Real Spanking - Miguel S. - Amarillo, TX
"The following interview was transcribed - all portions of which were reviewed and edited by the interviewee and subsequently authorized for release in the following format:
Miguel Sanchez (MS): 'The most memorable? Well, I'd been working with my oldest son Michael, to refine those parts of his behavior that would prove to his mother and I that he was capable of keeping himself out of trouble, before he left for college. But the more pressure I exerted, the more defiant he became. And it all came to a head one afternoon the summer after he'd graduated high school.'
Ryan Holder (RH): 'How much of your approach would you attribute to this being your first born son?'
MS: 'Ha! As my first-born, Michael bore the brunt of my fatherly efforts. I was determined to make him, and all my sons really, know how to conduct themselves as respectable, soulful people.'
RH: 'Did your approach change as a result of your experience with Michael? Did you exert the same standards with your other sons?'
MS: 'We raised three teenaged sons at the same time. I really want to be able to say that I treated them all equally, but it never works out like that. By the time my third son was old enough to get into deep trouble, all I had to do was remind him of how much his brothers cried when I took my belt to their bare asses. That was enough to get him to pull his own head out of his culo.'
RH: 'But that wasn't the same for Marcus, I imagine. What happened that day?'
MS: 'Well, he'd already been grounded at the time. I'm not entirely sure I remember why. But it obviously meant nothing to him.'
RH: 'What did being grounded mean back then?'
MS: 'Being grounded meant not leaving the house - period. And it certainly meant not running to the park for a pick up game. And it also meant not lying about it when he was caught coming back home. Being grounded, for my sons, meant spending a week in the house with no outside influences and often times a long list of extra chores.'
RH: 'So, how did he respond to being caught?'
MS: 'He had no idea I was back home. He was certainly shocked!.'
RH: 'How'd you handle that?'
MS: 'I remember how upset I was - at his total defiance. I had serious doubts about how we were going to trust him to do the right thing in college if he couldn't accept a simple punishment at home. I doubled down on his ass! I told him that he'd be spending the rest of his original sentence in his room now- with a belted red ass.'
RH: 'Was that something you handled immediately? Or something you'd consult his mother on before hand?'
MS: 'Oh, it was immediate. His mother and I were certainly on the same page. I told him he'd be going right upstairs - No passing go - Directly to jail. I told him he'd be there for the rest of the week, with his door constantly open so I could watch him 24 /7.'
RH: 'Was the belted red ass an immediate repercussion? Or did you make him wait and wonder if you'd forgotten all about it?'
MS: 'I never forgot. I handled it right then and there. I told him to stand up - to drop his shorts - and to bend over my desk. I told him to put his chest down and wait right there while I went upstairs to get out the belt. I remember I told him that I was going to use the special belt this time...'
MS: 'It wasn't that special - it was the same one I usually used on my kids when they needed it. But it sure got him thinking. And I left him there long enough to really think!'
MS: 'Partly like he knew he deserved it. But mostly like he couldn't believe I gave it to him as hard, or as long, as I did. It wasn't too bad, just more than he was expecting.'
MS: 'Eventually - I sent him to his room to cry it out. I walked by his open door three hours later and he was still obviously emotional. I didn't reconnect with him until much later that night - when I left a sandwich on his night stand just before midnight. He woke up and we talked it out. That really helped clear the air and he understood that I meant what I said earlier - that he still had a few more days of thinking left.'
RH: 'All for the better then?'
MS: 'He understood the message. I was glad that not all my boys required the same approach to make that connection.'
RH: 'Thank you, Miguel! i appreciate your time.'
MS: 'My pleasure! I hope this helps other dads out there.'"
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