mars - Pluto aspects &
🫀Mars conjunct the midheaven
They aggressively attract aggressive people. This energy may feel so different and new to them yet also so at home.
Strangers will look at them. They ignite a burning fire in everyone of us.
They can be very defensive and arrogant at first glance. But I see a lot of people being drawn to them due to their daring and witty way of life. Life of the party.
🫀Venus in the 2nd/ 8th / 12th & Stellium in 8H/Scorpio
Embodiment of the saying "Attracting people is the problem but the type of people you attract is a problem"
Others are drawn to their sacrificing and alluring nature like fireflies.
A lot of the time, not all of these natives realize the effect they have on people, esp 12H Venus. People would always want to open them up and study them and the further they get in, the more obsessive they become.
Very tolerating towards people they love. Which is why they attract a lot of energy vampires. These people feed off their compassionate and deep nature.
🫀Lilith - ASC & Lilith in the 1st/ 4th/ 7th/ 8th/10th
🫀Lilith - Moon aspects & Lilith - Mars aspect & 3h/7h/11h ruler aspects to Lilith
Forever someone's guilty pleasure.
People literally want to have a taste of them, to see through their minds and soul and the more they resist and run away, the more people go after them. Very draining and horrible experiences with strangers a lot of the time.
As for Lilith - Moon aspects. The moon rule over people. People are not only find them mysterious. but also enchanting, always feel so exposed most of the time. Its so easy for people to see their weak spot too.
[ And of course.. The attraction and dynamic between two charts is heavily influenced by their interactions. Although it's difficult to identify an obsessive pattern, comparing two charts is a much easier way to see if two people are pulled towards each other! ]
— Some classical ones would be🤎
An abundance of Lilith/Plutonian & Mars synastry/composite
-> PAINFUL. life-changing relationships are created and there are so much lessons learned.
8th house synastry/composite , especially between personal planets or prominent planets
-> Love-hate relationships. Also a lot of tears and obsession.
2H ruler towards the others personal/prominent placements in synastry/composite
-> Lets not forget 2H is all about possession and resources. The 2H person would want to literally "own" the planet person
12H synastry/ Fixed synastry & composite
-> While this can be very fun and life-changing relationship, I always tell people to be sure what they want in life before entering one. Fantasies and over idealistic are common. Also stubbornness will prevent these people to move on.
— Some interesting thing I notice on the side🤎
Pisces placements/Neptune dominant individuals/12H stellium also attract a lot of stalkers and people who would go to hell and back for them. Also the degree of 12° in any major planet ( 12° ASC /Mars esp) will tend to attract a lot of people who are crazy about them. Literally. This is because obsession is also ruled by the 12°. Neptune also ruled over seduction. Similarly, the 8° can also manifest the same thing as it also rule over obsession.
The themes of worship is ruled by Jupiter and co rule by Pluto. Hence Jupiter dominant people will also attract people who blindly worship them and put them on a pedestal.
Fixed rising, Water Rising tend to have a lot of secret admirers. People underestimate Pisces Rising a lot when Neptune literally ruled over cocain:D
Uranus dominant/ heavy Aqua people may randomly arouse others. This is because Uranus rules over compulsion. (Also the 11th degree too!)
Also, the 2nd degree esp in ASC, Mars and Venus or prominent planet must be aware with people and be extra careful if ever needed with strangers. Since 2° = one's strongest desire.
So it is done🥳🥳 Gosh I worked on this one for so so long haha but I really hope you guys enjoyed this!!! I know I've been so MIA these days i'm so sorry luvs:((( I had to work on the readings & hella school/job at the same time 💀so i'm getting there I promise I'll be more active;)
Anyways I am rambling now!! I really hope you guys love this:) lemme know what yall think down below🤍
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saint jenx🪐