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Keeping the level of freshness in a relationship in my opinion is one of the hardest things to do mainly because it depends on who you are and who your partner is. I am a person that loves to go to new places, restaurants, explore new things but I now understand it's not always that way for your partner. Some partners love routines. Going to the same restaurant for breakfast, same bar for drinks, going through the same day off routines. And truly, although sometimes it can make life stale it's important to make sure you and your partner have the same interest in lifestyle. I'm all about having a cheers type bar or restaurant but if I'm gonna do that I would like to do it every other weekend. Note to self: next time my prince comes walking into my life I have to make sure we agree on this plan. :)

#truth #truelove

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His family is my family and my family is his family. I have a really good friend that makes merging families look so easy. I know from personal experience how tough that is to do. However, I’m taking notes seeing my friend do this so effortlessly. And, well granted everyone’s family is different and it’s all not bunnies, rainbows and butterflies… I know she truly lucked out. But, who says with a little time and effort things can’t change. I’m trying my hardest to take notes so I can do the same as my friend.

Spending time with his family one on one is so important and goes such a long way. I love discovering and trying to mesh with his family favorite things to do. It not only helps you bond but you’ll be surprised to find some things in common.

This can be either an uphill battle or pure bliss.

#familyfirst

My Love.

#myperfect #myeverything #imready

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I recently decided to do a challenge list for myself of things I always wanted to learn how to do or play but I was always very insecure to try. And the more I thought about it I realized this would be a great way to incorporate my love or get practice by going to play with him. My main goal is to live life with no insecurities or fears of trying something new. I sadly at one point in my early twenties allowed it to hold me back but not anymore. After all we only get one life, right? Best way of living and loving is living your true self. ❤️

#trueself #mylove #imreadyforyou #letsgo

For you my love. I vow to you.

#imreadyforyou #truelovemyloveletsdothis

#truelove #peace #illbeseeingyou

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Kissing. Out of the blue just grab your love and have a good make out sesh. It's the best. It will not only give you both a good intimate moment but it will also get you both thinking of the bigger picture... Some sexy time. The best.

#truelove #peace #illbeseeingyou

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Acting weird with each other and laughing at the fact you get your own weirdness. One of my favorites things to do is just to be silly with my love or do something out of character to make him laugh. It's the best and even better when he does it back.

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Sanity Get Aways. Sometimes it's easy to get stuck in the bustle and hustle of work that you forget about living life. I love traveling and exploring new parts of LA and Northern California. When you feel that work is sucking the life out of you surprise your love or plan a quick weekend getaway.

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There is nothing better in this world than feeling appreciated and loved by your love. I love walking into a room and catching eyes with my love and seeing the proud look in his eyes to see me. I love feeling the same way.

When you have that feeling reciprocated it’s the best. You know that being proud to be with one another is real. And I truly believe that’s when you know you’re with the right person.

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Little things. When he looks at you across the room and he doesn’t have to say a word for you to know its time to go, or he needs help, or he just wants to say I love you. The best. Find your own language. It works every time.

My hero. #Coco #Chanel

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Cry Baby. Once upon a time when I was in a committed relationship I used to be so super extra sensitive. I mean I would start crying or tearing up over any little thing. I admit it, crying so much was just too much.

Since that breakup,I’ve learned a ton about myself. How not to cry and how to be less sensitive. Woah! I honestly never thought it would be possible. But, I learned that tears should be saved for only loss of a loved one, sympathy for a loved one and when they are tears of happiness… Meaning they should only come to light on rare occasions.

Let me clarify its not that I was using my tears for evil or to get away with anything I wanted. I was just super sensitive and in retrospect perhaps it was because I was unhappy and I had no idea how to communicate my unhappiness. I’ve learned a lot since then. I wanna remember not to take things so personal but most importantly to use my words to express my emotions. So don’t be a cry baby.

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I love learning from other friends relationships, what to do and what not to do.

Mainly I like learning what not to do. I have a friend that is so good at humiliating her husband in front of everyone. She truly doesn’t care and what’s even sadder is that everyone, I mean everyone talks about how she scolds this poor guy like a child. Many times most of us cringe at the sight and just walk away because she’s just too much.

As of recent I made the mistake of saying what everyone in the room always thinks when she goes on one of her tirades. It’s not only humiliating for the dude but most of us feel awful at how much of a “ripping a new asshole,” she often rips on this guy many times over the smallest insignificant shit. Since then our friendship hasn’t been the same. Let me back track some. I cold heartedly admit I shouldn’t have never said anything. It was none of my business. I believe I said something like ease up on the guy we’re all having fun. The guy did nothing wrong but maybe not manage to do something “right” according to my friends expectations. Well she not only went off on me but kept on berating the poor guy. He more than likely apologized to her because he’s a nice guy. It’s just this awful cycle that has been going on for years and it’s awful to watch. Just reminds me of how easy it is to forget how good you have things in life. This man from what all of our friends have seen treats this woman right, I mean dotes on her and does all he can to take care of her. It’s sad when the other person can’t see how good things are until they fall apart. And sadly, I believe they will eventually come to a halt.

The biggest thing I learned time and time again from watching situations like this unfold is not to let the little things get in the way of life and being a good person to your love. And secondly, when married you’re not the mother so don’t scold your boyfriend, love and or husband like a child. Keep it light.

#notyourmama #keepitlight #love #embraceyourlove #neverknowwhenitwillbegone

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