i know i join a group and realize i dont like it or i get really overwhelmed if it's too big, and then my anxiety stops me from sending in a message to say i'm leaving or the vibe doesnt fit. i know it's whack but ive had experiences where admins have yelled at me for leaving right after joining so now i just wait for activity to kick me out
i can see how that can happen with big groups. though they were fun in the past, i just don’t think i have enough time and energy that they require in order for me to have fun. after a bit it seemed like a chore to do replies to many many people. my experiences on people ghosting are from smaller groups and it’s more evident on who’s not talking or interacting since the dash is slow. yikes? an admin yelled at you for leaving?! as if you signed a contract for you to stay in the group? they should’ve been glad that you told them directly wtf

















